confused3why do boy seem to act up wen they dont get wat they want lets start with the numbers me and my friend was rolin throw lewisham now and then this brother call her ova to churps her he was kind of buff still so we went ova there now and he's woz like wat ur name she told him um hav u got a number she said no i last my fonestill she lied her fone was inher bagcas she dont give out her numbanornally cas she only gives it to the peeps she thinks should hav it and she trust anyways hewoz like dont lie manhav u got a man she said yes well **** off den i wouldn't want to bang u anyway u butterzall his breginsstart bendingup wewalk offshe wanted to cuss him off cas she know she pretty and if he try nothing she will get him set cas her man his a top pecham youth so iam their pulling her the boy is still shouting u bitch dutty hoe i neva like u anyway imean why did he call her ova if he neva liked herand denshe didn't give him her numba then acts like dat

the boys don't act up just that one
and go ask him b/c I can only speak for myself

boys r like dat cos they duno how 2 deal wiv rejection like a gal wud

i.e walk off mutterin unda her breath

boys resort to either violence or insults to hide the fact that wen dey get home theyl sit in der room cryin, while playin sum 'jam innit

its to put up an emotional front n that innit

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dere dum really. hes frontin

getting rejected is one ting but its a differetn ting getting rejected by an english gal or a big headed teasing bitch.

Men have the right to diss a big headed teasing bitch.

when i see a lady thats tryin to tease i just barge her hard and she says "ow"

nahh man shouldn't have spoke 2 ur fren like dat wheva she pretty or not, no gyal need 2 b spoken 2 like dat - man couldn't deal wiv the rejection straight up!

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They can't take the rejection. They must think "yea..i'm wiv ma boys now" so they think they can call up any girl they want and get what they want from her. When they get rejected, they get embarassed, especially if they're with all their boys or whatever, so they'll try and twist it so that the girl is the one who's embarassed. I'm pretty sure the guy wouldn't have done the same thing had he been by himself.

A lot of boys tend to do this cause they can't handle when they're being told 'no'. like to say they're too good to receive that response, so when they do, they try to make out like they're superior to the female and that she "wasn't good enough for them anyway" despite the fact the girl possessed something physically that attracted them in the first place.

From what you were saying, I can tell the boy didn't mean it when he said she was butters, cause if he was with all of his bredrens an watnot...why would he call over someone that he truly classifies as 'butters?' why would he call up someone that he himself thinks is ugly, and most likely his bredrens would find unnattractive aswell? He was just tryina make himself look good and turn the tables to make the girl feel bad for making him realise he can't 'have everythin he wants'.

Firstly why on earth you and your friends walking over to some little dumb boys who clearly don’t have a life. Girl you have to realize from the moment they don’t approach you with a good and respectful manner you can tell they are not worth your time. I would never in my life walk over to a group of random boy/s who I don’t know just because he wanted to “chirps me� that’s really lowering your standards as a female altogether. If he really liked you he would have acted like a man and approached instead of calling you like your some sort of animal. And by the way if she had a man (or was that an excuse) what is she doing walking up to him. And as for not giving your number to him (which I totally agree with) what did you think he was going to ask for in the first place? Duh! The time? Or some directions?



If you are not interested in a guy do not give them the slightest hint that you are because boys cannot or in this case will not take rejection.

I'm not trying to be funny but your friend is lucky she got off with a cussing....My friend wasin Lewisham too one night when a guy tried to move to her.....Now she told him no because she had a boyfriend and she even apologised......Did that work? No the man straight boxed her in her mouth because his friends were there and they were laughing at him for getting "rejected".....He took out her two front teeth....Now she has to wear denches for the rest of her life.....