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Default 27-04-08, 08:27 PM

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Best way to get eye contact with a woman is to walk down the street/club with a woman on your arm, works every time.

LOL...sad thing is, you are absolutely right. You get so many "propositions" once you are committed compared to when you aren't. Well, at least it seems to work out that way for me...


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Default 30-04-08, 02:24 PM

Hell no! Look them in the eye. I am no shrinking violet. If a man can't look me in the eye then my perception of him is that he is shifty, he has something to hide or a secret agenda. If you are talking to me look me in the eye. Then I know that I have your attention. I don't have time for demure flirting games where I avert my gaze. But some men when you look at them see it as confrontational that happened once and it scary because the man was on drugs. and later flipped out.
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I look people in the eye and if someone says hello I'll say hello back and keep stepping. Yes, I get some over the top people that wanna take it as a green light, but most men are alright, shocked even... As one guy said this week when I said thank after he called me a beautiful princess 'rah, she actually answered!' lol
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Default 10-05-08, 01:06 AM

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Yes I avoid eye contact with men when im walking down the street because too many of them stare in that lustful way. But I also avoid eye contact with women too, sometimes they stare more than guys, I guess the women are either lesbos or trying to look at what your wearing, or how your hair is done. Both sexes urk me when they stare like they stupid. So I avoid eye contact when needed. lol.
lol - lustful way, otherwise known as the lowest common denominator i.e. don't need to know anything about each other to have sex - it's the same denominator that keeps prostitutes in business.


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Hmmm...so if you can't get eye-contact with a woman, and you want to talk to her, is it best to let this one pass as she is probably not interested? Or do you perhaps chance it and try to make conversation anyhow?
I've never approached a woman who didn't make eye contact with me or let it be known that she liked me by her body language.

I think thats the best way to avoid getting embarrassed.


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Arrow Yes. - 14-05-08, 12:07 PM

Sounds just like me.

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Yes. I'm very shy. I don't even like looking around at people in my car at a stop light because they are always looking back!

That and I don't want to give them an excuse to come talk to me. The last thing some men need is encouragement.


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Default 03-07-08, 12:56 PM

I am the aggressor most times anyways. IF you leave it up to some weak brothers u won't get no where with them.

If a man is not to my liking or my mind is on other things then he may get a mixed reaction from me. I try not to be rude but rudeness is a great deterrent to some of the losers out there.

I love men...but the good comes with the bad and I try my best to deal with them as they come regardless of past occurences.


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