choosing not to date a white man, is respect - Page 2

Spice · (#26 (**permalink**))

urban_beauty wrote:

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2damnsexy said: Choosingto date a black individual (black being more than just the color of skin), showing respect to those who died, were raped, molestored, stolen beaten, soled and left for dead.

I say:-Aren’t you forgetting that it was a black man/black men who sold his own race into slavery, if the past is what you’re going to cling on, why respect the ancestor of someone who sold you into misery in the first place

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@Urban_Beauty, I agree with you 100%, though I think it is insane to base who dateon whether you are showing respect to the dead or not, but if that is your reasoning, you must acknowlege all wrong doers and face the facts that some of our own ancestors sold each other into slavery.

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Spice · (#27 (**permalink**))

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No I don't think so. I can't get the connection out of any other woman but a black woman as a black man. Anything else I would consider as just lust.

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Well to each his or her own.banana.gif

BlackArab · (#28 (**permalink**))

xHx wrote:

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U LOT R DUMB UR DEBATING ABOUT ALOAD OF SHIT! N STOP GOIN ON ABOUT THESLAVE TRADE YEA IT WAS A BIG THING BUT ITS OVA! IT AINT EVA GONNA HAPPEN AGIAN SO MOVE ON!

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You lucky we are not Palestinians, we would have bombed of the face of the earth, you bunch of damn libity takers.

alliyah4eva2003 · (#29 (**permalink**))

this whole issue is getting old. limiting yourself to one race because of so called respect to ancestors is just an excuse. god created all men equal. you marry whoever the hell you want no matter what they race is.

a question to todamnsexy:

lets just say you did fall in love with a white man/woman and you knew this person was your soulmate would you turnhe/she away out of honour to people who are dead and buried and don't know who the hell you are?

Spice · (#30 (**permalink**))

alliyah4eva2003 wrote:

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this whole issue is getting old. limiting yourself to one race because of so called respect to ancestors is just an excuse. god created all men equal. you marry whoever the hell you want no matter what they race is.

a question to todamnsexy:

lets just say you did fall in love with a white man/woman and you knew this person was your soulmate would you turnhe/she away out of honour to people who are dead and buried and don't know who the hell you are?

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@ Alliyan4, I agree and I think deciding who will marry to show respect (which it really don't anyways) to dead ancestors is so lame! This type of mentality only keeps blacks at the bottom of the pole and out the mainstream society.

Imperial · (#31 (**permalink**))

Spice wrote:

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alliyah4eva2003 wrote:

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this whole issue is getting old. limiting yourself to one race because of so called respect to ancestors is just an excuse. god created all men equal. you marry whoever the hell you want no matter what they race is.

a question to todamnsexy:

lets just say you did fall in love with a white man/woman and you knew this person was your soulmate would you turn he/she away out of honour to people who are dead and buried and don't know who the hell you are?

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@ Alliyan4, I agree and I think deciding who will marry to show respect (which it really don't anyways) to dead ancestors is so lame! This type of mentality only keeps blacks at the bottom of the pole and out the mainstream society.

The hell are you RAMBLING on about now Spice?

Please, read what you type before you post. Are you trying to tell me that the unity of a the black man and women is whats keeping us down in western society?

My god...I've heard it all now...

RESPECT · (#32 (**permalink**))

JESUS..I never realised that black people on here were so racist. On the other hand, I think lots of those who affectlook down on white people would jump at the chance to be with them especially if they have a jet set lifestyle. hypocrites. stay in the ghettoes and die.

urban_beauty · (#33 (**permalink**))

RESPECT wrote:

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JESUS..I never realised that black people on here were so racist. On the other hand, I think lots of those who affectlook down on white people would jump at the chance to be with them especially if they have a jet set lifestyle. hypocrites. stay in the ghettoes and die.

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Most honestly, i believe what u said is a prejudice remark, but like other's ur entitled to ur own opinion and like others, so am i. To my understanding what i can gain from ur remark is that as black ppl we gotta use white ppl as an escape route, when their the ones who stuffed us into a ghetto in the first place. And basically what ur implyin is that black ppl wit white ppl r usin them? b4 i make a futher statment, tell me if i'm wrong in what i'm sayin so far, and prove it by explainin the above (if i sound agressive, trust me i aint- i'm jus curious)...

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Nubianz · (#34 (**permalink**))

after recently returning from the US i was reassured and privately dissapointed at the level of black on black relationships there. In the UK it seems that a black man with a black girl is a headspinning moment whereas in the US it is the norm. Why is it in the UK that brothas neglect our beautiful sisters???? I really dont get it, perhaps someone can shed some light on the issue for me??

Spice · (#35 (**permalink**))

Imperial wrote:

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The hell are you RAMBLING on about now Spice?

Please, read what you type before you post. Are you trying to tell me that the unity of a the black man and women is whats keeping us down in western society?

My god...I've heard it all now...

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@Imperial, why do you and certain others here, always seem to twist what I am say around to meet your goals? A strong unity based on love between black men and black women or black women or black men with other races is great.

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But I do feel to base you who share your one and only life with, on whether or not you are showing proper respect to dead ancestor (who would only wantyour happiness who ever you choose) is rediculious!smoking-devil

Spice · (#36 (**permalink**))

Nubianz wrote:

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after recently returning from the US i was reassured and privately dissapointed at the level of black on black relationships there. In the UK it seems that a black man with a black girl is a headspinning moment whereas in the US it is the norm. Why is it in the UK that brothas neglect our beautiful sisters???? I really dont get it, perhaps someone can shed some light on the issue for me??

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@Nubianz, may I ask what part of theU.S. did you visit? Because bothWest and the East coast is overwhelmed with Black men and whiteor hispanic womencouples.

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Even in the Mid-West where I make my home, you can't even go down the street to the market without running into a blk male/white female couple. I am sorry to hear that this so rampant in Europe also because as in the states and EuropeI find that the majority of black women only prefer and will only wait for black men.

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Hrunopi · (#37 (**permalink**))

[align=center]THE SLAVE TRADE IS NOT OVER. IT HAS ONLY BEEN 'UPGRADED' TO OTHER FORMS-AND ONE OF THE FORMS SLAVERY TAKES, IS THROUGH INTER MARRIAGE WITH BLACK MEN WHO ARE WEAK MINDED BRUTES OR BLACK WOMEN WITH LOW SELF-ESTEEM OR CULTURAL KNOWLEDGE OR PRIDE.

THAT HAS BEEN A SCHEME FOR DECADES, AND LOVE HASN'T A THING TO DO WITH INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS. IT HAS TO DO WITH TAKING ADVANTAGE OF A PERSON WHO IS UNEDUCATED, UNINFORMED AND WEAK.

TRAINING AND BREAKING THE WILL, LIKE YOU TRAIN AND BREAK THE WILL OF A HORSE. ITS THE SAME 'SCIENCE', THE SAME IDEOLOGY.

MOST OF US, SADLY CAN'T FATHOM ANYTHING AS CRITICALLY DEEP AS THAT, AND MOST OF US SADLY WON'T DO THE WORK OF LEARNING JUST HOW REAL IT IS.

I AM NOT FOOLED BY ALL OF THIS INTEGRATIONALIST UTOPIAN CRAP. WE MAY BE THE SAME SPECIES BUT WE ARE NOT THE SAME KIND. PERIOD. HARSH BUT TRUE AS THE SKY IS BLUE. WE SHOULD KNOW THAT-AND THEY HAVE ALWAYS KNOWN IT, THATIS WHY THEY TRY SO HARD TO KEEP US STUPID WHILE THEY KILL US.

WAKE UP WAKE UP WAKE UP WAKE UP WAKE UP WAKE UP !

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