I know someone who cried every night wanting to reconcile with the Dad and when they eventually did it was a let down he didn't really seem to show any remorse just feeding his ego in his mind i can still get to see my kids whenever i so desire..till today she still moans about how she felt deflated by his utterances but now she knows better

so, treatmissblack - did you contact your father? how did it go?

It was ok the first time we spoke, but he effed up again, forget him, he takes his anger out on us i hate him and his side of the family!