Sorry about your misfortune, but i do hope you learn sweetheart drop all dem boyz and start a fresh. Give yourself a break love a time to exHale.

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Well Well Dahling, U definately need to go clinic.....

I know a boy called craig and he's a dirrrrty ******* . get it checked sweetie. How old are you now.???

Only you can change your life and i speak from experience (not as a sketzzz though). Keep tellin yourself that you can do it and You WILL change your life.....

et us know how you get on...

I was about to comment on the clinic ting aswell, thats the first and most important ting that needs to be done. You then need to ask urself why u stayed with someone who u knew had a girlfriend, and why u did not wait to get to know the other guys better before u slept with them. Actually why did u not wait until u were legal? It seems as though u do not value urself and ur body because u are letting these guys use u, but worst of all u are using urself. You need to leave the boys alone and concentrate on having a better relationship with urself, learn to respect urself, and don't let anyone force u to do something u are not comfortable with doing. If u are going to continue to have sex then at least use protection, and talk to someone u can trust, a family member or close friend. I would also urge u to think more about ur studies and ur career, and less about sex and boys. As u said before it's u getting a reputation, not the boys u are sleepin with.

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Well said facety gal,,,,, its all about lovin yourself..Everybody has drama just donttry bring it upon yourself "reformed gyal"...trust me on dis you cant be reformed cos you're still doubtin yourself,,,,

rahhh..u mus really like ur ssex bwoy..stil, if u wanna change den change n if u do change den ppl will see dat n eventually stop talkn bout ur dirty past init! jus show d boys ur not lyk dat no more

I aint gonna call u a sket, cos i know gurls dat have done worst tings den u've said trust me! But u need 2 go clinic cos deres nuff std's u can have a n dont kno u got dem.
well its good ur on the pill and carry on using protection cos nuff man dese days go around f**king bare gyal and dont kno wot disease's dey got including H.I.V. so all i can say is be careful and kno wot ur doing.
The best way to show people dat u have changed is to jus have a break from guys altogether. or if ur dat desperate jus find a nice guy get to kno him (meaning dont jus jump into bed with him). let him take u out, introduce him 2 ur parents ect. then u when u get to kno him good enough and been with him 4 at least 2-3 months then u can start having sex WITH PROTECTION!!!! and u dont need 2 tell all ur friends ur business.

I think you should ignore what everyone says and thinks about you.. YOU WONT GET ANYWHERE IF YOU RUN YOUR LIFE ON WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. you know what you know and what you know is the only thing that matters. Get a job and go shopping forget about everyone else and forget those guys. your young and the best thing is to now learn from your mistakes and be proud from that. when you get older you can move out of you area and find you numba 1 hubby and be happy. its because now you prolly what things to get better NOWbut they wont..yet... it takes time if a guy calls you a hoe just laugh at him.. because he will be waiting for you to get angry and upset and he would be baffled:? if you do the opposite!!!!

this can make you a stronger and wiser female just take it as that clp)

all i gotta say is yeah - - fair enuff its ur life an ting but u wanted an answer - if u eva came to my endz an said u did dat den u wud definitely be classed as a sket - i dont personally see u as a sket, u just made a few mistakes - but u'll learn 4rom dem - an u need to be usin protection EVRY time like..cause HIV aint reversable..standard

Well sex is important..........when it comes to the next stage of your human life, what I mean is reproducing with the person you love and they must feel the same way as well for it to REALLY work.

What it is in todays' Western society it is basicially a trend thing e.g. one girl aged 14 has a boyfriend of 17 and she decides to have sex with him for the first time.

For her it will be a whole New experiencnce that she has not encountered before, but remember guys these days lose their virginities early so they know what the sensation is like.

That is one of the reasons why older guys like younger girls, easier to manipulate into having sex with them since the girl is infatuated by them. After that the guy will usually only want one thing from girls.

Only guys who are intectuals or highbrows who understand the question why..............girls somtimes have sex at an early age. People should already know that the female adolescent matures quicker than the boys that is why the majority of girls would not date under or the same age as they are. It is usually above because of experience that the guy MIGHT have or already does.

Nubian princesses and other girls - try and not get manipulated by these guys who only want your body, who you can not have decent conversations with and the most important when you feel ready to............he should or will understand why you hae chosen not to have sex with him.

Men are *******S - trust me I am male myself and I understand the pain some girls go through when their so-called father is not what he seems or you can not speak to your mother because she is not easy to speak with.

Try and be alittle careful out their people because STDs are on the rise in Britian alone and can be transferred through sex and oral sex.

So my peeps just watch out!

to be honest im sorry to say but ithink u r a sket but even more so you don't value yourself or your boyfriend(s) which is why you so freely have sex with men unprotected which is dangerous for both you, them and their unsuspecting partners. you lack self respect i'm just curious as to what happened for you to so tragically give yourself a reputation.

most people have rumours spread about them that are lies and they are bullied. you are your own bully and by sleepin around you have not spread rumours but the truth about yourself. the sad thing is that as girl your reputation will never die out and the man that decides to marry you or any many that decide to date you will be given a hard time because of your reputation. for example i have cousin who is married and has two children and still at 28 she is known as a sket. those things don't die out cos somone always knows someone.your past is always gonna follow you.i have no advice for you really but other than to say try this time to be faithful and use protection most importantly.

what you need is some support from your family or someone. ask yourself if you were someone else and someone else was you and they asked if they were a sket what would you say honestly?

damn girl, u've been busy. u no what, u dont have to sleep wiv every guy u link. its good dat u wanna change, i'll say good luck

hope u dont change ur mind soon and get back to sleeping around. stick 2 it.

I WOULD'NT SAY YOU ARE EXACTLY A SKET.

I THINK IT IS MORE LIKE YOUNG VULNERABILITY, NAIVE AND MAYBE INSECURE AND WANTING OF LOVE.. AND THEY SAW THAT AND PLAYED UPON IT.

NOW THAT YOU SAID YOU HAVE LEARN A LESSON I HOPE IT'S A LESSON WELL LEARNT GIRL.

TAKE CARE OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL SELF NOW AND GOOD LUCK.

Buoy..............

........when peeps ever going to learn, its not the quantity of the people you sleep with its the quality of one person who REALLY cares for you and would not BREAK your heart so easily.

It is HARD looking for the right person, but they will eventually come looking for you and then work them out a bit and then see how the relationship goes.

that is a good advise everyone make mistake...and don't make it a habit

@flexxi that was good adive.

Reformed gyal ur name says it all.Live up2 the meaning of being reformed.

No one will respect u unless u respect urself.

Have pride in urself u do not deserve to get slammed in one block,strive for the finer thing in life.

SEX IS NOT LOVE.

Just coz a man does tings with u does not mean he loves u.Prostitues get slammed too but they miss out on the true higher feeling of making love.

True intimacy does not involve sex.Whats is the true worth of your relationship with a boy/man if you take away the sex?

Bless and stay reformed

He with out sin cast the first stone

UGH U dirrty girl yes u r a sket an u probably got a few stds up there 2 stop ****in ppl u sound dumb wiv all ur "i felt do sluty" thats coz u r luv . Once u gt a name u can neva leave it sorry to say bt i say u jus stay ur ways coz no1s gonnna 4get wat u done !blkbowjamflagukflag

gyallllll! whas gwanin rite calm down PULL UP UR KNICKERS AND SIT DOWN N LISTEN... FORGET THE WORD sket.. theres no need for all this ... what u need to do is jus calm down with all this .. sex business... put ur foot down now ... n say NOOOOO ITS KINDA EASY AFTER U get the hang of it ... tru say we all need a bit of lovin .. but i tink youve obviously got carried away .. but that aint no biggy ... also .. this business with the no protection ... ALWAYS USE PROTECTION .. because we all hav secrets and SOME ARE GD .. N SUM ARE JUS STANDARDLY GRIMEY.. i tink u jus need to settle down .. get on with what ever ur doin .. n u dnt need a breh to make u happz .. u need to go out .. get sum new bredrins .. or keep the onesu got lol and jus have a gd time ... u seriously dnt need all this sex business constantly .. sumtimes its best to jus gwan COLD TURKEY... STOP RIGHT AWAY .. gyal u aint the only one who have made these mistakes but what u need to do is show respect in urself and take ur time... if u find some one who u wanna b with .. then make him wait if he feels for u.. he will ... till its right for u.. TAKE UR TIME .. N TAKE CARE

Reh, gyal sounds like she likes to sex.

It's alright to like doing sex. I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you are getting your kicks. The worst thing is a girl who ****s and doesn't even like it. That sort of woman doesn't value herself enough to go with what her body and mind are truly telling her to do. Keep on sexing da boyz. Jus make sure you remember to threaten them not to tell every1 about it. You can kill them, send peops to beat da shit out of them, throw bleach around their bedroom, put prawns down their radiator etc if they tell people your collective business.

:?Damn someone be loving a bit to much sex. so were did she find time to go skool wid dis fool time job she was keeping.

I won't be like some people on this forum and think just because I don't know you I can be rude and call you a slut because I can be mature enough to respect the fact that you've come on here and been honest. Everyone does something stupid they don't tell their friends or regretted. So I won't judge you.



First and foremost never believe a guy when he sayas he won't buss and always use protection unless you've been to the clinic and your in a long term relationship. Second I think your reason for sleeping with these guys was because you had low self-esteem at the time and felt like you needed to be wanted. Then you started to feel like you didn't care which brought you to sleeping with two more guys. But you know what people will do with that kind of information so you kind of brought all those rumours on yourself. I hope for your sake you've been to the clinic and haven't caught anything. I know I'm a little late on this post but I hope this helps. Just holla back!

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boy..... ill b real widu, its good dat ure changing ure ways coz it seems like u were letting any tom dick an harry go tru on u...an fink about it ure dealin wid man dat have got wifeys an in the next breath ure talkin bout u wana b sutton serious wid dem....now personally from my experience a gurl dat lets off dat pum pum on da first or second or in sum cases da third time of linkin jus aint serious.... BUT BOY U MAKE MISTAKES IN URE LIFE AN U LEARN FROM DEM niceone.gifFIND URE SELF SUM1 DAT WANTS U FOR MORE DAN SUMFIN OTHER DAN WAT U GOT BETWEEN URE LEGS blkrubhead