Y dont girlz approach us manz that often, a few timez when im in town, i cant help but notice a nice gyal walk past, and it is bate dat she checkin me too.But i dnt go approach girlz in town n that coz i dont rekon its the right way to get to know a girl, n plus the pressure of getting blasted!!!!lol.

So y dont more girls approach manz if they think the man iz heavy?blkbow

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And guys actually manage to have a meaningful conversation with you when they chat you up do they?

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Don't mind me, I am in a mischievous mood today

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Respect

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Its strange because as soon as a guy comes and talks to me I am immedietly on a defence I think he either has a girl, Just wants to get in my knickers or is just plain up to no good. I never tend to respond to guys on the road cause they normally come of with the same thing. Xcuse me whats ur name .....So what can I get a number? HaHa I normally meet guys through friends so it all depends onhow u meet them cause u'll be more rude to a random stranger although as a girl myself im neva rude to guys on road i hate it when girls just diss the programme when a guy has not been rude. But the worst possible thing you could do guys ismake ur friend approach a girl 4 u that makes u fail b4 u've even tried!!!!

y are we beating around the bush girlz, the straight truth is.. if a guy has to use a chat up line you KNOW eitha ...

a) He hasnt got a personality so is hiding behind a corny act

b) He THINKS hes a player and can pull any chic with sum overused line

c) Hes overconfident/ cocky, and has obviously tried picking up girls off the street before, which automatically doeant make you feel special!

Personnaly i only chat tounknown guys through friends, but the one time i ever CONSIDERED giving my number to a guy, was when he said somehing nice SPECIFIC to me, that would make a girl stop and think ' o he actuali noticed that'..

For example, if she has a nice pair of shoes on, you can say ' i like your shoes', or if shes obviously just had her hair done ' I really like your hair', or if shes wearing a t-shirt of your fav band or something, you could say ' o ar eyou into ******, i think theyre pretty cool..."

But to just try and Bop up to a girl, and give her the same old " you baby, her shorty, where u goin now," crap is quite simply pathetic ---- and only going to get you the type of girls who are a 'dollar a dozen'. - ( ignore tis advice if ur looking for easy girls with no self respect)

Peace!

you what i clocked- every woman is different what works on one may not work on the other, so really be yourself is the best bet- but it dnt mean you gone get anywhere!

i know certain girls dat if you sed to dem oh i like your hair- to them dats just another chat up likely to get you 1 Duuuuttty luk, so bwoy, really an truly i would leave da compliments until the ice is broken through other means- like for example the mutual friend, b ut i reckon theres other more subtle ways. chat up lines really only work on dem ESSEX Gyal anyway!

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well if i was to approace a woman i would be myself,to be quite honest i'm kinda shy i have had girls stare at me and smiled and i tend to just stand there, cause i scared that i might say the wrong thing at times

Hi, (and a quick compliment in-tow would go down a treat) and smile,smile,smile it makes all the difference guys(especially if you look fierce,,,)

Hi is tunisha, well i think in order for a guy to chat u a gal, he should be himself, and most important first encounter is everything, he shouldnt just be for appearances but also to make a friendship cuz there are so many relationships that ended bad cuz they were not mates, and most of all the guy should be respectful.

well said ladyday

Now maybe it's just me but being yourself with a pinch of good humour goes a long way as far as I'm concerned. It works really be yourself but then again some guys are real randy when it comes to asses and breasts and all those other things that make guys drull while they're on the dinner table!

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Anyone who tries that horrible chat up line deserves a 25 to life prison sentence.

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@cockneybouy

It’s not what you say but how u say it.

If you are in a bar why not offerto buy her a drink in a charming way, or perhaps just introducing you're self? Surely that can get the convos starting...

If its the image thing yr worried about...then hun, that’s when you as a man gotta have game...

Peace