Links or wifeys??

CoolieGyal · (#1 (**permalink**))

Watsup peeps?

Question to the guys first of all : Would you rather have links or a wifey?

Visa Versa

Girls: Do you prefer being a guys link or his wifey

It's weird because the majority of the males that i meet want to try and have me as their link. I disagree with becoming a mans link and then he seems to run a mile! Lol why is that? He was eager to bed me but he didnt want the commitment. Hopefully you guys can shed some light on to this for me!

Stay sweet

redkiss

devious_danielle · (#2 (**permalink**))

i prefer to b a manz wifey then his link...i aint into jus havin manz 4 sex an shit like that...i kno bare ppl who da that an at the end of the day they jus gettin a rep innit an i aint gona gwarn like dat...i have respect 4 maself!!!blkscholar

realgreeneyes · (#3 (**permalink**))

As a female i believe that any respicting female should never be regarded as a link and is a fool to be made one if you cant have a man that can commit whats the problem of dashing him and you should know him long enough to know if he wants commitment or not before you lay down wit him

this is not aimed at anyone but im also sick of females lowering themselves to that standard and to top it all off some are proud of it that they say with great pride im a player and i play mans for everyting i can get

GET REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The only person being played is yourself i truly stand by my statement that "A man canot do you something unless u let him"

if you wanna be treated that way then be a mans link coz sure enough while hes playing you hes loving someone else.blkkiss

Lauryn&Nina · (#4 (**permalink**))

hahaha im glad u brought dis one up girl

i've jus come out of a 18month relationship and i recentlymet sum1 who took my number,im lookin 4 more than a link cause it aint alla bout datbut how can i go about tellin him without scarin him off.we live quite far apart whereas my x lived in d same area.any mans out there got any advice 4 me!

chickita · (#5 (**permalink**))

hayyy

im wifey to most boy's i meet the ones that treat me like a link just end up being friends wit me cause i only bust joke on a link not a cherry u know.

umm this is a good light topic

JOKERB · (#6 (**permalink**))

I would prefer 2 be a wifey coz a link is just wat a boys gonna brag about 2 his friendsblkblah like sayin ive gotber links.

JONHNCROW234 · (#7 (**permalink**))

GOOD LIGHT TOPIC HUH????????

maya · (#8 (**permalink**))

only wifey

reddz · (#9 (**permalink**))

@coolie gyal

i dont tink any1 would prefer to jus be sum1's link, dats long knowing he's got next gyal aswell. everyones gonna link sum1 at 1 point but only 4 a certain amount of time b4 he ask you 2 b his wifey.

i prefer 2 jus have 1 man than linking mans her and there, it also gets you a name. although i aint got a man now, cos im too busy 4 dat but it would be nice.

babylluv · (#10 (**permalink**))

its easy to say 'wifey dis wifey dat', but all i can say is , im too young(im 16)to be fooled into bein sum1's 'wifey' cos den d boys make u feel obliged to sleep wid dem..ya undastan wer im cumin from??

i'm not sayin be sum1's link, cos dat to me feels loose but as a young girl, i'd like to be in control of wat i'm doin so i wouldnt want to hold any guy bak from havin sex in the sense dat, i would b his wifey but jus bcos i aint a virgin, dat don't mean im havin sex wid him....n ultimately, the boy wants sex!! even tho he likes u for u, i aint prepared for sex on the regular!!i guess its jus cos of my bad past -

the way i see it is, boy says - 'be my wifey', so u have a relationship, u sex, u break up, boy moves on to another 'wifey'....my point is, i've realised i'd rather wait till im old enough to give myself and my body to sum1 dats interested in me on a deeper level, ya undastan??! bcos i dont want to hav to count a number of boys idid it wid to the man i wanna marry!! think bout the future!!

it is hard tho, to keep to my theory bcos i really like dis guy and he's askin wat i want in a man, and i'm sayin dont want a 'man' and we r physically attracted but im scared of commitin bcos he would move on to further things n i really, deeply dont want to have ssex wid him..not dat i physically dont want to, but emotionally, im not ready for it again....n i feel by goin out wid him, as a young 18 yr old boy, he would want it - so i'm havin to jus stay friends wid him really, and its killin me, but dats my sacrifice init!!damn!

~Tatiana~ · (#11 (**permalink**))

wat da hell iz a link!?

mystifyingeyes · (#12 (**permalink**))

[font="Bradley Hand ITC"] LOL @ Tatiana

Cocobrowny · (#13 (**permalink**))

"Link" - My definition...The under 18 version of a "**** Friend"...

Makkedah · (#14 (**permalink**))

@coco brown,A link is not always a fc*k friend.

@coolie gyal

Depends on the man,sorry2say dis but if it was a jamaican man/asian man i wud preferto be his link coz u know you aint getting thesh*t that his wife has to put up with.

The wife has to stay home and lookmafta da kids and mek his dinner whereas he will take you out because his proud of you.H e will be more willing to spend more money on you as well.The wife just gets money to look after the kids.To be a baby momma is worst.There no better than babysitters that u may get2 jook now and then.

To be a succesful link you can get emotionally involved plus you hv2 stay clean coz manz chat.Be devious but maintain you halo.Play hard2 get.

NOTE LINKS ARE IMPORTANT BECAUSE WITH OUT THEM A CHAIN HAS NO USE