What do girls like to hear when a guy chats them up? - Page 2

Sooofresh · (#26 (**permalink**))

the traveller wrote:

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when i dont call your name dont reply me you single twats.

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I will reply to you, whatare yougonna do you white ******* fcuk off?

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who mentioned white girls pls?

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the topic is about chat up lines not blk woman, if u wanna get in slanging match best u pm and we can take it from their piece of shit

Peacemaker · (#27 (**permalink**))

Arf! at the lot of you.

babylluv · (#28 (**permalink**))

i think its up to d girl-

if ure good lookin enough, d girl would give u benefit of d doubt n take ur digits! but if u aint got much goin for u, u kno its a cruel world n whether u like it or not, first ting ppl look at is looks, so u do need to be urself, n dont cum across astoo foward, cos d girl thinks u think shes easy...so she gives u wrong digits;

if u come across as rude, or whistle across d street, or go 'OI' tinkin ure a bad man, she would kiss her teet n walk away, cos she aint a dog!

trick is give urselves eye contact, if she looks away she mite be shy but u can tell so hav to pay close attention, cos if shes shy, she'll look bak at u again, but if shes not on u, u should be able to get dat vibe - she'll either screwor walk straight pass; though sum girls make it easy by givin eye contact, so eye contact is a definite 'im on it, cum chirps me'

finally, if ure stunning and u know all d girls r on it, u could get away wid jus sayin, can i hav ur digits?! and grinin sum teet, but its always nice wen dey say 'ure lookin sweet or sexy or suttin like dat, before askin for digits!

PS -ONLY SUM GUYS GET AWAY WID LICKINTHEIR LIPS SO PLS CHECK URSELF MANZ, B4 HAND, AS U MAY CUM ACROSS AS U AINT GOT CASH TO BUY SUMVASELINE!!!

Just_ME · (#29 (**permalink**))

walks in post fashionalby late smoking-devil

ok so i hear a few brothers out there who always complain on how unaproachable sistas are, being one of the worst for this, as i am told by my male friends i will brake it down for you. Dont get me wrong i dont have a stank attitude there is just some things that will set a sista off and make her fuss you out.

Never ever put your hands on a female you wanna talk to, common examples are grabbing her arm when she is walking past, like she is your wifey storming away from an arguement. Touching her ass, grinding behind her unenvited on a dance floor, wrapping your arms round her waist from behind and trying to drag her cos you want to talk to her. This may seem egsadurated but you dont know how many times a brotha has done this to me and my friends.

If she says she has a man, back off and never come back with "oh so is he white" countless males have said this to me and my black male friends say it to. All this does is make the sista your talking to assume your ignarent. And if she has a man back the hell off, either she has a man or she is saying she does cos she doesnt know how to let you down gentally without hurting your feelings. Never ever keep persuing her. ie that dont matter i still want your number, or your boyfriend dont affect us and the worst of all " its ok i have a gf"

Never come across like you doing her a favour, like if she is tunring you down it is her loss, never fuss her outbeing mean just b' couse she dont wanna be on a date with you.

when your talking, talk to her face nother ass or chest, or she will fuss you out, she aint cheap dont treat her like she is

Never ever senda big group of your friends ova to her to make your point or approach her with a big group of your friends egging you on, she will feel like ajoke or the product of a dare.

And finially theworst of the worst never ever use the" but im a brother" or "you carnt say no...y you dissing me im a brother" line, omg this will annoy the hell out of a sista, yeah your a brother and yes we have love for yall, but just cos your a brother dont give you outomatic rights to me,

Just_ME · (#30 (**permalink**))

all males have to do to grab the attention of a sista is to be a gentleman.Treat them with respect, approch as sista like you would your mother,important females withn your life and other females you know you must respect.

Catch her attention in a polite mannor, catch her eye contact and smile, if she smiles back and looks your way then she is interested.Maybe ifyou walk past her say hi, the way she responds will tell you if she is interested, as sometime she may just smile back to me polite.

start a conversation by asking if she is enjoying herself.Compliment her, and i dont mean "hey ma you have a nice ass" something like you look nice, look into her eyes and tell her she has nice eyes if you believe shedoes. There is nothing worse than someone complimenting you and you know they are just spinning a line becouse they aint even looking in your eyes.

And if you get stuck for conversation do not try and be slick with it and mess up the conversation, be honest say something like i dunno you wanna get to know her but your not very good at the spitting lines thing so is their anything interesting she can tell you about herself or she wanna talk about, becouse you want to get to know her. You will melt the heart of a female by being sweet. If your not good at approching and your shy tell her she will appreciate your honesty.

After a converstaion then ask her for her phone number cos you would like to continue the conversation. If the first words that come out of your mouth are can i have your number, she dont know whether she wanna talk to you or not you aint given her any real reason to believe that you are worth holding a conversation with. Unless you in a situation were u aint have the chance to hold down a convo in which asking for the number would be appropriate.

say your in a club or something, dont ask her what she is doing after the club, as it is more than likely that if at2am your aking what she is doing after theclub, and you dont express yourself properly you will come across as you wanting to get her into bed or you have an alterier motive. Instead ask her if she is getting home ok and she knows how she is getting home. If there is only her or a few of her female friends offer to walk her to the nearest taxi rank or call her a cab to ensure she is safely on her way.

Believe me you will melt her heart by just being considerate and sweet niceone.gif

JONHNCROW234 · (#31 (**permalink**))

MI SINGLE TOOOOOOOOO MI INTARESTING INA EVERYBADDY

Peacemaker · (#32 (**permalink**))

de shagy wrote:

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am single

intresting in sexy babes

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Why I'm I not surprised...

shamin · (#33 (**permalink**))

hinicky the only advise i can give u is that most girls like a guy who can make them laugh, it shows how done to earth he is, even when u go on a date am no expert but i can speak for us girls when i say we like a guy togive compliments (not too much as they can become too anoying and sometimes seem desperate). We like guys that are interested in us asking questions and keeping the questions quite basic and personal but no too personal like what was ur ex like (silly question on first dates), as i said before am no expert am just a woman.

shamin · (#34 (**permalink**))

at the end of the day people can sit there and say it's not about looks, but what's physical attraction? am sure you have to be physically attracted to someone, unless it's a case where you have known the person for some time and things heat up from there

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maybe ur not physically attracted to someone but enduring in a conversation with them makes them more interested so by the time they ask you out, you feel too bad to say no

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the person is too good to say no to

obal85 · (#35 (**permalink**))

TO SISTA GIRL,

U wrote: Do not stare.

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Ohh, we should keep our eyes closed then. You are one weird chick.

sista girl · (#36 (**permalink**))

obal85 wrote:

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TO SISTA GIRL,

U wrote: Do not stare.

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Ohh, we should keep our eyes closed then. You are one weird chick.

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@obal85

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How amI a weird chick?

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Haven't you ever been told that it's rude to stare?

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No do not keep your eyes closed! but remember to blink!

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If a person is looking at you like this

itcan make you feel uncomfortable.

NICOLE · (#37 (**permalink**))

i think more people should just be honest. one of my main goals in life is just to stay true to myself. im nicole thats me this is how i am. I never wanted a boyfriend i was happy being single doin my own ting when and where i wanted to and i can honestly say the most attractive things about a man is sense of humour, looks, BRAINS and availability (please dont come chat to me if u have a gal!!!) and most importantly HONESTY. when a dude approaches me anywhere i can tell u from the jump off what he is interested in whether its a relationship just a sexual relationship or just a one night stand. and sometimes as a girl i look at a dude and decide he's cool but not babyfather material i'd just like to f***k him and i did i told them from the jump off what i wanted and we did whatever we were comfortable with but i have no time for a man that pretends to want a wifey when he really just wants some nookie. my boyfriend of two years now is nothing like the sort of guys i used to date he's a straight clean living good education good job earns the majority of his money legitimately and we fell in love without even realising it he doesnt wear the clothes i like he's cute but i dont care if he aint good looking to anyone but me cos he's my man and we take care of each other we got together when he indicated to my friend that he thought i was cute but well out of his league i wasnt seeing anyone at the time and decided to get to know him when he realised i was interested he took over and we took it from there were still together now he's great!!!!blk3hug2