I think the fathers are expelling themselves by not being what they are supposed to be. There are fewer men in the world that take responsibility for their families and that is wehre the redundancy comes in. If men would be men they would not be as easily dispelled. But if the woman is both the mother and the father then there is no need for the man in the house


myafriplace

That's not true.

There is a very small minority of fathers in this world who abandon their children.

Agree with the second paragraph, but not with the first - and I speak as a father of three daughters.

My belief and experience is that my relationship with my daughters will shape how they relate to every other man they meet in their lives, and certainly those they form intimate relations with.

True its not the same kind of closeness mothers and daughters have, but in a way that's an advantage - particularly when girls reach their teens, when the pattern I've seen with every mother I know is that there is a period of warfare between mother and daughter. A good father will help to keep things on track overall, even if mum and daughter can't always agree.

So a different relationship - but definitely not redundant, unless you're never there anyway. From you have a presence, as a father you are a massive influence on your daughters. Mad to think otherwise.

Dont agree with gays or lesbians and i defo dont agree with them having kids but apparently im not moving with the times.

so be it what i know is NO CHILD raised by two women is who i will allow my children to roll with just like i wouldnt allow them to roll with a child whos father is a drug dealer i find them disgusting and their attitude and conquest to be accepted by means of crying to authorities who use bully tactics to get them in the loop also sickens me.

You should be careful with all that talk. It's usually you types that end up with gay kids. J/K

It's not about moving with the times though. You can feel any way you want, but if an adult's personal business sends you out into the street with a gun, that's a problem. I'd like to know what the "bully tactics" are exactly and also why you feel it's "crying" to authorities if someone prefers a bullethole-free body.