My Man cheated on me

MzDiamonte · (#1 (**permalink**))

I'm 16 and woz basically goin wid a 18 yr old black brotha 4 a few months and then the inevitable happened....i fell in luv wid him (da onli boy i hav eva fallen in luv wid). Den he broke da news to me dat he woz cheatin and I woz heartbroken and cried 4 bout 4 wks straight. Da fing is dat he has decided 2 b wid her and is still tellin me he's feelin me and is sorry. I know dat im bein an idiot finkin bout him still but i cant jus erase da luv i had 4 him...da worse fing is dat i got da new chic call my fone and try get rude ( wen she knewi woz his gurlin da first place!)...I HATE him but den stil LOVE him, im so confused and dont want 2 do sumfing i wil regret.....Help!

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Sorry to have to tell you but he will now want to enjoy the best of both Worlds...He can probably sense U still feel for him and would probably take him back if he leaves the other Girl....Soooo he says he's "sorry" and will then see U when it suits him(probably for a Booty Call) and still continue to see the other Girl.......Funnily enough(as I'm MUCH older than U) I deliberately drove past a House in London 2nite which I shared with a Girl at Weekends 12 years ago....I used to count the minutes when I saw her off at Euston Station 'til she came back next weekend....We went our seperate ways....now I never think of her and she,no doubt,likewise......Forget him or U WILL get "played" and get hurt all the more

MzDiamonte · (#3 (**permalink**))

Safe 4 dat...rite now it stil hurts...da fing is I want 2 move on n start a new relationship but its hard since Im stil feelin strongly 4 dis man....it wudn't b fair 2 start sumfing new wid sum1 on dat basis wud it?...dats a problem im facin but fink I need time 2 get ova him.....but its been ova a month dat he broke da news n I still feel da same.....