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30-07-04, 08:58 PM
Girls I need your opinions on this-
Would you enter in to a relationship/arrangement with a guy who wants to have casual sex with you? saying he is not looking for a girlfriend, itnot going to be a one time thing, and that he wants to have sex with you alot, but just without the relationship?
bareing in mind the guy is good looking and a genuwinely sweet guy.
Help!!!!!!
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30-07-04, 09:01 PM
LMAO....
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Why are you Laughing?
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30-07-04, 09:08 PM
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Would you enter in to a relationship/arrangement with a guy who wants to have casual sex with you? saying he is not looking for a girlfriend, itnot going to be a one time thing, and that he wants to have sex with you alot, but just without the relationship?
bareing in mind the guy is good looking and a genuwinely sweet guy.
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"One of the heads of the beast seemed to have been fatally wounded, but the wound had healed. The whole earth was amazed and followed the beast".
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30-07-04, 09:10 PM
are there any reasons y not @athaba, or is that it?
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30-07-04, 09:11 PM
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Because Lucia its a retorical question thatI suspect you already know the answer to..unless this guy is paying you for the pleasure or you're into the casual business the answer it seems to me is plainly obvious is it not?
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30-07-04, 09:16 PM
ok, but I really like this guy, and if he is not looking to get into a relationship at the moment what am I meant to do? Its not like he doesnt like me.
yeah I do feel a little silly asking the question but i figured a few different views may help a little bit, i just wanted opinions from people who dont know me.
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30-07-04, 09:25 PM
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are there any reasons y not @athaba, or is that it?
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Its a bit like asking....
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"Oh please girlfriend let me have you and others cosit wouldbe very much appreciated.Its notlike I'm not being upfront with you isn't it? I am telling you what I want and I just expectyouto go along with it. OK?What? You're upset!!!??? Well I'll just leave then and find some otheridiot who will agree to my terms - after all its my way or no way! hmmmph!"
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Now, when put like that would you even hadasked your question?
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30-07-04, 09:26 PM
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ok, but I really like this guy, and if he is not looking to get into a relationship at the moment what am I meant to do? Its not like he doesnt like me.
yeah I do feel a little silly asking the question but i figured a few different views may help a little bit, i just wanted opinions from people who dont know me.
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Well you know Lucia I hear what your saying but the thing is that SOME women always get into things on the basis that MAYBE he will change or MAYBE they will be the one to change the mans ways... As a man I will tell you honestly if he is not making the those moves from the get go, he certainly aint gonna make them 1 day, 1 month, 1 year or 10 years down the line..Why because he has no incentive to do so..
Yes you might like him, and yea you might want to getnext to him but trust me do not sell yourself or your principles short just to catch a man..you will I promise you regret it in the long run..thats my view..
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30-07-04, 09:33 PM
Thank you Kunjufu, thats exactly the kind of thing i needed to hear, just to make sure im not crazy, really appreciate the feedback,
also thank you @ athaba and to answer your question- I guess not. just wanted that little bit of confirmation before I said anything to him
Thanks again all x Lucia x
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31-07-04, 12:02 AM
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Thank you Kunjufu, thats exactly the kind of thing i needed to hear, just to make sure im not crazy, really appreciate the feedback,
also thank you @ athaba and to answer your question- I guess not. just wanted that little bit of confirmation before I said anything to him
Thanks again all x Lucia x
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"One of the heads of the beast seemed to have been fatally wounded, but the wound had healed. The whole earth was amazed and followed the beast".
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31-07-04, 02:18 AM
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Girls I need your opinions on this-
Would you enter in to a relationship/arrangement with a guy who wants to have casual sex with you? saying he is not looking for a girlfriend, itnot going to be a one time thing, and that he wants to have sex with you alot, but just without the relationship?
bareing in mind the guy is good looking and a genuwinely sweet guy.
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31-07-04, 02:29 AM
It is exactly as how peacemaker puts it, he is looking someone as naive and happy go lucky to play with.
Not that you are any of those, but he is a user not worth wasting your valuable time with, find someone who will respect you enough to accept you as his and not as a sex object.
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