Does Your Partner Have To Go **DOWNTOWN** To Keep Your Sexual Interest??? - Page 3

Incognito · (#51 (**permalink**))

You got it bro...and I don't even smokeniceone.gif

Be interesting to see if a threadabout swallowing semen would go down as nastiness...any takers...and just like Jett and the orallers out there, I know enough women who have admitted to swallowing. Just take a browse of those men and girlie mags to see where we get it from...conceptually as far removed from Africa as you could possibly get...but no doubt the practise can be traced back to some African village somewhere:?

Gmahogany. · (#52 (**permalink**))

What I find more interesting than who does or doesn't:lick,suck, or swallow, is why people who claim to not partake in any of those things, CARE so much that others do? What's it to u? Unless I plan on extending or accepting a private invite into a particular person's boudoir, why would it concern me? Usually when people are preoccupied with a private act that 2 grown people engage in, in the privacy of their own bedroom, it's because: A. They aren't doing it, but WANT to be doing it, and are pissed off that some folks ARE doing it andNOT feeling bad about it (like some of these religious crusaders)or B. Are doing it, but feel guilty about it and feel compelled to "cleanse" themselves by railing against it.

Beyond that, the human mouth is probably the most germ filled place on the human body....

jett Black · (#53 (**permalink**))

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You got it bro...and I don't even smokeniceone.gif

Be interesting to see if a threadabout swallowing semen would go down as nastiness...any takers...and just like Jett and the orallers out there, I know enough women who have admitted to swallowing. Just take a browse of those men and girlie mags to see where we get it from...conceptually as far removed from Africa as you could possibly get...but no doubt the practise can be traced back to some African village somewhere:?

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Dude there is no swalloing happening up in my crib,but I tell you this if your ish tasted like Haagen Daas you'd be hard pressed to EVER get me off your tings!

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I'm waiting for the day when I initiate oral pleasure for my boyfriend to push my head away and say "STOP,STOP,this is totally against my African morals and principles".

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........Wait is that hell I hearfreezing over in the distance??

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Brrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Prince Hakeem · (#54 (**permalink**))

Those who speak up against it the most are those who love to practice it behind closed doors. I hate it when some people chat fart about what Africans did/didn't do sexually....so you're telling me the 'African way' was just laying there like a dead fish for 5 minutes?

I can only imagine how boring some people must be in the bedroom.....

Gmahogany. · (#55 (**permalink**))

jett Black wrote:

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I'm waiting for the day when I initiate oral pleasure for my boyfriend to push my head away and say "STOP,STOP,this is totally against my African morals and principles".

LOL.

jett Black · (#56 (**permalink**))

Gmahogany. · (#57 (**permalink**))

Prince Hakeem wrote:

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Those who speak up against it the most are those who love to practice it behind closed doors. I hate it when some people chat fart about what Africans did/didn't do sexually....so you're telling me the 'African way' was just laying there like a dead fish for 5 minutes?

I can only imagine how boring some people must be in the bedroom.....

LOL

Incognito · (#58 (**permalink**))

Hey killing is against my principles but who's to say I'm going to go my whole life without killing somebody....difference is I wouldn't then say killing is right.

Stay in Ghana long enough andno doubt you'll be eating cane rats for dinner. it's all about where you draw your reference from and in that sense oral is grey mans business period. It doesn't come naturally to us which is why there is a thread discussing it.

Aryek · (#59 (**permalink**))

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I guess a battywash is just part of foreplay as well.

How cultural expectations have changed eh?

Don't be obtuse. I'm not trying to define what constitues as foreplay and what doesn't. Some people are into battywashes and other kinds of things, I may not agree with it. I certainly won't be participating in it but if it is what they want and if they find someone with the same sort of mentality, then good for them.

What I'm objecting to is the assertion that until the white man introduced going "downtown" and other sorts of sexual practices to our culture, no African in the history of mankind was doing this. If you haven't been in the bedrooms of every African, then don't be making assumptions about what sexual practice is African and what isn't.Why people feel like they need to regulate what goes on in other people's backyards is beyond me.

Obtuse? No no Im being straight to the point. Because in the time Ive been on this Earth Ive noticed something. 15-20 years ago you wouldnt even broach the subject if so inclined with a woman.. as she would write you off as a nasty bredder..even if she was secretly begging for it herself. This is what I mean about cultural expectations. They have changed.

I think we can make assumptions about sexual practices since we can make assumptions about other spheres of life when we compare cultures. Now the main reason I know it to be shunnedis because of hygienge issues. Can we not make assumptions about the hygienge of whites generally in this country. Granted they have improved but it was not uncommon for white people to have a bath 2 or 3 times a week. To wash their hair in the kitchen sink. To have the family dog eating off their plate. To have white men bragging how they hada furry burgerlast night..ad infinatum.

Similary we can assume Africans are different on the above..at this point in time..it is not the cultural expectation of any African to have a dog living in their house. To not wash meat before they cook etc etc. However that may change with outside influences.

So why can this not extend to bedroom practices. Am I in the kitchen of every white and black person to be able with some accuracy to make these assumptions. Or are they not based on anecdotal eveidence/ first hand experience/ basically the cultural expectation of each party.

Nothing to do with regulation. Personally what "you" or do not do is not my concern. Got better things to worry to be honest. But let me ask you a question? Do you expect most of your peers woman or man to be into defecation and the like. Is such a practice likely within your culture or within a European one however limited? If you can make an assessment on one then you must can make the other. It doesnt matter how impartial you may try to be - there will be an expectation based on previous experinece/ on the liklihood of such a thing occuring.

Tell me its lie Im talking...

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It's a lie you're talking. Last time I checkedEuropean culture wasn't promoting defecation and the like any more than African culture.Sexual fetishes exist outside of cultural expectation. I wouldn't expecteither Africanor Europeancultures to have a monopoly onpeople withthese fetishes when bothcultures considerthemas deviant behaviour.

Aryek · (#60 (**permalink**))

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If given a choice between "Down-Town" and "Walking on fire", then I will gladly walk on fire like these guys below even though I have not attempted to walk on fire bare-foot. If given a choice between Downtown or face the lions below, then I will take my chances with the lions. I will remain the "African Warrior".

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Yeah right. If it really came down to facing these lions and nyaming pussy, you know damn well you would be nyaming till the cows came home.

Bredder Tukoma · (#61 (**permalink**))

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It's a lie you're talking. Last time I checkedEuropean culture wasn't promoting defecation and the like any more than African culture.Sexual fetishes exist outside of cultural expectation. I wouldn't expecteither Africanor Europeancultures to have a monopoly onpeople withthese fetishes when bothcultures considerthemas deviant behaviour.

Ok then live in denial.How many African publications/magazines/newspapers you see publish such stuff.. and thensee how readily it can be found in European ****. Better still find me some African **** mags if there is no monopoly or a cultural slant towards these forms of cultural expression.

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The whole world is equal in its sexual practices regardless of culture eh? Yeah alright..dream on.

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