women of BNV would you accept a second hand engagement ring?

Kunjufu · (#1 (**permalink**))

Women I was just reading this story and i wondered would any of you take a ring that had been given to someone else? I always thought women were fussy about things like that, but apartly not if Sarkosi is anything to go by... Would you accept an egagement/wedding ring that had been worn by the previous partner?

Dead Ringers: Sarkozy takes revenge on ex-wife by giving new love Carla the SAME diamond ring | the Daily Mail

astmartins · (#2 (**permalink**))

Typical of the french...they have been known to have their exes as their best man or maid of honour at their weddings..... you know with them anything goes...well ladies of BNV over to you

comfortandjoy · (#3 (**permalink**))

if it was a family heirloom, possibly yes. Otherwise - no.

Vezz. · (#4 (**permalink**))

It seems Sarkosy bought the same ring....not prised the first ring off Mrs No 1's finger, so saying it's secondhand is a misnomer.

Not an ex's ring....and if he offered it to me I'd seriously reconsider the engagement.
However, I'd consider a family heirloom.

Black_Power · (#5 (**permalink**))

*off topic*

both them women look more or less the same to me. I guess humans are creatures of habit afterall.

Melissa · (#6 (**permalink**))

How much is it worth?

Footprints · (#7 (**permalink**))

The question is why he did it, if it was to get back at his ex I would not play along.

The Watcher · (#8 (**permalink**))

If you're a public figure whose every little detail is big news then you're a bit stupid to do that.

For the non celeb... well if you get it polished up and put in a new box and so on... how would she know?

LOL Doesn't "family heirloom" merely mean that a succesion of men in that family were cheap and clever?

Kunjufu · (#9 (**permalink**))

You women are either two faced or damned liars.. so if i buy Oonu the same dress as i bought an ex and called it an Heirloom Oonu would be happy..yea right!!! and since when did it become vogue to same the same tings that everyone else has....especially the woman had?

Oonu too lie!!! ROTF

astmartins · (#10 (**permalink**))

^^
Thanks even the new engagement ring has to be of a certain standard

nat2323 · (#11 (**permalink**))

no!

it would bother me wearing a partners ex 's ring, suppose she dead and try tek it back in the middle of di night

Femergy · (#12 (**permalink**))

[quote=Kunjufu;1455804]Women I was just reading this story and i wondered would any of you take a ring that had been given to someone else? I always thought women were fussy about things like that, but apartly not if Sarkosi is anything to go by... Would you accept an egagement/wedding ring that had been worn by the previous partner?

U mad?

sargaco · (#13 (**permalink**))

No,! At the back of my mind I would always be thinking that the ring had one previous owner and I was second choice. But if it were an heirloom I would be honoured because it means that you are carrying on a family tradition. But the trouble with heirlooms is that it is not yours andyou can't take it to the pawn shop if the relationships ends.
If my perspective husband gave me the same style ring as his ex., I'd think that he was not bright enough to take into consideration my individual taste or he was trying to find a clone which would lead me to wonder his suitability for marriage.

Footprints · (#14 (**permalink**))

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kunjufu

You women are either two faced or damned liars.. so if i buy Oonu the same dress as i bought an ex and called it an Heirloom Oonu would be happy..yea right!!! and since when did it become vogue to same the same tings that everyone else has....especially the woman had?

Oonu too lie!!! ROTF

Njufu if lets say the love of your life wears the same wedding dress she wore when she married her ex husband, it wouldnt be a big deal to you?