There are plenty of good black women

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OUT THERE: Professional women do exist


I guess this question should be asked by black women, where are all the black men?

I honestly haven’t seen any successful black men with black women. I have worked in the City and Docklands and the women I see black men with are predominantly white or sometimes Asian.

My mates and I went for an after-work do, filled with potential black professionals, as we entered the room our eyes were satisfied but lo and behold not one black man approached me or my black mates. But one of my mates, who is white, blonde etc, had all the black men flocking to her. She pulled every black man in there.

We felt disgusted and sick to the stomach. I must say my mates and I are very attractive, educated and good mannered black girls. We talk to just about anyone especially in that kind of environment, where everyone's out to have a good time.

The few black men that are not with white girls, are either taken, or are downright idiots. I love black men but they need to fix up. How many black successful men have black women? In response to Phinn (Voice Feb 11-17). there are plenty of single, educated, mature, church going, beautiful, successful, ‘take me home to mama’ black girls out there. Where are you looking?

Samantha

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maybe shes ugly??

or is she was so botherd about it then why didnt she step to someone she found attractive in there?

KMT I hope she reads this

see me im not about to step up to a bunch of women on my lonesome to pull one because too many times her friends are a bunch of cock blocking bunny boiling men haters who would try and throw salt in the game simply cos they aint getting no action

maybe the blackmen in the room felt the same

besides white girls are easier to pull...maybe they just fancied a quick sucky sucky

Hmm...maybe the white ones have a better understanding of the career/mother/wife divide

My thing with our women is African men like African women theres no doubt but its the posturing and @BP is right for a change!!! their friends are a pain in the neck whereas the YT gal pals would actually help their mates score and even bring the chap over...the worse bit is our women have completely forgotten how to flirt how can a woman forget how and when to flirt without being a slut???....too fu*king proud!!
Having said all that the African women in the North say in Leeds are great..good company

I have to agree, speaking as an African woman, originally from the North, but lived in London for years...black women in London are sooooooo different.

N.B...

I haven't had fun with a complete f*cking idiot like this in ages, however.....

The few black men that are not with white girls, are either taken, or are downright idiots.

......this alone shows her mentality. Her whole entire attitude completely reeks like a toilet that hasn't been flushed for over a week.

How does this sanctimonious jackass define 'success' anyway? Earning a six figure salary in Canary Wharf or Liverpool Street? Being suited and booted? Owning a four bedroom house in Hampstead Heath? Driving a big car? Being able to buy expensive lunches during break?

I'm one of the "few" 'black' men who "are not with white girls" - I guess that makes me a "complete idiot". What about African men who run their own little businesses/self employed, run bakeries, barbers, record shops etc or who don't earn a great deal but still manage to support their families and save up? Are they not successful because they don't buy £400 suits in the City after work or can't afford to go on three luxury holidays a year?

Women have great intuition, but men can also sense an ugly hearted, superficial woman from a mile off and avoid her lie the plague.

As for her HORSESHIT story, sorry I'm not buying it. For all she knows, half the men in that place probably had African wives/girlfriends who couldn't be present. But you see, she's one of those idiots who would spot the ring on my finger then automatically ASSume I'm married to some caucasoid. She probably never had any "white mate" with her, she probably just threw that in to add weight to an already super weak argument.

Also I have clients in the same places she mentioned who are what I'd call "successful" and many of them have African wives and girlfriends.

She's already heaped judgement on single African men as "idiots" so really, what's her beef? Why doesn't she and her friends just do what they really want to do (and we already know what it is) and leave the rest of the community to get on with it?

I worked in the City for many years. She sounds just like the women i've encountered who will be with their white colleagues and act like any other black person in the vicinity is the cleaner.

Why does it have to be " if you don't talk to me your an idiot"? Maybe it was "i ain't talking to her because her face is push up every time she looks in my direction, i get the message!"

I've never had any problems with black men in the city. She needs to check her funky attitude.

@PH
Point taken very profound indeed!!

Before some get all over themselves this is not aimed at all our women but that very 'special' type of woman the status obsessed one on the back of finally getting that 'dream' slave driven job in the City or Canary Wharf....some of you might cry foul but you the only set of women in the city who take their status to heart..you still see them YT and Asian girls still having fun with their own regardless of their status from junior to senior but not our women...
This women would never go for the types mentioned by @PH its incredible how selfish and status obsessed they are....thats the great thing with us men we can go for any type of african woman as far as shes down for us....hopefully some YT man would take pity on them...

She reminds me of Toni from Girlfriends...

The fact that she feels the need to insult because a few men in the room didn't chat her up shows her high level of arrogance and how far up her own stinking crack she is. They don't know that when they walk around with a bad aura we notice these things. She's obviously poison and no doubt unless she dates some insecure grey who feels threatened by the existance of African males, she'll remain single until she's well in her 50s and then style it out by saying how she's "independent" and doesn't need a man lol.

I find her "success" comments offensive because she knows she same one would stare right through an African brotha who was a cleaner or a security guard, when I know plenty of them all around the city who are breaking their backs so their children can eat well and the rest of their family back home have money coming in regularly. But I guess those brothas aren't "successful" because they don't sit behind a mahogany desk in an office half the size of a football field. She only wants to be acknowledged by a certain type of brotha so I don't know why she just can't be honest. I had to put one straight a couple of months ago because she thought she was flattering me by cussing brothas who do work that she thinks is beneath her.

I make it a point to smile and greet Africans who do so called menial jobs in these high corporate places to the point where clients are always asking me how I know them - because I realise that we're all on the f*cking plantation regardless.

This is why I big up the majority of sistas who are just happy to have an African man who's working but has goals and dreams and can handle his biz.

The rest of these whiteyfied coconuts - male or female - amongst us need to just cross over to the other side and never come back.