I like a woman's body on a whole, it doesn't matter if she's black, white, other ethinic, it's what counts inside and well a great smile really does it for me, hey it may sound weird but I'm a man who looks at things from all different angles!

When I woz 14 I used to be like a full size 12 (UK) and my arse woz not one of them J-lo POW! butts but it woz more Beyonce full and round (u kno their arses are both big but kinda different). I had large hips and I used to get quite a few "nice arse!" shouts on road. Then I turned 15 and lost bare weight and went to a size 8 (UK)and my ass dissapeared! I kno there are bare that are small framed chicksthat have big butts- well I weren't one of them! Im now like a size 12 again but my arse is quite flat and boy I aint heard no "nice ass" comments for a while! Lol. I woz not really bothered wiv butts but it's sooooo popular now (well...it woz alwayz popular amongst black peeps I suppose), but now its so mainstream and so in ur face. "Big Booty is HOT! - u MUST hav one!!" Recently a very honest (ahem..) male friend told me that i hav no ass but my redemption is that i hav a very pretty face. Now I actually am self conscious about my butt and it used to be one of my assets (even tho back then it woz probably only an average butt anyway). This diss/complement shattered me and Ithink chickz get further even wiv a whack face or a less than average face and a heavy bum. And worse I aint butterz (..well, i dont think so hehe) but i aint no stunner sunner either so how can that redeem the lack of booty??Having sed that I wouldn't change my face to be less pretty and hav a better bigger booty - i think its good to hav a decent face and i like my man to hav a nice face too. I can understand guys not liking a chick wiv a pretty face and no arse in SOME cases tho coz if its real bad i can empathise wiv the fact that I would not really be feeling a brere wiv a nice face but a propa skinny body...not at all...but if he woz kinda skinny (i sed kinda! not no Paris Hilton lookin thighs on my kinda guy...urgh!) i would cause i luv a nice face!

Nah it aint like that well i can only vouch for my self. I personaly think that its about a persons personality because without a good personality ur just left with good looks whitch doesnt di it for me still.

4real u aint nuthin wivout personality but in my view it can't be all lookz and no personaity or all great personality and absolutely butterzzzz.

But having said that if it came down to it and i had to choose i'd rather my partner had more personality than looks (the looks that appealto me as an individual).

Tru say, looks DO matter obivously more to some people than others.

Most boys just ca gurls ass nthink ' i wanna sex her', den they luk at her face 2 c if shes a tipdrill or not- in thatway its kinda degrading.

Butin all fairness i wuddnt have it any other way, cuz ific a nice lukin boylukin at ma ass, den lukin at ma face and still checkin me out obivously its gunnaboast ma ego! (speically if im having a 'im 2 fat', or 'badhair' day lol)

But 2 tha point if a booty is tha best part of a gurls body,personally i dont c no harm in it blkbooty

Boys will be boys... Always. In most African American males, it is just an addiction to booties. i dont know why but it is. However, if a guy is just looking at your butt, and not your brains, thenhe wants you for all the wrong reasons

Its some kind of a inexplicable fetish (like the brasilians), because the butt has nothing to do with sexual reproduction. Its an animalic thing- apes are catching each others with their butts. When a man has got a nice butt (muscles!), it shows he s a good thruster, but women`s butts? hm, shall we sit on eggs, or what?

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I like a slightly narrow but deep booty. All muscle but (sic) for a thin layer of "body filler" over it. In fact, I just like a girl's physique to be extra-female shaped. To me, this means, petite (narrow, not short), small waist, flat line from hip bone to hip bone, or slightly convex, and big: breasts, lips, eyes, cheekbones, and long legs, especially the shins.

I remember my first girlfriend. wide, none-too-deep booty, smallish but perfectly hemispherical breasts, beatiful face. But that wide, flat hip section turned me off, along with the short shins. And, before you start shriekin' and freakin', remember, everyone has their tastes.

But, to get "back" to the topic, it is unnatural and an indication of some problem when a woman does not like her assets being appreciated by attractive men. Complaining about having your booty looked at is like a man complaining when you notice that he is tall, dark, and handsome. How weird is that? Or gay?

I mean, if you are not that pretty, and guys admire your booty more than your face, is that their fault? Would you prefer a flat booty that can't even hold up a pair of underwear?