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@Lil thuggy, I always seemed to get chatted up by younger guys aswell!I think that is because I look young. The younger guys are actually more polite than older guys less aggressive and can take no for an answer. They just keep it moving but with a smile on their face.

Im always polite to guys when they talk to me there is no need to be rude. Prefer it when someone is themselves, cannot stand churned repeated lyrics. That they probably use with every girl they see. Always see guys chirpsing girls they have seen from across the road ie cannot even see properley but will chirps her. Suggests that it is a regular thing and its nothing to do with the particular but the mere fact she is just walking pum pum for them...

Also what is with this beckoning over, some guys do this when theywant to talk to you, but yet they tell you to come to them?? Sorry does that make logical sense??? or are guys these days that weak they cant take rejection and do all they can to feel "manly". The minutea guy does this Iignore himor say you wanted to speak to me so you comeover here to me it suggest he is weak and has no back-bone.

I agree with you Madam Butterfly I too would lose interest life is too short for games. the two people might really really like eachother but because no wants to just say that. They play stupid games life is too short and you miss out in the end. As you would start to get sick of that person and their nonsense.


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cannot stand churned repeated lyrics. That they probably use with every girl they see. Always see guys chirpsing girls they have seen from across the road ie cannot even see properley but will chirps her. Suggests that it is a regular thing and its nothing to do with the particular but the mere fact she is just walking pum pum for them...

co-sign. It amazes me when guys "chirps" a girl this way and act all offended and get insultingwhen they get ignored or a rude response. Are we supposed to fall at the feet of their chupidness confused3even if you DIDN'T hear the same thing 3-4 times a day, its still an unbecoming way to approach a young lady. Now if you are chasing any old skank who will give it up at the drop of an insincere compliment, that is different. But most guys will approach any woman the same way, without checking to see the calibre of woman they are dealing wit. Like Black Butterfly said, they are just looking for walking pum pum.


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UNCONVENTIONAL AND INTERESTING USUALLY WORKS... WORKING WITH THE ENERGY OF THE OBJECT OF YOUR DESIRE CAN LEAD YOU TO THE RIGHT WAY TO GET THEIR ATTENTION AND KEEP IT


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Post imported post - 04-05-07, 07:36 PM

this is what women want.

firstly lie to them, in a club or where ever just lie lie about your earning and all that crap o.k. good

now next is you get them drunk alcohol (whitegirls) or chinese take away(blk girl).

next get them close whisper nothings into thier ears, note the key word there whisper "nothings" sweet nothing. in lay mans terms "crap". into thier ears. they are insecure so tell them how fine they are, not how smart they are. being fine is more important than being smart to women well most not all. note you most hug them from behind while whispering to them. then start kissing thier necks. its works like magic.

then youre good to go after that. youv added to the problem of too many single baby mama's that all there is to it boys.its that easy and thats what happens in society its not a joke. a friend of mine got sex from a sister after buying her chinese food.


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It would help if you didn't catch the object of your desire completely off guard, i.e. say you were having a perfectly normal conversation and then you just drop something quite 'racy' into the conversation and catch the person off-guard, so much so that they are lost for words...I talk from experience...


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The first thing a women thinks when you approach is "When are we going to get rid of this guy ?" So on approachI give them a false time constaint I'll say

"Hey I just want your opinion on something, I can only stay a sec coz you just gotta get back to my mates "

My approaches are generallychallenging to knock her out her stride. So I'll be chatting to a woman and I'll say "Eeew you just spat in my face" or "Where are all the hot women at ?" or "That's a really nice dress, my gran haslike at home" (Must be said with a straight face)

If she gives you the "I have a boyfriend" line just "That's nice.....so anyway...." or you can say "Hey !! Your telling me about your problems already"




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My approaches are generallychallenging to knock her out her stride. So I'll be chatting to a woman and I'll say "Eeew you just spat in my face" or "Where are all the hot women at ?" or "That's a really nice dress, my gran haslike at home" (Must be said with a straight face)


hmm did you get confused?!?! the title of the thread was "What do girls LIKE to hear when guys chat them up".


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Ladies...

How would you respond if someone dropped in 'what you gonna do for me?' in a 'normal' conversation?

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hheadi say give him a wake up call


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hheadi say give him a wake up call

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what is a "BOO? LMAO!


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