I was thinking of my cousin, as an example I think he represents the wrong type of guy.

Like many he's heavyily into hiphop culture. He's lazy, been in jail, doesnt work, smokes weed, spends the day chillin with bad company and likes partying. He dresses like a gansta and drives a phat ride fast with deafeningly loud music full of suspicious looking dudes in durags, in the passenger seats. I dont think he could speak a full sentence in proper english as well.
He records as well and has a habit of telling chicks that he'll put them in his music rap music video, when he chatting them up.

Somehow girls find this guy attractive, not physically he got a large scar on his face. It has more to do with the fact he trys to act like a badboy.

You dont have to be a genious to figure out the type of guy he is just by looking at him. Somehow the guy gets alot of female attention.This guy's a gigolo. In accordance with popular black culture the guy sleeps with as many chicks as humanly possible. I guess chicks find this even more attractive if a guy is popular.

Some of these types are quite visible. Its like walking off the edge of a cliff. Theres no way a you could fall for a guy like this and not know the type of person he is, even if he isnt honest with you.

This is da crux. I was there last year when his girlfriend told him she was pregnent. He dumped her the very same day. I dunno if she didnt see that one coming. Like most rappers (remember this guy's heros are rappers) he's not gonna be together with his baby momma. Yea he follows all the rules, text book black youth. He's only been to see the baby once and I dont even think he can support at the moment.

There are decent many black guys out there, many who've been single for years. Its a great mystery why black girls completly ignore these 'decent' guys and go for the thug types?

To tell you the truth I do blame his babymama for choosing the wrong type of guy. Its sad that there is a culture of blackmen turning into good fathers, but its also sad that women keep falling for the guys.

I guess what you find attractive has more to do with culture. In some tribes they find "feet" attractive, in Africa "butts" in europe "breasts" etc. With black girls its badboys.

Nightz

Your damn right there. In light of FredB thread this is a superb example of an all too common aspect of Black masculinity and how women enforce this bullshit.

His babymother can go to hell all I care. Serves her right damn eediot. Feel sorry for the child though. No doubt another potential conscript to its fathers/mothers school of thought.

Good post.

another day..another sad & depressing statistic

cant we start a new day with something positive? its like watching tv with news from the black world....

Yeah!!!

I certainly agree with you Nubian Princesses.........some Black breers are ****ries they make me SO angry that they shame the name Caribbean or African Male.

Mainly the dumb ghetto breers from South East London or ends similar are the ones that try and trap young girls to have sex with, if they don't get it - its simple as:-

1. Playing his so-called girl and giving her STI's

2. Past them through his bredrins and try to get tings out of her

3. Set her up and battery her wid bredrins

Black breers these days make me ILL, I know I am Caribbean blood myself, but its time for breers to represent and look after the black girls of their ends or just black or mixed-race girls in general and stop using them like pieces of meat.

Find the intectual Black-Man who has a decent history.........I know they are VERY hard to find, but if you girls are patients which most of you are - you will find them and they will treat ou like a TRUE NUBIAN QUEEN.

Big Up My Black and Half Black Girls Out there!

Keep up the GOOD tings, yes!

@Aneki

you said:

Yeah!!!

I certainly agree with you Nubian Princesses.........some Black breers are f**kries they make me SO angry that they shame the name Caribbean or African Male.

SO DO THE WOMEN WHO DEAL WITH THEM. SHAME THEMSELVES.

Mainly the dumb ghetto breers from South East London or ends similar are the ones that try and trap young girls to have sex with, if they don't get it - its simple as:-

THAT COMMENT IS HEAVILY LOADED WITH KILOGRAMS OF BULLSHITE.

1. Playing his so-called girl and giving her STI's

WHY SHE SLEEP WITHOUT NO PROTECTION.

2. Past them through his bredrins and try to get tings out of her

HOW CAN A GAL GET PASSED THROUGH HER BREDRINS. ARE YOU SUGGESTING SHE DOESNT NOTICE WHAT GOING ON. SHE WAKES UP ONE DAY AND SAYS.."HANG ON I SLEPT WITH ABC.. AND THEY ARE BREDRINS"..RIDICULOUS.

3. Set her up and battery her wid bredrins

WELL THAT SOUNDS LIKE RAPE. IS THAT WHAT YOUR SAYING?

Black breers these days make me ILL, I know I am Caribbean blood myself, but its time for breers to represent and look after the black girls of their ends or just black or mixed-race girls in general and stop using them like pieces of meat. ITS TIME FOR THE WOMEN TO GET SMART AND STOP BEING USED LIKE PEICES OF MEAT. THE SMART ONES DONT GET USED ROUTINELY. INCIDENTALLY THEY SEEM TO BE THE DECENT GAL TOO.
CONECTION MAYBE..

Find the intectual Black-Man who has a decent history.........I know they are VERY hard to find, but if you girls are patients which most of you are - you will find them and they will treat ou like a TRUE NUBIAN QUEEN.

WHATS A FALSE NUBIAN QUEEN. AND WHATS AN INTELLECTUAL BLACK MAN GOT TO DO WITH THE PRICE OF BREAD.

Big Up My Black and Half Black Girls Out there!

DONT FORGET THE HALF WHITE GIRLS.

Keep up the GOOD tings, yes!

YOUR FULL OF IT.blkthumbsdown

@Aneki

Im a man by the way. Made the mistake myself plenty of times so no worries there.

Without beating around the bush Aneki your attitude concerns me. I dont like it. Its ignorant.

you said:


Let me be level with you............first of all Black Males whether they are smart or truly ghetto are not looking after the most important aspect that will carry our seed YOU. Since Negro peeps have mixed with societies like the British.

So you make the distinction between a smart youth and a ghetto youth. So the ghetto youth cant be smart. Im not a bloody Negro either. Call Black people Black or African. But not by colonial/white people terms thank you very much. And all Black males are not doing this.

you said:

It was the minority of Black Males who thought mixing is not a bad idea but some of them forgot to actually look after their wifey or what ever you want to label them as.

What you on about... confused3???? whats mixing got to do with this?

you said:

Since the Wind Rush times when our Grand Parents came to the UK during WWII to help out and be able to have British Passports to their names.

You think that your Grand Parents would of left the Carribean if they were not forced by economics to come to this stinking country. You do economics at college dont ya?. And the windrush era wasnt in World war two.

you said:

Their children who are now OUR parents have gone through some tings still, but some of our fathers have got children else where. Now we have grown up in todays' society only certain things have changed but the characteristics of Black Males have not changed that much.

You make sweeping statements about the characteristics of Black males. This tells me you dont like us. I got a suspicion why though. Girls like you have no genuine respect for Black men your age. Or any age. Your not even talking about a type. You just say what you feel. Its an education sweet-art.


You know the old saying 'The Apple does not fall far from the Tree', which is happening now basicially.

Whats happening now then.

Another thing Mixed Race girls are not only WHITE OK - there Half Black with Chinese or Japanese, Half Black and Iran or Pakistani or whatever. People should stop labelling Mixed-Race people as just only Half Black & White.

Blady de blah..

Would you have the courage to call a Half African & Dutch person a 'Mulatto' I do not think so.........

............yes and South East London is ONE f##ked up ends trust me I have family in Catford and boy some breers are just DUMB like. I know that a majority of Black Males do not have ambition like wanting to be Doctors, Lawers, Chemist, Scientist or they rather be B##ba Cl*rt rappers or pimps using women as pieces of meat or trophies to be won.

How about b**ches like you that have nothing good to say about Black males. Every pimp needs a b**ch.confused3 Not nice eh? Its not nice to use stereotypical labels is it? Or is that what you trying to whip up? I suggest you come from some f**ked up ends..South London has its problems like anywhere else..for a young woman of uni age you sound frightenly young.

Yes I can sometimes go off the rails (but doesn't everyone) we are only human whether we are smart or not.

YOURE WAY OFF THE RAILS..

you said:


It is time to teach the young blackies who are coming up into this World both male and female of the potential dangers of the Media and how it has poisonious aspects to brain-wash us.

Young blackies! LOL. Are you from the seventies. Are you are BNP supporter. Are you half Black. These things come to mind..

you said:


When we become parents ourselves we must some how make time for our children especially when they start school at 4yrs of age. Thats when the brain washing starts from in the Academic Buildings of the UK Schools, Colleges and Universities.

I am in uni studying a BA in Business and Marketing Management and I aim for greater things that just owning my own business. That is another story.

Hear.. here is a one clap..clp). And please live some life before you come a parent. 200 years life worth of experience ought to sort it out.

OK if I have offended you in any way 'I am Sorry', but do not take it personal because it seems you have a level head on your shoulders.........to bad there are not many Black peeps like us out there or any other race of peeps.

You really have a bad attitude about Black males. You despise them dont ya. Let it all flood out love..

Crazy girl.



*@M I put ur comments in blue to make it clear whichare urs and which are Aneki's

For a woman to be attracted to a "bad boy" I would say she has psychological issues, and is an idiot plain and simple. Half the time for a man to call himself a "bad boy" is a pseudo, but if u actually come across one like Nightz's cousin then u have the gal bigging him up like a plum: "Oh my man's in this crew, he did time in prison u know, no one can mess with me cos my man will sort them out". Utter bullcrap, cos if anyting bad goes down the gal is doing a Jennifer Lopez and running shit scared in the opposite direction.

Then u have the really ****ed up gals who thinks she's superwoman and can turn a "bad boy" into a "good boy". I advise these kinda gals to seek help immediately because it is worrying what lengths they will go to: "oh I love him so I'm gonna stay with him even though he uses me like a punching bag, if he gets help then everything will be alright, he's not a bad person really" or "I'm gonna get myself pregnant so he will have to change, he will have to get a job, stop rolling with his crew, and stop sleeping around". WAKE UP, GET THE MATTA OUT UR EYE, DRINK THE COFFEE, THEN SMELL THE DAMN ROSES.

In response to what has been said about south east london, I can only speak for my area, but I see it like dis: yes u get the few idiot boys trying to act "bad", but the gals trying to act like "hoes" outnumbers dem by far. If young gals are getting raped I'm sorry but half the time it's cos they are dressed in next to nothing, pushing up themselves on the boys/men, trying to act like big women when they are still in training bras, lieing about their age and putting themselves in situations they clearly can't get out of. It's easy for a gal who consented to sex but regretted it later to then cry out rape. Obviously I have sympathy for the genuine rape cases.

Me personally I don't feel no kinda attraction for a man who is gonna treat me like shit. My mother never raised no fool, and I'm nothing less than my daddy's princess.

@mansamusa and facetygal not everyone grew up with proper parenting some of these very young teenage children come from a broken family.

I saw documentory on teenager with early pregnancy and most of them do not have a father.. not know.. or father is ajunky in prison or mom is whore go out party every night drink a lot so I would not realy say they are idiots or dumb.. remember not everyone had stable family to teach them values so they grew up wild have to be thinking for themselves not knowing what crowd which rout to take in life.

Unfortunately these are the teenagers who have to find out and make lots of mistakes before learning how to deal with their insecurities and master the fear in them even big grown ass so called educated men grasp the oportunity to take advantage of these poor misguided self hating vulnerable children I say children cus to me teenagers are still children and even a twentysomething girl is still a child to me if the above aplies to her.

hmmm

the title

"Are black girls attracted to the wrong type of guy?"

answer: unable to answer

reason: simple not ALL black girls like wrong guys. Yes somewomen in all races are attracted to bad boys. I guess they confuse bad man as real man; aggressive, assertive, strong which is bullshite as those so called bad boys have the weakest mind.

Who could you blame? parents, women, bad boys, bad boys fathers etc i really cannot answer.