virginity - Page 5

Kunjufu · (#101 (**permalink**))

cupid_888 wrote:

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No i dont and when i lost it i did really regret it..yes if i waited until marriage then it never would have happened. But i just belive in doing what feels right. Its like arranged marriages. Im in a 2 yearrelationship now and it isnt all about sex even though where young... but he hasnt proposed to me lol.

Not all young people who have sex are mindless kids you kno. Jus like all people married aint happy etc...

( but yes acutally i decided if things dont work out in the future with my bf, im going to TRY and abstain until i find the one for me !! )

Good for you.......and I'll try not to think of all youngsters as sex addicts Lmao..

Mizz_Opinionated · (#102 (**permalink**))

Nah i think u peeps need to slooooooow down with them "when ur ready talks" cause a 15 yr old girl aint ready for nothing!

LadyJay · (#103 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by laYd33_FrEnZy

Fair enough, if you wanna wait until you're married to loose ur virginity then go ahead, but what happens when you have sex with ur new husband/wife and u find out that they are completly crap in bed?? A rubbish sex life can break a relationship and even a marriage, no matter how much in love u are with them. I know I couldn't risk the rest of my life with a person that I havn't been intimate with.

I'm not religious and don't see the point in waitin until marriage, but i can see why some people would rather wait. Im almost 17 and I lost mine when I was 15, not because i was pressured, but because I was ready and have no regrets.

well i highly doubt if it was their first time that they would consider it crappy (it's not like they've done it before and it was better)i would think thats sex requires communication, so they would be able to work out better sexual experiences together....

LadyJay · (#104 (**permalink**))

i say wait......