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Lightbulb Choices - 29-07-07, 02:02 AM

Satisfaction VS. scariface ...two of the most common choices we battle with in life.

Can we really admit to making the right choice in every aspect of our lives?

Are we really honest to ourselves or do we opt for a more easier, less stressful and less complicated way out of a situation? is that really the right choice to make?

How many of us can honestly say we have opted for a more difficult situation knowing that it is the right choice and have dealt with the drama's and affects of that choice?

When do we know we are making the right choices in life?


Has choice become one big 'risk' game?

How do we know we are right and by who's standards do we know that the choices we are making are right!?


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speech 29-07-07, 02:17 AM

A majority of our choices are influenced by family, friends, lifestlyes, up bringing and even the various standard of ethics protrayed to us by society, so before final decisions are made we go through a constant battle of uncertainty.


I write about my experiences, my life, I write about change, never sugar coated. The truth I speak evolves in a beautiful way. Acceptance of others I do not seek for it is not man who has created me so I believe in speaking freely - Yaya
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Default Interesting questions yaya - 11-08-07, 08:41 PM

Can we really admit to making the right choice in every aspect of our lives? This in my opinion is the easy part. It's admitting when we have made wrong choices that is harder.

Are we really honest to ourselves or do we opt for a more easier, less stressful and less complicated way out of a situation? Sometimes we can do this without even realizing it! is that really the right choice to make? Sometimes it's right at a certain point in a persons life.

How many of us can honestly say we have opted for a more difficult situation knowing that it is the right choice and have dealt with the drama's and affects of that choice? I've done this many times but because I try and relate the potential long term benefits of the choice that I felt to be right.

When do we know we are making the right choices in life? When we have made enough wrong choices to know better!

Has choice become one big 'risk' game? It always has been but the more of life you experience the less fear you have of the risk working against you.

How do we know we are right and by who's standards do we know that the choices we are making are right!?I'd say it's best to focus on what is right for YOU but not the point that it puts out those around you who are aimportant part of your life. The standards should really be your own but it's hard at times to overstand why you have certain standards and perhaps reconsider if those standards are maybe too high or unrealistic at that period of time.


“If people around you aren't going anywhere, if their dreams are no bigger than hanging out on the corner, or if they're dragging you down, get rid of them. Negative people can sap your energy so fast, and they can take your dreams from you, too.”
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