Most black girls I know are all about wanting to be wit a "baller", and if you fall off they'll leave you. I ain't a stunna, so if I gotta put on my burberry jordans to talk to hear, I wouldn't feel guilty about cheating on her. It ain't the men it's the lack of good girls worth being with.My frienddon't cheat on girls however after they no longer interest him sexual (he bust one), they have nothing to offer him. I not saying it's right thats just my point of view.

I think it is because a lot of us have lost the concept of family.

And the other reason which is the main one, is because they can!

There being more women than men will make a big difference because:

1) Plenty women will now put up with ANYTHING

2) Men have plenty options

So with these two reasons put together certain man know they can, if the woman leaves he'll get over it and find another one that bitches less.

I dont think humans full stop are made to be monogamous, not just black men. Yes society has encouraged us to think one man + one woman.

Women are rarely driven by sex, which does not mean we have low sex drive, we just know how to say no when having sex may not be in our interest even though we are still tempted. (i understand this does not apply to every woman).

Simple.

Peace~

p.s.

One thing that annoys me is when man love to chat about black men are used to being with plenty women / having more than one girl / wife.

What a lot of them fail tosee is that men with a lot of wives could also financially support them and was an influence in his children's lives. It was not just about sex, there was a proper role to play that had a lot of responsibility that came with it, the women knew each other and created a family environment for all of their children. Brothers and sisters with different mothers still grew up together. All the above is not the case with men that are sleeping around / having nuff girlfriends / children / telling stupid lies in this day and age, they can only seem to grasp the sexual aspect of it all and not the rest!!

PEACE~

To be honest most black men are still boys they make people like me who have ambition, no kids and a brain look good. Black men don't know how a man is meant to behave, this is probably down to the factthat a large number of them didn't live with their dad. Most black guys see women as toys when they get bored they move on andlook for another toy to play with-which is normallyanothergirl, they don't understand responsibilty that is why there is pure baby mothers out there.

Before I continue I want give a shout out to all the baby mothers that are looking after their children well, I have so much respect for the ones that work hardto make sure that their kid ishappy, and the ones that are still in education keep it up.

I understand baby mothers can be a problem for some girls, but you have to understand there intentions. All they want is a happy family mum dad and kid, but boys don't want that they want their freedom, and anyway they don't what a dad is. I would advise all girls hold unto your body tight and don't give it a way to any stupid man, if you know your worth as a woman then you will only sleep wid a man that you care about and who cares about you, and if the worst happens and you get pregnant at least you will be in a better position than couples who don't have love in there relatioship.

I won't even lie if girls weren't as simple as they are, there wouldn't be all this baby father ,baby mother situations. It doesn't take much any more to get inside a woman. A true wifey is a challenge who won't let loose too easily that is what I want, a woman that ican respect, and this is what most men want so trust me if you are not my definition of a wifey and you are with someone, the boy doesn't want you for the long term.

I have bear tings to say but i av to sleep. Keep smiling.

Simple solution--To rid baby momma drama, get rid of the man that has a baby momma ie..find someone without children.