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25-03-04, 01:23 PM
@ Iyallah - you tell him! I think Fernando has been hanging around his girlfriend too long!
@ Fernando - ooops!!! na joke...sorry LOL!
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@ Happiness
U are dred!!!! lol
I am taking no part in this Nando!!! but i do have to say :P.............
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@Nando
You didn't buy dinner before you did it to me!!!!
Thats not fair!!! lol
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Sorry Fernando,
I shall notaccompany youin your journey to Smutzville!!!!! lol
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29-03-04, 05:47 PM
What do you want???
A Blue Peter badge??? (Or in this case a Black Peter badge!!!) lol
I COULD go there but i will spare you for now!!!
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@ Nando
Carry on having hoe lips and they're gonna get rashy!!!
I warned you before!!! lol
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Nando...................... 
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02-04-04, 02:48 PM
@ Iyallah - like I said www.RottenFernando.com!!!
Oh I've got a better one: www.NastyNando.com
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02-04-04, 09:59 PM
 well it would bother me, i mean it's bothering me at the moment. the boy i'm with i lost my virginity with so i've only been with him and by askin him how many girls he's slept with i thought i would feel better about howmuch i meant to him and i felt worse. not only has he slept with a lot of girls most of x girlfriends i went to school with and live in my area and more importantly we do not get on  . every time we go out it's become a game like he'll say hi to sum girl and i'll be like did u sleep with her? and he'll say or not say.this has been a learnin experience,iconfused3 think now thatmaybe it wasn't the right time to lose my virginity with him becos i'm not secure about our relationship. i believe if your secure it won't matter as much. the last thing i would like to say is by askin how many people your partner has slept with isa possible sign of whereyou stand, how much they value and respect themselves and you. you also have to ask yourself why your askin that question and what you expect to get out from it.XpeaceX 
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yes she is bi!
to be honest, i'm not expecting her like for women to disappear. thats her preference and i cant change that and i wouldnt if i could.
if she liked women exclusively then i wouldnt have tried to get with her in the first place. but she came to me and told me afterwards.
@Fernando, if you are seriously involved with her and is thinking about marriage with a bi woman, than I can see nothing but trouble a head for you both, unless you intend on letting other women into your relationship from time to time.
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05-04-04, 02:20 PM
@ Fernando - you shouldn't have put the info out here then...
(you know I luv ya, man, but you have yourself to blame for this one!)
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05-04-04, 03:39 PM
@ Nando
Sorry for getting involved, but i dont think it is about your partner'cheating' on you.
You used the example of a hetrosexual woman being in a relationship and wanting other men, this is not the same because she is already dealing with a man.
Your girlfriend likes both sexes, but not for the same reasons. She could be with you and be happy, but you cantignore the FACTthat one day she may sexually want a woman, and she might not want a 3 some. What will you do if this happens?
for eg, if she gets turned on by going down, sucking breasts she cant do that with you, so as i said it is not about cheating as there is nothing stopping her from being faithful to you, its about wants / likes.
As i have also said before, if i was dealing with a bi man, you cant tell me you would not be concerned about it! Look how many men are with women and still sleeping with men, why? becasue the woman cant cover what a man can do.
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well spice, i think thats the stupidest thing i've ever heard in my life! thats like when peopel get funny when it comes to gay peopel and children and people assume that they'll do somethign to them.
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why, in god's name, would there be any problemss just becuase she likes women as well as men?
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@Fernando, I am a pretty openned minded person and I don't feel funny aboutor think that bi or gay folks promiscious than straight people. What I am saying is that staight folks and totally gay folkswho are in love and who commit solely to one another can fulfill all of their s#xual needs together.
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Where as you and your girl could be completely in love, there is an area that you being a man can't fulfill for her when she feels a desire for a woman and visa versa too.
as your opinions hold no basis as your basing your opinons on nothing.
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I dated once young bi guy and was his first s#xual encounter period with men or women. He later told me about his desires to explore certain things with men so I agreed to be there and help him explore his curiosity. I promised myself not to feel jealous or allow myself to have strong romantic feelings for him. But I did and when he would come to me telling me about a guy he saw at work or desired from a far, it would bother me a lot.
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