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11-01-04, 08:03 AM
i would like to know y most black men cheat on their girlfriends & peepz dont call them noting, but wen it comes to galz cheating ontheir man all the mouths get opened to call them whores!!!blkangryblkblah
can anyone explain it to me coz i dont understand!!!
that's not fair.....blknoway
dA rEaL mArMaLaDe FlAvA!!!!!!!!
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12-01-04, 08:51 AM
Believe me, when a man has been caught cheating on his wife/girlfriend he gets allsorts wordz said to him. But guys get caught out.
On the flipside.There are some sisters who cheat, only difference is they don't get caught out that often, and are aided by sisters close to them who are doing the same.
Jacket anyone?
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27-12-04, 04:16 PM
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Believe me, when a man has been caught cheating on his wife/girlfriend he gets allsorts wordz said to him. But guys get caught out.
On the flipside.There are some sisters who cheat, only difference is they don't get caught out that often, and are aided by sisters close to them who are doing the same.
Jacket anyone?
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clp)clp)clp)I agree totally! I've seen that most of the time women cheat and keep it hush hush and it hurts their man more cos he was a bit 'blind'/ 'naive'/ whatever... ... With men, on the other hand, they may hide it and never tell, but a woman's insticnts will always kick in and let her know what's up!
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06-01-05, 09:52 PM
Well it the double standards between the sexes that makes that possible I think....When men cheat they get the deemed as the"player" and ishailed by his fellows guy friends for it...they claim it is the human nature.....but women on the other hand is seen to be the caregivers to men...andwomen shouldbe committed solely to one man...So when a woman cheats, it makes a man feel less than a man and their defense mechanism is to bluntly deemedthem aswhores.
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18-01-05, 08:20 PM
It's nasty whoever cheats. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman.
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19-01-05, 01:59 AM
Hmmmmmm... Christina Aguilera wrote a song about this didn't she?
Still going...
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19-01-05, 06:27 PM
look, for girls, cheating is EASY. All you need to do is go up to any guy and offer free sex and you have it 99 times out of 100. Getting sex isn't an event for you like it is for men.
Men....unless we're Snipes or Brad Pitt.....we gotta work it. Listen to all kinds of stupid stories, put up with retarded girls and waste witty banter, time and cashtrying to get some. So we have this hungry attitude. And maybe 2-3 times outta 30 tries we hit hit a home run.
That's something to celebrate.
A girl getting a guy to hump........that's as much of an event as me tying my own shoes. So since it's something that comes so easy for girls (whether you realize it or not, some girls don't know they can get it whenever they feel like it) it's socially acceptable for you to exercise some self control.
The rules for guys, who need to try that much harder for their whole lives, are a bit more relaxed. And for one night stands we really have no emotional attachment so don't take cheating so seriously.
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19-01-05, 06:38 PM
well what you say is true but you must understand that this is how the world goes on, calling girlz all sorts of words and now dayz menz are scared of us because they know we can stand on our two own feet with out them.
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19-01-05, 06:44 PM
agreed. personally, I respect girls who play. Players are quick wit and adaptable and their games keep you on your toes. Simple people who play no games get boring real quick.
and yeah, women need men like Calista Flockhart needs a diet. But until y'all figure that one out I'ma creep up on ya.
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19-01-05, 06:59 PM
There's A Saying....When A Woman goes out for the night she KNOWS whether she is gonna have Sex..for most Men we can but hope 
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20-01-05, 03:31 PM
To me a man who sleeping with more than one woman at a time is a hehoe and a woman who does the same thing is a hoe.
The only reason why it's seen as worse for a woman is because in the past men could sleep with any amount of women, even if he's married and the wife would ignore it whereas if it was a women the man would file for divorce and she would be named an harlot, a sket, a tramp every name under the sun.
we are all born an original, so lets not die a copy.
Bless
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20-04-05, 02:55 PM
yea ur danm right its not fair. But this is how i c shit if a girl ****s men not givin a damn about thier self respect then there a hoe if a man sleeps with nuff girls thinks hes a dan because of it hes a hoe to. where i come from i make sure if a boy is a hoe every 1 be knowin bout itclp)
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09-06-05, 12:51 AM
For me it doesnt make difference if u's a guy or gurl...u still a hoe to me. people know dat I call guys hoes...sometimnes more than I call bitches dat
If it doesn\'t kill me it makes me stronger
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