Thugs or "Pretty boy"?

Sweetheart122 · (#1 (**permalink**))

Ladies, if you had to choose between the two, which one?

bubz · (#2 (**permalink**))

pretty boy. only if i had to choose one. if i had my way i wouldn't choose either. that is a difficult choice cuz you wudnt really want either of emfor different reasons tho.

Mezmerized · (#3 (**permalink**))

Sweetheart122 wrote:

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Ladies, if you had to choose between the two, which one?

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LOL..i can't believe you actually asked LADIES to choose between a THUG or so called prety boy. Since when do LADIES go with thugs? confused3

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Please tell me you go lost...maybe this was supposed to be in the under 18 forum...

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Oh PS: Are these the only two categories that black men in YOUR world comes into?confused2

Sweetheart122 · (#4 (**permalink**))

yeah, as i think about it, you are right i should have put it in the under 18 forum

Le Moor · (#5 (**permalink**))

Sweetheart122 wrote:

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yeah, as i think about it, you are right i should have put it in the under 18 forum

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ROFLMAO...........Classic

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You were supposed to reply "Yeah you're right MEZ, i really need to think about the type of men i have as choices in my world"

Prince Hakeem · (#6 (**permalink**))

***exits thread***

east · (#7 (**permalink**))

This is how you know youth them are lost. Will some of you girl really and truely say in your mind:

''I want a thug for my boyfriend''

Is this what you want black males to be ? Thugs. Are you making the choice that black males should be thugs ? Are you making black males into thugs ?

bubz · (#8 (**permalink**))

east wrote:

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This is how you know youth them are lost. Will some of you girl really and truely say in your mind:

''I want a thug for my boyfriend''

Is this what you want black males to be ? Thugs. Are you making the choice that black males should be thugs ? Are you making black males into thugs ?

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Sadly, a lot of young girls do only see thugs or pretty boys. you are one or the other to them. a lot of young men do see two options, thug life or pretty-boy-life which might involve getting a good education and a career - good looks sometimes gives the owner more breaks in life. if a guy dont feel cut out for one lifestylehe might get into the other. selfconfidence, family support, commonsense, intelligenceand all that can influence the choices young men makeas well.

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i dont think its about what these young girls want, young men should be all they can be and notaccept limitations on what they can be. some youngsters feel uncomforatble doing anything unless its living up to some stereotype they got from the television they have been programmed by since birth. its the age of mtv. no one can make a black male into a thug if he uses his brain to think about whether that life is truly for him. i certainly wouldnt blame young girls who are subjected to all the same b.s. concerning who and what they should be.

Real Roxanne · (#9 (**permalink**))

east wrote:

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This is how you know youth them are lost.

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Not all youth are lost, Im a Teenager and I for one aint lost.

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Will some of you girl really and truely say in your mind:

''I want a thug for my boyfriend''

Is this what you want black males to be ? Thugs. Are you making the choice that black males should be thugs ? Are you making black males into thugs ?

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Black males make themselves into thugs or wanna be gangsters.

Red Cyborg · (#10 (**permalink**))

east wrote:

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This is how you know youth them are lost.

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Not all youth are lost, Im a Teenager and I for one aint lost.

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Will some of you girl really and truely say in your mind:

''I want a thug for my boyfriend''

Is this what you want black males to be ? Thugs. Are you making the choice that black males should be thugs ? Are you making black males into thugs ?

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Black males make themselves into thugs or wanna be gangsters.

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actually the media and environmenthas affect on people to make them into wanna be thugs. I mean you don't make yourself speak english. Your parent's influence and environment does that. You don't make yourself become the person you are. your parent's and environment soes that.

topboy · (#11 (**permalink**))

Thank god.. we have some conscious heads in hereclp)

Im goin to start to use this forum more often

Incognito · (#12 (**permalink**))

Don't the two go together, we've mastered the art of at least looking the part when there's really nothing of substance

newstyle · (#13 (**permalink**))

What about a pretty thug? or would that make him a fag, thus render him useless to Ladies.