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07-08-05, 08:44 PM
arr i've seen dem tings..u mean fishnets? lawd jeesum, dnt these ppl clock, or can't they clock it could be suttin to do wiv their appearance y mandem take dem 4 mugs? lol
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07-08-05, 08:49 PM
lol i wish dey were fishnets dey wld have looked betta - take da rim of a cup dats how big da holes were
and i fink gyalz like dat think - easy is attractive
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07-08-05, 11:10 PM
I've read what you said and considered your points.
I agree with you that there's no need for the skirts that caress your batty so tight that u need surgery to get it off, but then again we call it dutty clothing and all sorts of things when our views are just stereotypical cause there's no proper way 2 dress. I'm not saying that i dn't wear short skirts but they dn;t hug my batty or look like a belt.
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08-08-05, 10:21 AM
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I've read what you said and considered your points.
I agree with you that there's no need for the skirts that caress your batty so tight that u need surgery to get it off, but then again we call it dutty clothing and all sorts of things when our views are just stereotypical cause there's no proper way 2 dress. I'm not saying that i dn't wear short skirts but they dn;t hug my batty or look like a belt.
tru say, but when i have children, i dnt want dem to see dem tings wen i take dem shoppin. I aint sayin der's a rite way of dressin, an u can say i'm stereotypin, but dats MY opinion gemme, who wants their kids to see ass every corner dey turn cuz sum ppl dont have tha decency to cover up in public, havin to shield their eyes every 5 mins.There's sum things u shud leave to tha imagination, an it's thesegyals that leave everythin on display that attractshort term man. (nt directly aimed @ tha last poster on dis bit)So in my opinion, dem clothes r dutty, an i always will think they are. Disagree with me if u want, but if dats what u choose to wear, an ur comfortable wearin dem tings, den y shud u care what i think
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08-08-05, 10:40 AM
lol okayyy i gotta say some skirts may look like dey huggin a gyalz ass because these mini skirts in the shops aint really made for a black girls shape so then they do kinda ride up in the back - thats in the defence... and i gotta say maybe i've worn some things that you guys would see as dutty but noone has ever said nuffin so i didnt think anything of it guess i know now lol . at the end of the day it comes down to opinon there is no right or wrong way of dressing. And @ Ladi_Swifty duno bout any1 else but i care what u fink which sounds nuff strange i know coz boy i dnt know u and u dnt know me - but i dont want no1 finkin im scatty lol so ive listened to what ur saying. But how come u have chosen not to wear skirts/ mini skirts? and i take it you think a gyal having links and not boyfriends is scatty 2?
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08-08-05, 06:43 PM
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lol okayyy i gotta say some skirts may look like dey huggin a gyalz ass because these mini skirts in the shops aint really made for a black girls shape so then they do kinda ride up in the back - thats in the defence... and i gotta say maybe i've worn some things that you guys would see as dutty but noone has ever said nuffin so i didnt think anything of it guess i know now lol . at the end of the day it comes down to opinon there is no right or wrong way of dressing. And @ Ladi_Swifty duno bout any1 else but i care what u fink which sounds nuff strange i know coz boy i dnt know u and u dnt know me - but i dont want no1 finkin im scatty lol so ive listened to what ur saying. But how come u have chosen not to wear skirts/ mini skirts? and i take it you think a gyal having links and not boyfriends is scatty 2?
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I aint said nuttin bouthavin links is scatty...what i'm tryina say is, it's normally tha scatty gyals dat BOIS go for 4 linkin...not normally a long term. Der ain't nuttin rong wiv linkin...but when a boy asks to link..it normally meanssex involved (tha wuns I know), but linkin, as in....trial period, goin out places wiv dem couple times an see how itgoes..that's ok, but cause I know whatsumma dese boys true intentions are when dey say linkin..I know what kinda gyal dey wud look for. Wun who looks easy cuz she's gother goodies on display. Wun dats easier fe catch (if ya catch)I choose not to wear miniskirts cuz that ain't ma taste not cuz there's anythin wrong with them, i'm juss more of a tracksuit person...an luvvin off dem badge tops rite bout now...but anywhoo, I got only WUN skirt, but it aint a mini, an i don't wear belt skirts, cuz they look nasty to me.An about skirts ridin up...that's different...but when der aint enuff to ride up in tha first place....dats what i mean.Ders certainskirts dat r literally showin tings when they're standin up straight...why do that 2 urself?!?..not u personally..i'mmean in general. Don't get me rong yea, mini skirts ain't my idea of scatty, an a lickle cleavageain't scatty,..itlooks scatty when it's over-the-top like what i described couple posts ago,from what u described 2 me bout what u wear in ur couple posts, datain't ma idea of scatty,dat juss sounds like how a lot of ppl i know dress..an ain't nuttin rongwiv dat, I juss ain't ma preference or ma style, an ma mum dnt let mewear mini anyway, which is juss as well cuz ma eyes normally skip dem on tha rack when i'm shoppin lol, my idea of scatty are dem clothes that EVERYONE will stop an stare at an say suttin...if u wear what u wear on street an know every1 ain't turnin around to "tut" at u or wateva they do nowadays lol...then u ain't got a problem, it's only dem clothes dat u can't help but look at an fink "eurgh" that I find nasty, so dnt business bout what i'm sayin lol, cuz ur clothes dont sound half as bad as what I find nasty lol i aint a prude or nuttin, when I think suttin lukks trampish on someone lol chances are every1 else on the street feels the same way an has 2 look an say "dis an dat" 2 whoever they're walkin with, I can't really explain it, but basically, like....what I think is nasty...the majority of people who see it would think so too, judgin by reactions i've seen in certain "situations" lol. Tru say if u saw what i was talkin about...u most prolly fink it lukk nasty too, an i aint talkin mini or cleavage, even string vess wiv bra lukk ok...but wearin string vest wiv no bra.....(seen dat luv) mm mmmm dats nasty....alie?
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08-08-05, 07:16 PM
Please just get yourself a school book, or a college book...in fact any book...any academic book @ all and just READ. Read it. 
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08-08-05, 07:43 PM
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Please just get yourself a school book, or a college book...in fact any book...any academic book @ all and just READ. Read it.
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08-08-05, 09:31 PM
lol okay gyal well we could be here for ages just arguing this at the end of the day we have different opinons. but its cool arguing this with you coz were oviously very diffrerent people - in relationships to the way we dress.. I see your point but the way i look at is people dress to represent who they are - and maybe it makes these girls feel more attractive and therefor boosts there confidence so good luck to them.
dont get the whole book comment - who was it aimed at?
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08-08-05, 09:55 PM
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lol okay gyal well we could be here for ages just arguing this at the end of the day we have different opinons. but its cool arguing this with you coz were oviously very diffrerent people - in relationships to the way we dress.. I see your point but the way i look at is people dress to represent who they are - and maybe it makes these girls feel more attractive and therefor boosts there confidence so good luck to them.
dont get the whole book comment - who was it aimed at?
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I wouldn't call it a argument, more of a debate still lolz, an about tha book comment...it's obviously suttin negative an off topic lol
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09-08-05, 02:03 AM
tru say, but when i have children, i dnt want dem to see dem tings wen i take dem shoppin. I aint sayin der's a rite way of dressin, an u can say i'm stereotypin, but dats MY opinion gemme, who wants their kids to see ass every corner dey turn cuz sum ppl dont have tha decency to cover up in public, havin to shield their eyes every 5 mins.There's sum things u shud leave to tha imagination, an it's thesegyals that leave everythin on display that attractshort term man. (nt directly aimed @ tha last poster on dis bit)So in my opinion, dem clothes r dutty, an i always will think they are. Disagree with me if u want, but if dats what u choose to wear, an ur comfortable wearin dem tings, den y shud u care what i think
I don't wear wat you call 'dutty gal clothing right', my skirts will reach just a bit above my knee and I always look descent wearing them because the back isn't sky high and I can justpull it off (lol). when i sed the thing about stereotypical views, i aimed it at evr1 including me cause what we think iswrong can be right in another persons head, visa versa(true sories or not). I understand what you mean referring to children, cause i know i won't let my daughter (if i have a girl, prayin 4 a girl) leave out the house with a skirt that looks like knickers cause nobody will take her seriously.I have alot of friends who are boys(they also have dirty minds)but still respect me cause i respect myself in the way i dress, behave and treat them. i think it takes these three things to show a guy how you really are.
I was with one of my friends today and trust her skirt was reaching just under her batty and when we were walkng one boy turned round and sed 'tekk body gal, u look so easy' and i couldn't help but too crease but do you know what the funny thing was? Her remark (not toward him towards me you know); she goes ' why you laughin, u must be scatty for walkin with me'' and 4 real she was just givin me barejoke all i had 2 say was ' look how i'm dressed look how your dressed, look how i present myself look how you display yourself and you wanna talk about scatty don't bring it 2 me' and the boy sed 'a me fi tell you'. now this is an example of what your talking about, i tld her about her skirt and she wasn't havinany ofit (this is one of the girls who sed i'm stoosh)but at the end of the day i've got my man who appreciates me whether stoosh or not. some people will take advice and some people think that by dressing the way they do they will get a descent man but it's all down 2 the person, all we can do is advise.
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