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Default 06-04-08, 09:45 PM

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Not so much a wish but more a statement that I'll probably be abusive if you deliberately misinterpret my meaning again, afterall no point in being civill to people who "won't read what they read, but read what they think they have" Typically people who argue in that fashion, do so just for that sake. However if you saw it that way I apologize.


As for your concern, well I have my doubts of how sincere you are since you've attracted two rather unpleasant groupies, and I'm of the thinking that like attracts like. Self righteous people historically tend to be the biggest sinners.
You and I have spoken on other subjects before and you've never responded in that way which is why I knew something was up. When you said what it was I had the decency not to entertain the rest of what you said, consider that me being so straight with you wasn't good timing and empathize with what you may have been going through to leave you alone. Yet you are still here long enough to continue the disrespect to others - who by the way are not me in disguise. There's only one Maat and there always has been.

If you think I misunderstood you could have easily just clarified your point without the disrespect. Truth is you didn't want to did you?!

In all the anger I don't think it was realized but you actually agreed with what I said about gender being irrelevant to the topic and more to the point in 10 years of marriage surely you must have been able to help lithium if you genuinely wanted to rather than cause all of this disruption - just because I disagreed with you.... yet I am the one; being petty, taking up time in this war that I made clear never was, and have no class (which I neither want or need anyway).

It would have been much better for you to go and deal with whatever the real problem is you are going through rather than stay here taking your anger out on anyone you see fit which is nothing to do with any of us here.

If after the amount of time I've spent here helping others you feel the need to question my sincerity so be it but I don't need to treat you any different to them and stand by what I said about you getting some kind of help. This is all one big unnecessary diversion from the topic which for the 30 or 40 years worth of experience between all those who've contributed, could have been a much more mature discussion.

@lithium: It's a real shame that this had to happen on your thread and I still hope things work out. Maybe some more constructive responses will come to help you reason out what you are going through but I won't be coming back to it anymore.

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Default 14-04-08, 12:52 PM

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You and I have spoken on other subjects before and you've never responded in that way which is why I knew something was up. When you said what it was I had the decency not to entertain the rest of what you said, consider that me being so straight with you wasn't good timing and empathize with what you may have been going through to leave you alone. Yet you are still here long enough to continue the disrespect to others - who by the way are not me in disguise. There's only one Maat and there always has been.

If you think I misunderstood you could have easily just clarified your point without the disrespect. Truth is you didn't want to did you?!

In all the anger I don't think it was realized but you actually agreed with what I said about gender being irrelevant to the topic and more to the point in 10 years of marriage surely you must have been able to help lithium if you genuinely wanted to rather than cause all of this disruption - just because I disagreed with you.... yet I am the one; being petty, taking up time in this war that I made clear never was, and have no class (which I neither want or need anyway).

It would have been much better for you to go and deal with whatever the real problem is you are going through rather than stay here taking your anger out on anyone you see fit which is nothing to do with any of us here.

If after the amount of time I've spent here helping others you feel the need to question my sincerity so be it but I don't need to treat you any different to them and stand by what I said about you getting some kind of help. This is all one big unnecessary diversion from the topic which for the 30 or 40 years worth of experience between all those who've contributed, could have been a much more mature discussion.

@lithium: It's a real shame that this had to happen on your thread and I still hope things work out. Maybe some more constructive responses will come to help you reason out what you are going through but I won't be coming back to it anymore.


Help with what exactly, what I have to deal with pretty much every other week? Comes with the job, it's not like I'm the only one who does it..

On the plus side at least the dead don't waste time purposefully twisting basic English into complete nonsense.

As for helping the OP. I see little point in wasting too much time with someone who's not even honest. Pearls to swine and all that.

As for directing anger. Well it's not me who pops up for the first time in fours years and starts begging for a fight only to run off again, seemingly one of your cheers leaders.. The fact that you blissfully ignore that because it conflicts with your onesided emotionalism and then blame me for directing my anger towards that twat says to me you're not really all that honest yourself, but blind.


Like I said like attracts like, no exceptions.

Start a fight and I'll fight.

Simple things.



Know the evils of soul: THAT is understanding.

Depart from the soul's evil: THAT is wisdom.


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never knew you were a fireman.





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Started last year.



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Default 15-04-08, 01:18 PM

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Started last year.
Props to you....tough job..respect!!!



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