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Originally Posted by Black_Power
kunjufu and prince H
now what makes a good role model? someone whos hardworking clean living and stays on the right side of the law? well myfriend thats me...now im not saying thats something special but its the NORMAL thing to do. some of these kids have ghetto parents who are slack as hell and just need a bit of NORMALITY in their lives.
what I could offer is a focus fpr them to achieve what they want through hard work and graft...not the quick come up that most seek now adays
see the funy thing is we have some work experience kids at my place of work now who seem to dote on me even though I show them nothing special....and you know why? COS IM A BLACK MAN.... something they can relate to and who looks at them with an ppen mind though all the slang they talk and the ghetto way they dress...plus they love my workout sessions I do with them
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I remember upsetting a few people when talking about the value of 'role models' BP...this is where people like you and the government get it totally wrong, and to be honest don't have a clue... ANY BLACK face won't do... being hard working and good is NOT enough, having your heart in the right place is great but will only get you soo far...and thats the issue I have with this rhetoric...
Think about it you've got damaged individuals who have been that way for say 11, 14, 16 years...and suddenly a BLACK face is supposed to turn all that learnt behaviour around in 16 days please!!! can people really be THAT stupid...
Any father who split from their partner will tell you just how difficult it is to PARENT a child at weekends, so imagine how difficult it will be when that child is not YOURS...
What i'm saying is just plonking a black hard working, good hearted face in front of a child just isn't going to help UNLESS you have additional skills to COMMUNICATE, to help a child reflect and build reasonable and achievable goals in a structured way, unless you have the ability defuse potential conflicts, to talk through and help that child with painful disclosures...
If anyone has seen that programme on channel five yesterday, banged up, or something of that elk... You'd see that even with tough talking and tough love, just how frustrating it is to make a break through with these type of young adults..and these are people who are banged up in a pretend prison for two weeks together... try making THAT connection when you only have moments to make it work...
You throw into the mix drugs...and jesus christ..I shit you not when i tell you that these are some of THE toughest people to try and reach...without doubt bar none!!!
So Black power I do think within a very strict parameters YOu would be a good leader/role model.... Especially funnily enough with Drug addicted people...because you would know enough about physical health and training regimes to do a very good job..[now some would be surprised to hear me say that] But I say to you that there is no doubt in my mind that you would be an asset in THAT context...and you could and would do an outstanding job supporting people in that context.... but in any other I'd say no..seriously because I think outside of those parameters you would struggle to sustain a meaningful working relationship, with someone who is very likely to test your powers of restraint to the limit.. thats my take.. based on what i know of you...