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Default Men Who Cry...Is It an Oxymoron??? - 31-03-08, 08:35 PM

What the women say about that? Can your man let out some tears on your shoulder, or would you smack him upside the head and tell him to "man up"...LOL.

I have a female friend having trouble with this. She says her man was crying all the time when they had arguments or she caught him in a lie. They recently broke up because in the middle of one of his crying spells, she blurted out, "stop being so bytch-made"...LOL. I don't understand it, because now she wants him back but don't know how after bruising his ego so.

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Default 31-03-08, 09:35 PM

We had a similar thread to this. I don't see anything wrong with a man crying. Just as long as if it's over anything stupid. Especially things like arguments.
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Default 31-03-08, 10:04 PM

Lol....your friend's story is funny.

Well i don't really see men crying as them being sissy, but at the same time i find it annoying if it is over something like an argument or falling off his bike...lol. Perhaps society has ****ed me up in the way i see men and women portraying emotions, but i really hate men who cry! My only exceptions is ofcourse death and maybe the end of something important such as a marriage or cherished long term relationships.

Here in the UK you see them English tossers crying over a Footbal game! Pathetic!

I recently went on holiday and on the plane there were some Bolton fans(an English soccer tem) whos team lost against the Portuguese. Now i know Bolton is having a bloody hard time now this season, but for big assed men to be bowling over a football game was just plain annoying.

Oh and i feel for your friend though, a guy once cried on me after too many beers, lets just say we don't speak anymore and i avoid him like a plague.


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Default 01-04-08, 01:51 AM

wow my best friend had/has that same issue with her husband. she snapped on him as well....she apologized later tho. i don't think i could take too much of the crying. i actually can't take it when a female cries. it annoys me. so with either sex i can understand the crying when warranted but don't make it your thing.
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