Would you allow someone else to smack your child?

Blackthought · (#1 (**permalink**))

We were having a chat at work, one of the thing was how children in this country are so damn rude...and naughty.

I can't speak for all, but in Nigeria you can often smack your neighbours kids.. or any kid if they are really rude to you, ideally you would smack them then follow the child to his/her parents place, to let them know that you smack their kid, with the reason as to why you did it, this is mostly practise with neighbour's kids or parents close friends and family.

Imo I think this definetly plays a key role in children behaving themself in the public, out of the watchful eyes of there parents.

I don't have a kid myself, so I don't know how deep I would feel for someone to smack my kid, if my kid were behaving badly.

Pps what are your opinion on this?.

Fizzy B · (#2 (**permalink**))

@ BT,Some children round my way are so rudeI wouldjust love to give then a quick sport-smileyslap but God help me if someone laid a hand on my son. No sir!

Saida.M · (#3 (**permalink**))

I'd NEVER allow it in this country - can you imagine whites disciplining your child - ya mad!!!

MissNyomie · (#4 (**permalink**))

In my opinion I would allow my child to be discipline ( if needs be ) only by a member of my immediate family or very close friends, because they would be aware of how far ( by that I mean how hard ) I would slap my child.

Most adults do not know their own strength and have a warped perception of how hard you should slap a child. Children are so unruly these days that if a stranger was to slap a child who knows how far it could go.

Blackthought · (#5 (**permalink**))

athaba wrote:

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I'd NEVER allow it in this country - can you imagine whites disciplining your child - ya mad!!!

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Would it make a difference if it was aBlack person?

P-dot · (#6 (**permalink**))

Apart from me an the father, only person who could smack my kids (an i say smack not slap punch etc) is my mum.... simply for the fact she smacked me and i dint turn out too bad.

ebony_goddess · (#7 (**permalink**))

only me...my childs dad...or family members

Vezz. · (#8 (**permalink**))

I know it's common in African and Carribbean communities for neighbours etc to smack kids if they misbehave, but I can't condone anyone smacking mine.

I don't smack my son anymore as it's a waste of time, so why should I allow someone else to?

If you smack someone else's child over here, you're liable to have a gun pushed into your face, so why risk it?

liberiangirl · (#9 (**permalink**))

I remember one timemy mothers boyfriend gave me a beating when i was little. All hell broke loose..... So to answer the question, no i dont think i would allow anyone to smack my child(my future child, as i dont have any kids right now).... except if my child was under the care of one of my relatives (my trusted relative that is, not all of my relatives would have that privledge. But for the most part no, something someone would smack their child for i may not smack my child for, and i know i would be very angry if someone smacked for beat my kidfor something that i would not beat them for.

liberiangirl · (#10 (**permalink**))

Blackthought wrote:

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athaba wrote:

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I'd NEVER allow it in this country - can you imagine whites disciplining your child - ya mad!!!

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Would it make a difference if it was aBlack person?

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Yes its does. Whites have an entirely different way of diciplining their children... i would never allow some white person to hit my kid. How do i know they didnt smack my kid simply because "that little ni**er bratwas getting on my nerves.."?

LadyDay · (#11 (**permalink**))

family can

blackneck · (#12 (**permalink**))

Blackthought wrote:

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We were having a chat at work, one of the thing was how children in this country are so damn rude...and naughty.

I can't speak for all, but in Nigeria you can often smack your neighbours kids.. or any kid if they are really rude to you, ideally you would smack them then follow the child to his/her parents place, to let them know that you smack their kid, with the reason as to why you did it, this is mostly practise with neighbour's kids or parents close friends and family.

Imo I think this definetly plays a key role in children behaving themself in the public, out of the watchful eyes of there parents.

I don't have a kid myself, so I don't know how deep I would feel for someone to smack my kid, if my kid were behaving badly.

Pps what are your opinion on this?. Thats deep!blkangry

no way that going down over here in these united states you

feel me? But i do remember that growing up in the projects

in new jersey, My mother had certain friends of the family that would watch over us, And they would be sure to moniter your

hide as we played. But as far as hitting us or any other child

"well... thats a death wish! I remember playing one day and something went down,And one of the neighbors that resided

downstairs make the mistake of grabing me and my sister rather

rought ,It shook my sister up really good, When our mother came home we snitched on mrs hardgrove and her thug out actions

Well cutting right to the chase things turned LEFT!

Our mother looked like she was a mixed martial artist "boy

the jabs and hooks not to mention hair pulling. The fight was

onesided she was no match for a heated black women whose

kids had been attacked by a white women. So what they

do over in another country will not work over here as it relates

to your kids.blkfingerwagblkboxingblkhelp