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08-01-04, 04:07 AM
DATS A TUFF ONE UNA!! I DONT KNOW WHAT I'D DO.....STILL THINKIN BOUT DAT COS MY BROTHER WAS CHATTIN BOUT DAT YESTERDAY.....I DONT HAVE A CLUE BLUD.
WAT I DO KNOW IS DAT ESSENTIALLY SHE SHUDNT HAVE THE BABY COS IT WUDNT HAVE BEEN BORN OUT OF LOVE AND A KID NEEDS LOVE IF ITS GONNA BE A SUCCESS IN LATER LIFE SEEN.
NUFF AH DEM SCRUFFY YOUTS U ALWAYS SEE ON ROAD AINT GOT NO LOVE BEHIND DEM, WE ALL KNOW DIS.AND DEY BOTH WUD HAVE TO ASK DEMSELVES WHETHER THEY WUD SEE DA RAPIST IN DAT CHILD...COS DA KID WILL SPOT RESENTMENT FROM A VERY EARLY AGE.
THINK BOUT DAT
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08-01-04, 01:12 PM
i would get rid of the baby straight, don't believe in abortion, but being rapped is a different thing.
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20-01-04, 12:54 PM
I can understand the view of sum1 dat wanted to keep the baby coz i mean its not the childs fault. But then could you really live the rest of yourlife looking @ the product of a violation of your body and not hold h8 4 the child?
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31-03-05, 10:47 PM
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I WANT BOYS VIEWS ON THIS TOPIC ALSO, SAY UR GIRLFRIEND WAS TO GET RAPED AND FELL PREGNANT WOT WOULD U DO IF SHE SED SHE WANTED TO KEEP IT?
I WAS WATCHIN EASTENDERS AND I WAS DISGUSTED AT LITTLE MO'S VIEW ON WOT HAD HAPPENED 2 HER..I DONT BELIEVE IN ABORTION BUT I THINK ALTHOUGH IT WOULD BE HARD 2 GIVE UP THAT BABY??
WOT DO U THINK BOUT A SITUATION LIKE THAT??? WOT WOT U DO???
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Well yes I would keep the baby, to keep the man in bondage for the rest of his life my mentality is 'he's my rapist'. I'm very revenge driven and I’d keep the baby for all the wrong reasons probably in the warped idea that without love I could use the child to later manipulate the farther and or destroy him. Besides Rapist like to think they've gotten away with it, a baby would probs be their worst nightmare, also for a court case and forensics (to make a better case). All for the wrong reasons.
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"He who does not accept and respect those who want to reject life does not truly accept and respect life itself."
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31-03-05, 10:59 PM
i argree with stoosh,
offtopic.gifwhat do you class as abortion, does that include morning after pill?
hi mum!banana.gif
I beleive that who I am is enough..........
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01-04-05, 11:27 AM
IVE BN RAPED, SHOT TWICE LEFT FOR DEAD AND FELL PREGNANT.
I WAS 14, I FINK U CANT REALLY COMMENT ON DA TOPIC UNLESS UVE BN THRU IT.
I HAD TO ABORT DA BABY, I CAUGHT CRABS VIA DA RAPE. IM JUS GLAD IT WASNT AIDS.
BUT NO I WUD NEVA CARRY A CHILD DAT HAV BN CONCEIVED VIA RAPE.
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01-04-05, 07:02 PM
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IVE BN RAPED, SHOT TWICE LEFT FOR DEAD AND FELL PREGNANT.
I WAS 14, I FINK U CANT REALLY COMMENT ON DA TOPIC UNLESS UVE BN THRU IT.
I HAD TO ABORT DA BABY, I CAUGHT CRABS VIA DA RAPE. IM JUS GLAD IT WASNT AIDS.
BUT NO I WUD NEVA CARRY A CHILD DAT HAV BN CONCEIVED VIA RAPE.
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I AM SO SORRY ABOUT THAT! :X
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01-04-05, 07:27 PM
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if it were my girl who got raped one night
and she fell preggy and wanted to keep it
I buy a bowie knife and gut her like a fish and take the damm devil spawn right out her body then stomp on it
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Pure Evil what has that baby done to you lol.
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01-04-05, 10:44 PM
What people fail to realise is, rape is no laughing matter.
It's a form of power, not the giving of a female's innermost feelings.This is a tricky question because I can't condone the murder of a baby...but I can understand why it would be relevant. I muse whether it would be acceptable to allow such a baby to exist but with the knowledge of how it was conceived, or to abort because you, as a female, would never be able to forgive the child for the manner in which it was conceived.
My personal view is that it's up to the female to decide.
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05-04-05, 08:58 AM
1st of all Eastenders is a good programme it can be very imformative at times other times it's just jokes.
If someone is raped it's their decision but i feel that its best to keep the baby.
The baby is innocent just as the female who got rapped
Aborting a child is dening a child lifejust as the male that rapped the women denied her of freedom of choice.
If a womengot rapped and aborted a herchild in some way(in my opinion) it would be in turn passing on the evil that happened to you. Almost a reflextion
I know by law its not classed as murder but it's the murder of killing a potential life.Just like the man who rapped a women committed the murder of killing thepotential of the womengrowing in spirituality,mentally etc.
Who GOD hires No man Fires!
*SKIES THE LIMIT*
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05-04-05, 09:14 AM
Just thought i would add if anyone decides to have an abortion you need to think deeply.It can affection you mentally,and emotionally.
When i was at school it happened to a girl in my class. She did not keep the baby but it sent her crazy because she thought that if she got rid of the baby then the pain and hurt would go away.
She was wrong
She fell sick with guilt and everytime she saw a baby she would hold her stomach. As far as i know she has still has got the scanned picture of her baby. She told me that a part of her died when she aborted he child. She started to cut herself because she felt what she did was wrong.
What i foundstrange was she kept dwelling on the fact that if she could kill her own baby that she could kill anybody.
It kind of scared me to hear her talk such things.
I was just wondering if the man (who rapped a women)had any rights over seeing his child (if the women decided to keep the baby)?
Who GOD hires No man Fires!
*SKIES THE LIMIT*
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07-04-05, 11:40 PM
I wouldn't keep that poor creature. Rape is an act of rage, anger, and hatred.
And I would never want to procreate anything from those feelings. Cause I don't
know if I could raise a kid that wasn't wanted. It would
be unfair to that infant to know that u're dad is a monster
and that u're mom didn't want u. Too harsh.
I shall not fear no man but God.
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