I agree with Cockneybouy ("I see oral sex really to be kept within serious relationships and not to be done willy nilly")

Do it if you wanna. Don't do it if you don't wanna do it.

Firstly, don't tell people your business. It's not about hiding, it about being mature and being discreet. When you start bragging to your friends about your man, they'll all want a piece. If you tell them he's rubbish, they'll tell you to leave. Hence, keep your business to yourself.

Next, I think that some people are forgeting that it is called oral SEX. It is all a part of your sexual experience. As a "grown up" you would know that. And I don't know if many of you know this but this is only an "issue" in this country. It's part of that stiff-upper-lip British tradition. I can't personally say that i've done it, but if I do decide to include that in my sexual experience it will be because it's something that I feel I am ready to do with the right person. It's the same as loosing your virginity.

You will be deemed a slut if you sleep around. You will also be deemed a slut if you give head to everyone in your class/ job/ area. It's all sex, just in different forms.blk2cheers2

ON A LEVEL NOW15 ANDYEAH I HAVE GIVEN HEAD. ONLY 2 OF MY FRIENDS KNOW CAUSE I KNOW WOT THE REST WILL SAY. GIVING HEAD DOES NOT MAKE U A SLAG. IF U AND UR MAN R DOIN ORAL SAFE NO PROBLEM. BUT IF UR OUT THERE GIVIN HEAD ON A EVERY DAY BASES THEN YEAH UR A SLAG. IM BLACK AND YEAH I GAVE HEAD BIG DEAL

I don't lke that. The thought of a daughter of mine doing that at 15 is not pleasant.

It's is illegal for under 16s to engage in sexual actvity.

runfromyourwife wrote:

Ain't gonna stop them from doing it though, and u won't know what ur pickney gets up to when they leave the yard, thats the worst thing about it. The gal is an idiot though cos one minute she is saying giving head ain't a big deal, but before that she said she didn't wanna tell no one, if it weren't such a big deal she wouldn't worry about keeping it a secret. Personally I think the gal needs to learn to put her head in some books rather than putting it in between some nappy headed boy's legs. KMT

Facety- i couldnt have sed it betta myself

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READ WHAT THE GAL WROTE BEFORE U TELL ME I'M CHATTING SHIT, SHE'S THE ONE THATS CONTRADICTING HERSELF. SHE AIN'T KEEPING IT TO HERSELF BY BROADCASTING IT ON HERE IS SHE, SHE JUST NEVER HAD THE GUTS TO TELL THE PEOPLE SHE MOVES WITH COS SHE KNEW THEY WOULD SLATE HER. AT THE END OF THE DAY SHE WANNA ACT LIKE A BIG WOMAN, SO SHE SHOULD DEAL WITH THE REPERCUSSIONS LIKE A BIG WOMAN. AND IN REFERENCE TO MYSELF: I DON'T GIVE A **** WHETHER SOMEONE APPROVES OR DISAPPROVES OF WHAT I DO, I NEVER ASKED THEIR PERMISSION, THEY DON'T LIVE MY LIFE, UNDERSTAND. SO IF THEY DISAPPROVE IT'S FE DEM BUSINESS NOT MINE.

HOW U GONNA MONITOR HER ACTIVITIES? U CAN'T GO TO SCHOOL WITH HER, U CAN'T BE WITH HER 24/7. ANYTHING U TEACH UR CHILD COULD BE UNDONE AS SOON AS THEY STEP OUTSIDE THE FRONT DOOR, MEET UP WITH THIER FRIENDS, WATCH SOMETHING ON TV ETC. IT'S UP TO THE CHILD IF THEY WANNA HEED WHAT U SAY, AND LETS BE HONEST, DID U LISTEN TO UR PARENTS WHEN THEY TRIED TO TELL U ABOUT LIFE?

KIDS TODAY AREN'T STUPID, THEY ARE FULLY AWARE OF WHAT THEY ARE DOING, SOME OF THEM BLATANTLY DON'T CARE. AS I SAID BEFORE GALS TODAY WANNA TRY RUN BEFORE THEY CAN WALK, IF THEY HAVE LIKKLE CURVES THEY AUTOMATICALLY THINK THEY ARE A BIG WOMAN. REREAD HER POST AND LOOK AT THE WAY SHE WROTE IT, U CAN'T TELL ME SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHATS SHE'S DOING

WHEN I SAY READ BOOKS OR LEARN HER BOOKS, I'M TALKING ABOUT PICKING UP HER MATHS BOOK AND DOING HER SUMS SO SHE ISN'T DEPENDENT ON A CALCULATOR, LEARNING TO READ AND WRITE PROPERLY, SO SHE AIN'T PUTTING SLANG WORDS ON HER APPLICATION FORMS, THATS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. IF SHE'S DOING THAT THEN SHE SHOULDN'T HAVE TIME TO BE SUCKING HOOD

LOL THE TEXTURE OF THE HAIR AIN'T GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH IT, IT'S JUST A SAYING. I'M HOPING THE GAL IS DOING THIS WITH SOMEONE HER AGE AND NOT SOMEONE OLDER, WHO SHOULD KNOW BETTER AND WHO CAN DO A STRETCH FOR STATUTORY RAPE.

@Facetygal

No disrespect meant and I see what you mean about her telling the room what she has done. However this is an open forum where you can feel free to talk about such issues. All I'm saying is that all this talk about children having their heads in their books and so on is just you being optimistic. People may not like to believe or admit it, but it is in the teenage years that most people experiment with sex, drugs, alcohol, music, fashion, e.t.c. I'm not saying it's right but that is the way it is. Don't get me wrong, my child would receive lethal beats for his/ her experimentation butI am under no false pretense thatthis will stop them.

For now I can only speak as a young adult and say everybody is entitled to do as they please. You may think it's nasty but for all we know, you may be a little freak yourself and get up to things that we don't even think of (Again no disrespect intended). She's young yes and in my opinion shouldn't even be having sex (oral or otherwise). But when people feel they are ready to express themselves sexually, they will do it in anyway that is comfortable to them.

Personally I think blow jobs are nasty. I sound kind of bias since I think that a man going down is great. haha. My mouth is TOO GOOD for that type of slackness.Oh by the way I am a new member. I know this is off topic, but is there any bajans in here?