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Oh and by the way...



Clique, since were in similar positions if u need sum1 to talk or someone to help u curse out di dutty man dem.. i'm here...




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Today has been the worst day so far.

I've been crying my eyes out constantly. I can't control it. If im on the streets and im thinking about everything, i just break down. i m gonna go see my gp today caz i swear if i dont talk to someone soon... im gonna literally go mad




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Today has been the worst day so far.

I've been crying my eyes out constantly. I can't control it. If im on the streets and im thinking about everything, i just break down. i m gonna go see my gp today caz i swear if i dont talk to someone soon... im gonna literally go mad



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Dare I ask what the problem might be?


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Today has been the worst day so far.

I've been crying my eyes out constantly. I can't control it. If im on the streets and im thinking about everything, i just break down. i m gonna go see my gp today caz i swear if i dont talk to someone soon... im gonna literally go mad



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i used to vry at the drop of a hat at times was very emotional

hormones where no joke

some good pregnancy sites which may help...loads of advove and support networks

http://www.emmasdiary.co.uk/the midwife can give you a copy of emmas diary the website is a bonus

http://www.bbc.co.uk/parenting/having_a_baby/

http://www.bounty.com/they are the people that give you the bounty prenanyy pack

http://www.nct.org.uk/

http://www.pampers.co.uk/en_GB/home/stageid/100.do

i referred to these alot

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Chique....ebony_goddess.....Bahamas Babe good luck with your pregnancies and births sistersblk2hug


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Post imported post - 07-07-06, 05:57 PM

Hi every1, been away for a long while....I lost the board....literally......well I had my Prince on April 8, 2006.....he came 12 weeks early (28w4d gestat).....his due date was 6/27/06......I had pre-term labor......I was in the hospital 3 weeks b4 he was born, due to my dialted cervix of 2.5 cm and bulging membranes.....Mekhi came to the world at 2lbs. 13 oz. and 15.75 in long.......here are some pics of him then and now

day of birth

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Post imported post - 07-07-06, 11:00 PM

OMG he looks tiny!

Blessed be he looks ok, and has put on 8oz!

Congratulations to you bothclp)banana.gifbanana.gifclp)
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Post imported post - 07-07-06, 11:39 PM

Lady Vee- yes he was very tiny......he has gotten bigger now, but when I go out, ppl think he was just born.....and he is 2 months old. Thank you.

BP - Thank you. I will do my very best.


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Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cmand bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour butmy son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.

Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.

Please pray for us as we really need it.
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Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cmand bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour butmy son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.

Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.

Please pray for us as we really need it.
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"One of the heads of the beast seemed to have been fatally wounded, but the wound had healed. The whole earth was amazed and followed the beast".

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Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cmand bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour butmy son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.

Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.

Please pray for us as we really need it.
I am fighting back tears as I write this.

I am so very,very sorry, BB. May his little, pure soul rest in peace.

I pray that you and your partner come together on this, as grief can separate couples.

My heart goes out to you both.blkrubhead


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Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cmÂ*and bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour butÂ*my son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.

Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for overÂ*35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.

Please pray for us as we really need it.
I'm really really sorry to hear of your lost, I know it must be very difficultt for you at this time, especially i