not much 2 add other than im 16 n hes 24 goin on 25. my mum doesnt no yet but i dnt no what 2 say when i eventually tell her.:?

I don't know what kind of feed back you are looking for...but itdisturbs me as a mom, that this man couldn't find someone his own age and why you would involve yourself in a relationship like this not to mention without the knowledge of your parents. You mentioned your mother...What about your dad?... because I don't know of manyfathers who would let someone this much older come within 5 feet of their under-ageddaughter. It's best you come clean with your parents ortalk with another adult family member you trust who can help you break this to your mom. Good luck.

You are 16 and he is 24, that is too manys years apart in my opinion, you should not be keeping this relationship a secreat from your parents, who else knows about your relationahip? Your boyfriend might find himself in alot oftrouble.

do not worry about boyfriends just yet you have plenty of time for that, just concentrate on getting a good education.

Deep down you know this relationship will be frowned upon, is it woth it? Tell your boyfriend to come back in few years

blktypeSo far lady rhyma,u say ur a Christian, u swore like a trooper, and you keep mentioning your age. What's goin on?

blktypeAnyway, if u feel u need 2 hide then ur2 young 2 b in a relationship like this. Simple as. Get rid.

@ Lady Rhyma

It is not so much the differnce in general, it is about the ages you both are now. He is a big man, and even if you are / feel more mature, you are still young.

It may not be easy for you to understand what we are saying, but within two years you will know.

But on the other hand, if you think it is ok, then i advise you to tell your parents, and ask him to meet them (since he is genuine). If he does not want to, then that should tell you something.

Tell me something....if you had a 16 year old daughter, would you be ok with her dealing with a 25 year old man???

@ Peacemaker

I weren't feeling that 'joke' about the housing estate.

@athaba

Christians arent perfect. I know they are meant to be representing, but everyone is doing something they shouldn't be doing, doesn't always alter your 'belief'.

Peace~

What you feel is irrelevant.

@ Peacemaker

Kinda like your 'joke' eh??

@ lady rhyma

If the man blatantly knows ur 16, then he is a dutty paedophile who is using u and probably has bare "women" on the go, but true say ur young he probably thinks he can mold u and u do whatever he wants. If u were a virgin before u met him and ur not now, then he will take great delight in knowing that he was ur first. If ur sleeping with him and ur not using protection then more fool u. Ain't no way in hell he will meet ur mum, and I bet if u ask him he will come up with every excuse under the sun. Do u actually go out as a couple? I bet u don't, and if thats true then ask urself why that is, cos that should tell u something.

On the flip side, young gals love to lie too much about their age, cos they think they can run before they walk. So does he know ur real age? If he doesn't u better tell him pretty sharpish, cos u might be getting urself into something u can't get out of.

The only positive ting I have to say about this is at least ur of a legal age.

Hur, hur, that told me.


It wasn't a joke anyway. People on housing estates are generally thick, andtuck their kappa tracksuit bottoms into their socks.

@ Peacemaker

Where exactly did you meet them all ??

Maybe you're talkingabout Derby!

@iyallah and BB

blktypeI never said that Christians are perfect. But the Bible does say you must STRIVE to be perfect. If you say you are a Christian and yet you do wrong, wouldn't it be right to call you a hyprocrite - isn't that what a hyprocrite is? What's the point of being a Christian?

Byholding on to their beliefs, whilst doing wrong - isnt that what the Scribes and Pharisees did?

To anybro whose got a girlfriend that's ten yearshis junior - Youjammy git. :-)

To those concerned about having older boyfriend just remember - A man is only as old as the women he feels - up. LOL!