Has P Duppy been dumped over BLUEFOOT Sienna? - Page 2

Gmahogany. · (#26 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by blackbutterfly182

I thought the same thing when I heard that song, its ft Nicole from Pussycat Dolls. He has always seem obsessed with those types of women like he has never really truly gotten over his obsession with J-Lo. But when I saw the advert for his aftershave I thought this man is well and truly gone.

So do you think if a man sings about women and is pictured with women who clearly look nothing like nothing like his current partner. Is this a disrespect or is it merely his tastes in women are broad and he doesnt like one particular look??

Actually, he's made those kinds of comments on more than one song. As far as your question, if a man is repeatedly making those kinds of comments, and interestingly NEVER raps or brags about being with the type of woman he is in a purported relationship with, that goes beyond having "broad" taste. He is subltly letting you know what is IDEAL is. Eventhough he's with YOU, his ideal is something else. This is something that Black women have been slow to pick up on with some of these Negroes,lol. Picture a sister being with a Black man, and rapping and or singing about you can catch her hugged up with something Irish or Italian,lol. Not only would her particular Black man be offended, Black men in general would be.

The mindset being reflected is that being with a Black woman(no matter how beautiful she is), is old hat, nothing to crow about. But being with "something Italian, or Puerto Rican, i.e. anything not technically Black(no matter how run of the mill, or busted it is), is something to brag about, flaunt, etc. I would say that those lyrics and that mindset have also been reflected in the way he looked at Kim and treated her. He never "treasured" her. Black women, for this type of Negro aren't to be treasured, pined over, bragged about.

Gmahogany. · (#27 (**permalink**))

[COLOR="Blue"]Just to continue the ideal thought. He's letting you know what his ideal is,(and it's not you), which means that no matter how many babies you push out, how much loyalty you demonstrate, he's always going to be throwing you under the bus for/disrespecting you for, cheating on you WITH, women who do fit his IDEAL, and that's exactly the way their relationship has always played out.

I'm just saying that I would have peeped that from the gate, and would have never even dealt with him(find it difficult to be attracted to Black men who suffer from this malady), or i would have not had any expectations of him, played him, and taken his ass for everything he's worth, and never gotten my feelings involved, or I would have shot him, as I stated before,lol. [/color]

safetyblitz · (#28 (**permalink**))

I got beef with everything you said GMahogany........

Not the content..... The COLOR..... reading blue on the back leaves you with eyestrain LOL

Still why is Puffy even a concern? No matter what Puffy is dating he is a ho'. You would think after the Eazy-E disease scare people would remember\learn....

Just amazing how history threatens to repeats itself.....

blackbutterfly182 · (#29 (**permalink**))

@GMahogany. I agree with you it is a disrespect but these coons wouldnt see it as that. They may even just dismiss it as a song. Im sure when Kim heard lyrics like that she was meant to feel like she should be grateful he has picked her and had children for her. Like despite him lusting after all these non-black women I picked your black ass to be with so be with so just be grateful cos I can get any woman I want.

I posed the question as me and my friend were having a conversation about men and if the guy in question is always pictured with women (myspace/hi5 profile) that look nothing like you, should you be upset? I was naturally upset and then his tendencies started to show themselves in other ways. I.e quick to fight to the death! and say j-lo etal are not White so as to appease his lust for them. She just said they might not neccesarily have one specific taste in women but just like women in general.

Please we know the truth when Black guy says he likes all types of women and is "equal oppurtunities" its merely because he just hasnt got the guts just to say he doesnt like Black women. Every other race of women will be put before his own so how is that equal oppurtunities?

Gmahogany. · (#30 (**permalink**))

[quote=safetyblitz;1426360I got beef with everything you said GMahogany........

Not the content..... The COLOR..... reading blue on the back leaves you with eyestrain LOL

Still why is Puffy even a concern? No matter what Puffy is dating he is a ho'. You would think after the Eazy-E disease scare people would remember\learn....

Just amazing how history threatens to repeats itself.....[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry Safety. I thought blue was easy to read, plus it's my favorite color. What color do you find easiest to read against this background?

Agree with everything you said about Diddy's ho'ish ways.....

Gmahogany. · (#31 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by blackbutterfly182

@GMahogany. I agree with you it is a disrespect but these coons wouldnt see it as that. They may even just dismiss it as a song. Im sure when Kim heard lyrics like that she was meant to feel like she should be grateful he has picked her and had children for her. Like despite him lusting after all these non-black women I picked your black ass to be with so be with so just be grateful cos I can get any woman I want.

Yep. Negroes like this aren't stupid. They know that Black women are more than likely to be loyal and stay in there for the long haul, push out babies without demanding they put a ring on our fingers, deal with all manner of bullshit, year after year after year,etc. They know if they deal with a white woman or a Puerto Rican woman(particularly PR women), they are gonna have to come correct, cause they don't play that shit. You're gonna have to marry them, and if shit ain't right for too long, they will kick your Black ass to the curb, (like J-LO did), cause they know they can find a Puerto Rican man who will do what he's supposed to do. You see J-Lo went and got with Marc Anthony, a fellow Puerto Rican, and lived happily ever after,lol.

I posed the question as me and my friend were having a conversation about men and if the guy in question is always pictured with women (myspace/hi5 profile) that look nothing like you, should you be upset? I was naturally upset and then his tendencies started to show themselves in other ways. I.e quick to fight to the death! and say j-lo etal are not White so as to appease his lust for them. She just said they might not neccesarily have one specific taste in women but just like women in general.

Please we know the truth when Black guy says he likes all types of women and is "equal oppurtunities" its merely because he just hasnt got the guts just to say he doesnt like Black women. Every other race of women will be put before his own so how is that equal oppurtunities?

Precisely.

blackbutterfly182 · (#32 (**permalink**))

@Gmahogany, you hit the nail on the head. Black women do put up with a lot of crap and I think they make excuses for Black men. They dont leave because they feel "oh its not that bad, I could have to deal with worse". Whereas White woman know they can get a man from their own culture who will marry them, come correct and their family will approve.

So why would they put up with numbskulls like P-Diddy who are never going to be serious or take them serious and still be running around in their late 30's like they are teenage boys. Its sad it really is, when you actually realise how old P-Diddy is!

comfortandjoy · (#33 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Gmahogany.

I'm sorry Safety. I thought blue was easy to read, plus it's my favorite color. What color do you find easiest to read against this background?

What are you? A Crip??

Gmahogany. · (#34 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by comfortandjoy

What are you? A Crip??

Could be, Could be not.

comfortandjoy · (#35 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Gmahogany.

Could be, Could be not.

I bet you are you are, the way you been dealing with mofo's on this board! A lot of your posts are just GANGSTER! And I mean that in a good way.

LOL!

Watch out for GangsterMahogany people! She don't play.

The Last African · (#36 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by comfortandjoy

I bet you are you are, the way you been dealing with mofo's on this board! A lot of your posts are just GANGSTER! And I mean that in a good way.

LOL!

Watch out for GangsterMahogany people! She don't play.

Interesting obeservation, she has never told us what the "G" meant...