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14-05-05, 01:32 AM
Ok so I'm totaly confused as to what a black boy finds attractive. I meen it seems like you want booty and thick thighs as well as a flat stomach. But i meen do you know how hard it is to have a big booty, thick thighs AND a flat stomach. Then i see these stars like Cristina Millian who are like pretty thin and im like WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT. Do you mind a little bit of sumthing on your woman's stomach, or do you want them tight like beyonce or cristina Millian, to be considered attractive. Basicly could you just list what you like.
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14-05-05, 01:39 AM
well i don`t mind some meat on a woman, as long as i can feel some firmness and see some shape then i`m happy. 
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14-05-05, 02:35 AM
so they dont have to be video girl status?
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17-05-05, 01:02 AM
What does it matter what these guys call fine?
My mother always told me: "You're a beautiful girl, never wait for a man to tell you that"
Not every man thinks the same, some like big, skinny, tall, short, flat chest, big bootys ... the list will continue, but at the end of the day, you are what you are
and there will be a guy who likes what you have, you don't have to try and fit into what the general public seem to like because there will always be someone who doesn't have that taste.
Confidence is sexy. Love your body the way it is.
You know what they say.... "If you dont love yourself, how can anyone else?" So be proud of your curves or the lack of them
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17-05-05, 01:11 AM
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My mother always told me: "You're a beautiful girl, never wait for a man to tell you that"
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Your mother is a very wise woman! btw, is that you in your avator- if so, your v. pretty niceone.gif
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As for the question at hand, all guys have different tastes. The truth is though, if he's a real man, then he'll look beyond all that. I mean yea looks matter but it shouldnt be the main thing. The smart guys often are the ones that relaise that theres only so much they can go far with looks. Eventually, the guy will get bored of the dumb but beatuful girl cos he'll realise that he wants more in a woman other then a pretty face a some nice breasts. Now if you ever find one of them guys- grab em quick cos they're scarce!
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make sure that you never mould yourself into someone else's conformities. be happy with who you are.
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besides, girls like christiana milliani are made up. strip away the layers of make up and airbrush, you'll see that they're average girls. also many of these celebs have surgery and allsorts to lower their weight. dont hold these girls up as something you should aspire to in terms of looks. infact dont aspire to be like these girls period. they're nothing but glorified strip/pole/lap dancers. only difference is that they sing! they feel the need to prostitue themselves to the media in order to gain respect and some self worth.
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You dont need to do that girl. All you need is confidence and faith in god. respect yourself and your body.
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\"If the ocean were ink to write out the words of my Lord, sooner would the ocean be exhausted than would the words of my Lord\" Qur\'an 18:109.
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17-05-05, 10:18 PM
Durrah: Your mother is a very wise woman! btw, is that you in your avator- if so, your v. pretty niceone.gif
Yes it is, Thank You!x
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20-05-05, 12:39 AM
To be honest, confidence won't help if you know you're ugly.
Just like some people are born with stunningly great looks, some people happen to be born ugly. Its a statistical fact. confused3
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23-05-05, 07:55 PM
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To be honest, confidence won't help if you know you're ugly.
Just like some people are born with stunningly great looks, some people happen to be born ugly. Its a statistical fact. confused3
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Well seabiscuit........ u cant realli say that anyone is ugly....some people may find a certain person ugly but then some else may find them buff it aint fair to call any one ugly at all...its just that you may not find them attractive! and its not always about the looks bcoz i no full well my man isntBOW WOWbut it was his personality and CONFIDENCEdat won me over not his facial appearance and hey you grow to love a person by their personality and learn to love thier looks!
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You have to think about it.....what if you go out with the most buffest person dere is but they are just a total jackass and fool.....they may look good on the arm but how you suppose to have a converstion with them.
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27-05-05, 08:22 PM
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To be honest, confidence won't help if you know you're ugly.
Just like some people are born with stunningly great looks, some people happen to be born ugly. Its a statistical fact. confused3
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Kinky Natz wrote: u can realli say that anyone is ugly
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Well i was goin to post a picture of someone from ugly.com but i think people could find it offensive even disturbing, so click here if u want http://www.uglypeople.com/uploaded/18609/ugly8.JPG
For those of you that did look , dont tell me there is someone on earth who would find the person physically attractive !!!
Its a fact that set in the mind of everyone is a notion of what is 'attractive' and what isnt. Even a baby knows whatslooks scary or nice, its like morality knowing inside of you right from wrong. Obivously the more u get 2 kno a person the more thierlooks become less and less important, but intially attractivness is important, its human nature.
N e way i think that you shouldnt care what a boy thinks is fine, how bout what you would like your body to be like ?
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06-08-05, 08:12 AM
http://www.brownsteins.net/Ulpan/Images/lisa_bonet.jpg
I'm not a big boobie and behind man but a nice face always gets my attention

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