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Post imported post - 19-07-04, 12:34 AM

Sorry about your misfortune, but i do hope you learn sweetheart drop all dem boyz and start a fresh. Give yourself a break love a time to exHale.

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Post imported post - 19-07-04, 12:37 AM

EVERY BODY SAY HOE OOOOO.


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Post imported post - 19-07-04, 12:38 AM

BETTER YET GO TO YOUR NEAREST STD CLINIC AND GET YOURSELF TESTED FOR INFECTION AND THE POSSIBLE.
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Well Well Dahling, U definately need to go clinic.....

I know a boy called craig and he's a dirrrrty ******* . get it checked sweetie. How old are you now.???

Only you can change your life and i speak from experience (not as a sketzzz though). Keep tellin yourself that you can do it and You WILL change your life.....

et us know how you get on...






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Post imported post - 19-07-04, 01:03 AM

I was about to comment on the clinic ting aswell, thats the first and most important ting that needs to be done. You then need to ask urself why u stayed with someone who u knew had a girlfriend, and why u did not wait to get to know the other guys better before u slept with them. Actually why did u not wait until u were legal? It seems as though u do not value urself and ur body because u are letting these guys use u, but worst of all u are using urself. You need to leave the boys alone and concentrate on having a better relationship with urself, learn to respect urself, and don't let anyone force u to do something u are not comfortable with doing. If u are going to continue to have sex then at least use protection, and talk to someone u can trust, a family member or close friend. I would also urge u to think more about ur studies and ur career, and less about sex and boys. As u said before it's u getting a reputation, not the boys u are sleepin with.
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Well said facety gal,,,,, its all about lovin yourself..Everybody has drama just donttry bring it upon yourself "reformed gyal"...trust me on dis you cant be reformed cos you're still doubtin yourself,,,,






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Post imported post - 19-07-04, 09:18 AM

rahhh..u mus really like ur ssex bwoy..stil, if u wanna change den change n if u do change den ppl will see dat n eventually stop talkn bout ur dirty past init! jus show d boys ur not lyk dat no more


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Post imported post - 19-07-04, 11:21 AM

I aint gonna call u a sket, cos i know gurls dat have done worst tings den u've said trust me! But u need 2 go clinic cos deres nuff std's u can have a n dont kno u got dem.
well its good ur on the pill and carry on using protection cos nuff man dese days go around f**king bare gyal and dont kno wot disease's dey got including H.I.V. so all i can say is be careful and kno wot ur doing.
The best way to show people dat u have changed is to jus have a break from guys altogether. or if ur dat desperate jus find a nice guy get to kno him (meaning dont jus jump into bed with him). let him take u out, introduce him 2 ur parents ect. then u when u get to kno him good enough and been with him 4 at least 2-3 months then u can start having sex WITH PROTECTION!!!! and u dont need 2 tell all ur friends ur business.
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Post imported post - 19-07-04, 05:42 PM

I think you should ignore what everyone says and thinks about you.. YOU WONT GET ANYWHERE IF YOU RUN YOUR LIFE ON WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. you know what you know and what you know is the only thing that matters. Get a job and go shopping forget about everyone else and forget those guys. your young and the best thing is to now learn from your mistakes and be proud from that. when you get older you can move out of you area and find you numba 1 hubby and be happy. its because now you prolly what things to get better NOWbut they wont..yet... it takes time if a guy calls you a hoe just laugh at him.. because he will be waiting for you to get angry and upset and he would be baffled:? if you do the opposite!!!!

this can make you a stronger and wiser female just take it as that clp)
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Post imported post - 25-07-04, 09:34 PM

all i gotta say is yeah - - fair enuff its ur life an ting but u wanted an answer - if u eva came to my endz an said u did dat den u wud definitely be classed as a sket - i dont personally see u as a sket, u just made a few mistakes - but u'll learn 4rom dem - an u need to be usin protection EVRY time like..cause HIV aint reversable..standard
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Post imported post - 09-08-04, 06:24 AM

Well sex is important..........when it comes to the next stage of your human life, what I mean is reproducing with the person you love and they must feel the same way as well for it to REALLY work.

What it is in todays' Western society it is basicially a trend thing e.g. one girl aged 14 has a boyfriend of 17 and she decides to have sex with him for the first time.

For her it will be a whole New experiencnce that she has not encountered before, but remember guys these days lose their virginities early so they know what the sensation is like.

That is one of the reasons why older guys like younger girls, easier to manipulate into having sex with them since the girl is infatuated by them. After that the guy will usually only want one thing from girls.

Only guys who are intectuals or highbrows who understand the question why..............girls somtimes have sex at an early age. People should already know that the female adolescent matures quicker than the boys that is why the majority of girls would not date under or the same age as they are. It is usually above because of experience that the guy MIGHT have or already does.

Nubian princesses and other girls - try and not get manipulated by these guys who only want your body, who you can not have decent conversations with and the most important when you feel ready to............he should or will understand why you hae chosen not to have sex with him.

Men are *******S - trust me I am male myself and I understand the pain some girls go through when their so-called father is not what he seems or you can not speak to your mother because she is not easy to speak with.

Try and be alittle careful out their people because STDs are on the rise in Britian alone and can be transferred through sex and oral sex.

So my peeps just watch out!


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Post imported post - 15-08-04, 10:32 PM

to be honest im sorry to say but ithink u r a sket but even more so you don't value yourself or your boyfriend(s) which is why you so freely have sex with men unprotected which is dangerous for both you, them and their unsuspecting partners. you lack self respect i'm just curious as to what happened for you to so tragically give yourself a reputation.

most people have rumours spread about them that are lies and they are bullied. you are your own bully and by sleepin around you have not spread rumours but the truth about yourself. the sad thing is that as girl your reputation will never die out and the man that decides to marry you or any many that decide to date you will be given a hard time because of your reputation. for example i have cousin who is married and has two children and still at 28 she is known as a sket. those things don't die out cos somone always knows someone.your past is always gonna follow you.i have no advice for you really but other than to say try this time to be faithful and use protection most importantly.

what you need is some support from your family or someone. ask yourself if you were someone else and someone else was you and they asked if they were a sket what would you say honestly?


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Post imported post - 16-08-04, 07:22 PM

damn girl, u've been busy. u no what, u dont have to sleep wiv every guy u link. its good dat u wanna change, i'll say good luck

hope u dont change ur mind soon and get back to sleeping around. stick 2 it.
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