why is it when we have the white vs black topic such as why is a black man/woman with a white man/woman that people are so fast to thing that we as a people ar being racist. When actually it more than what meets the surfice, i believe that going out with a black manshows respect to my ancestors. in the days of slavery we were raped, lynched etc for the color of our skin bywhite men and watched by white women and childrenof that era hated because of the color of our skin!! going out with a black man is a chose.Choosingto date a black individual (black being more than just the color of skin), showing respect to those who died, were raped, molestored, stolen beaten, soled and left for dead.

As beautifle as each origin is, when we start mixing the children are left, some not knowing which culture to choose others mingling between the two creating a cultre of there own, with know no bkack ground, just that they are of mixed origin, ive heard so many mixed raced individual saying how hard it is? Do you really want to subject your children to that. If you choose to be with a person of a different ethnicity thats fine, but i believe you must never forget where you came from, and what makes you the way you are today. And know there is more to jsut the color of the skin why a black person chooses to only date black people.

Black is more than a word and much more than a skin color, black is a culture and a feeling! It is something to be proud of, dont get me wrong every one should be proud of there origins but black people have so much more qualitative things to be pround of

Love is blind they say, well for a black person in this day and age to get up and partner themself to a white person love is very blind in them.

Where i come from love is not blind, love as its eyes wide open to the world around it. Love is wise to it social standing in the world and of its people's social and economic standing in the world. Love as its eyes open to how other's percieve them in this world. And because love as its eyes open to all these things in me, I refuse to partner or align myself to white people in terms of love and marriage.

No that we have a culture, not just skin pigment, white people have their culture to, and watch how quick they are willing to put their's down for us.

When a white person partners with a black person, believe me you can call it love, but it is no more than curiosity.

you all make fair points but y does race have 2 come in 2 everything?!?!? how is dating a black man respect? everyone wanted 2 b treated as equals, this will not happen until we r al seen as the same! tru say we all may not look the same but at the end of the day we r all part of the same species! do you ever really think that a an animal wud not mate wit another animal of a different species 2 it jus becoz it was a slightly differnt colour 2 itself? yes black women were raped by white men but do white men still do that 2 day? i think not! in my opinion if u mix ne races then it is brilliant 4 the children as they will be taught about two different cultures, and the if a half black and half white person choses to have children with an asian person then they will be taught about 3 different cultures and have a much greater understanding of a lot of cultures that are around today NOW CAN U NARROW MINDED PEOPLE PLZ TELL ME WHA THE HELL IS WRONG WIT THAT!?????!?!?

if youare not white then you are an idiot, and childish big letters telling us to forget our past is stupid. you need a big slap of black reality. It may not happen here but dont think it is not still happening in 3rd world countrys, note blackpeople in these countrys are still suffering from stolen riches. Children are still being sexually assulted for money by yes caucation man!

open your eyes and smell the roses.....

if you dont like the topic you know where the door is, just because you choose to be blind and forget about your past doesnt mean everybody else should!!

U R SO PATHETIC. SINCE WEN DOES DATIN A WHITE PERSON MAKE UR CHILDREN WHITE! DO U KNOW ANY MIXES RACE PEOPLE OBVIOUSLY NOT COZ IF U DID THEN A MAJORITY OF THEM WUD TELL U THAT THEYU CLASS THEMSELVES AS WHITE

FAIR ENOUGH ON APPLICATION FORM RACE DOES COME INTO IT BUT SO DOES UR LOCATION YOUR AGE N YOU GENDER

I APPRECIATE THE FACT THAT THERE R STILL RACIALLY MOTIVATED ATTACKS BUT THEY R NOT ALL AGIANST BLACK PEOPLE.

ITS PEOPLE LIK U THAT R CREATING THE PROBLEMS 4 SOCIETY. PREACHING MORE OR LESS THAT U SHUDNT ASSOCIATE WIT PPL OUT OF UR OWN RACE!

GROW UP!

did i say mixing makes uswhite, no darling i said diluted!! let me say it again DILUTED... Accepting what has happened in the past and saying i will continue only to date black men because of what my ancetstors went through is not childish, it is a way of saying thank you, and showing respect and understanding for those who were beaten and molested and are now in there graves. and if you cant understand that then you have issues.

DidI say not to go out with white people?...re read and you will find that i did not... did i say it was even disrespectful going out with whites.. again noI did notI said dating black men is respect to ancestors.

So if you wanna shack up with a white man/woman thats your chose i didnt say not to.

SO YOU DO WHAT YOU WANT AND SAY WHAT YOU WANT BUT REALISE THIS... YOU TRYING TO MOCK PEOPLE WHO AE SHOWING RESPECT TO THE DEAD, NOW I CALL THAT DISRESPECTFUL...

SAY OR DO WHAT YOU WANT BUT THAT WONT CHANGE THE FACT THAT I BELIVE IN CONTINUING OUR RACE AND CULTURE IS MY WAY OF SHOWING RESPECT... READ WHAT I SAY BEFOR YOU QUOTE ME OTHER WIZE IT THROWS YOUR ARGUEMENT INTRO THE BIN!!!

@2damnsexy

Are u saying that u feel obliged to date a blk man??? wow dats wierd.. u show a lot of respect to the "DEAD"...interesting...

an if u dnt then its disrespectful....

i seeeeeeeee....... thank gawd dat theory only applies to you



Since ur mind is made up...a piece of advice... plz.. who ever ur gonna be wiv in the near future... "Never tell him that (honey i prefer the other man but cos ur blk dats y ur wiv u)" cos then he would tell u "GROW UP"

There are alot of people on here that get more embarrassed and upset when anyone so much as mension the white man than when we are here slagging down our own.

@XHX YOUR A RAT INFESTED WITH FLEAS!!!!!

IT MAY BE ABOUT CHOICES BUT DID OUR MOTHERS OF OUR ANCESTOR HAVE A CHOICE IN BEING RAPPED,DID EVEN OUR FATHERS HAVE THE CHOICE IN BEING MOLESTED AND RAPPED BY THEIR SLAVE MASTER-MI NOH TING SOH!!

TO MIX THINGS CAUSES CONFUSION- I WOULD D8 A WHITE MAN BUT MI NAR GO HV PICKNEY WID DEM.

MIX EXCREMENT WITH ORANGE JUICE AND C IF ITS GOOD- ALSO MIX THAT WITH PAINT-is it still good now!!

@ sick of black people thinking too much- go suck ur mama dry-plz not she has yeast infection