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07-04-07, 12:11 PM
Hey ladies, does a size of your boyfriend anatomy determine your relationship, does it matter if it is big or small.
would u stay with your partner becauseof his size. email me back with your thoughts.  have any of you all been in a relationship that was based on s-x only.
do you think it is healthly to stay in these relationships?
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Hey ladies, does a size of your boyfriend anatomy determine your relationship, does it matter if it is big or small.
would u stay with your partner becauseof his size. email me back with your thoughts.have any of you all been in a relationship that was based on s-x only.
do you think it is healthly to stay in these relationships?
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If it is so important, shouldn't you check before agreeing to be his girlfriend in the first place? Make it a condition of accepting a proposal to go out. Alternatively, make sure it is stated in your personal ad, if you use this method for seeking a partner:
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"Attactive, vivacious young professional female, seeks similar intelligent professional male. Must be over 6 foot, have a job, his own house and a car (so he doesn't have to fleece off my six figure salary). Oh, and must be hung like a donkey! Those interested in a serious relationship only, need apply."
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There are those who feel that the only way to ‘prove their own worth’ is by ‘devaluing the worth of others’. You will often find that a man who is compelled to measure his substance against the substance of another, has little of substance in the first place!
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07-04-07, 07:52 PM
as T-Boz sings on "Girl Talk" (3D) "If you ain't packing, put your tongue in it." Plenty ways to get around a "small problembanana.gifSeriously, since woman mostly get aroused from stimulation other than penetration, it technically shouldn't matter, except to the mans pride ad aesthetic purposes.
If in doubt, get the rabbit out!
YOU ARE NOT DEFINED BY OTHER PEOPLES\' OPINION OF YOU!! ;0)
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28-05-07, 12:02 PM
Loving the T-Boz reference!!!!clp)
Well, as someonewho was withMraverage tool for 20 years. I can honestly say it very much depends on whether they know how to manage their tools! (INCIDENTALLY HE DIDN'Tmad-moonie)
I have had many a chat with the girls and we have discussed the many issues around sizes....
At the end of the day...if a man knows the many ways to please a woman...then he will know that size does not guarantee satisfaction. Big guys tend to think they don't need to do much and guys with less than average tend to be more creative! Sorry but a bit of creativity wins EVERY time! clp)
Oh and a personality too!niceone.gif Nothing worse than a dumb big dick/dickless man!
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28-05-07, 03:00 PM
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Well, as someonewho was withMraverage tool for 20 years. I can honestly say it very much depends on whether they know how to manage their tools! (INCIDENTALLY HE DIDN'Tmad-moonie)
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL, I bet when you two were in your hayday you were saying something different then 
I have had many a chat with the girls and we have discussed the many issues around sizes....
Exactly the answer is not definative, all depends on preference, some sistahs prefer smaller and others prefer the opposite. But.... and here is where I become corney now....... sex is only one part of a relationship so much more has to work well as well.niceone.gif
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28-05-07, 04:08 PM
The size of a man in a relationship should not be a primary consideration as to the man's worthiness as a potential 'mate'. It does however depend upon what type of relationship the woman wants. If it is a bootycall type situation which does notoffer the emotional and loving commitment of a real relationship then size will be a determining factor.In my personal opinion,emotionalintelligence in a man tends to magnify the size of his penis anyway!!!niceone.gif
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28-05-07, 04:50 PM
In a word yes. Anything less than 6" just isnt going to cut it. But a man who is creative and open minded goes a long way aswell!
We all self concious, Im just the first to admit it...
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28-05-07, 11:31 PM
LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department. blkangry
Just remember I have nothing togain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me,size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings" and I got used to going without!
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!sh1
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!):?
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28-05-07, 11:32 PM
LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department. blkangry
Just remember I have nothing togain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me,size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings" and I got used to going without!
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!sh1
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!):?
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28-05-07, 11:32 PM
LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department. blkangry
Just remember I have nothing togain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me,size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings" and I got used to going without!
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!sh1
This is kinda like the Marmite argument! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!):?
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28-05-07, 11:34 PM
LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department. blkangry
Just remember I have nothing togain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me,size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings".
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!sh1
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!):?
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28-05-07, 11:34 PM
LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department. blkangry
Just remember I have nothing togain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me,size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings".
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!sh1
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!):?
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28-05-07, 11:37 PM
LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department. blkangry
Just remember I have nothing togain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me,size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings".
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!sh1
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!):?
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