Hey folks I have another question...

Say there are two dudes;

Dude 1: Nice guy, clean living, honest, likes you, has no kidsetc....

Dude 2: Nice guy too, you know they get up to some dodgy stuff, likes you, has a couple of kids etc....

Now, you know dude 1 is better for you, but you prefer dude 2....confused3

You are NOT a child anymore so its not like you are a young girl going after the 'bad boy', but you seriously prefer dude 2, what should you do:

a)Get a grip, grow up, go for the safer option

b) Go for the preferred option

c) Leave them both alone

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Hey girlat face value, I'd say know exactly what you are looking for first of all. If you dont mind a casual relationship/rubble in the wee hours/wahala (trouble)all the while etc... go fordudeNo2.

However, if you prefer something more stabble/healthy/all round better prospects go for dude No 1.

In saying that,I know I have presented a sterotypical view and it could just be dude No.2 that offers you stability. Overall, I feel it's best to know what you are looking for honestly...nothing wrong with wanting fun...if you can handle all the emotionalwahala that it will potentially bring. You are still young - get out see the world!

Please tell me you went and you had fun, fun, fun banana.gif

Leave them both alone. Are they the only 2 men left? A man can be "nice" and still have qualities that attract you to him sans the bad baggage. Maybe you're not into #1 b/c you don't share similar interests w/him. If that's the case no amount of adoration (on his part) or stability will make that relationship work. If you're into #2 Because of the "bad-boy" image, then I would say you need to grow up. If you like him in spite of his past because he has somewhat redeeming qualities and you are willing to risk it by giving him a chance then I would say consider it, but just don't have high expectations.

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@ Melissa, male number 2 despite his 'interesting' lifestyle seems like a nice person. I even made it clear the type of person I am, I said I'm a nice, decent respectable girl am I'm not just into having 'fun'. He said that is what he wants. @ BFG, I will let you know how I get on... @ Afriki, male number 1 and me always have a lot to talk about but I feel he's too into his own little world i.e. I'm ambitious, want to see the world, he's happy just living his little life... Ah I dunnoconfused3I'll see what happens, thanks for the advice though...niceone.gif

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