How many people have you slept with? - Page 3

ChubbiChix · (#51 (**permalink**))

Black_power wrote:

Quote:

ok peep this

I know this lady

shes 30yr old

been married for 6yrs

and has had 22 sexual partners

Is that too many in your opinion?

Quote:

Well I'm not her so I can;t say weither its morally wrong, just whats right for me. honestly I can't say its wrong because she's 30 years old and I knew women with alot more partners then that, so 22 for 30 year old women in 2005 is kind of normal. To tell you the truth, most adult women i know (not including myself) tell me they had anywhere from 10-30 men. Its rare that i meet someone who had only 1 or 2 partners in their life unless they got married straight out of college.

Quote:

I NEED honestly especially when it comes to sexual partners, but i try to let them know no matter the number i wont judge them and wont stop seeing them being thats why most people lie about it. There scared you will reject them because of their past.

Richard Darial · (#52 (**permalink**))

The past is the past.

If you can meet someone and remain faithful to them for the rest of your active sex life then I guess you'd prove you would have been capable given the right circumstances.

ChubbiChix · (#53 (**permalink**))

To tell you the truth, beside dieases, I can't understand why any grown man thats not a virgin himself would want a women to be a virgin other then his ego. When i lost my virginity, it was terrible and i didnt even start enjoying sex until i had it alot of times. Plus as a virgin, I know i was a terrible lover and had no clue about what to do and i thank a man would like me much more now that i have some experience and know what i'm doing.

Ever had a virgin giving you head before? teeth hurt when they constantly grazing the genitals. And when your a virgin, the penis hurts so much that you can't really ride it good or throw it back because your in extreme pain so you just lay there like a dead body. What fun is that lol? I would never want a man virgin, he would probably cum to quick.

Richard Darial · (#54 (**permalink**))

First of all, you're supposed to marry the first man you touch. Now I know. In this world people do what they want, but prudence dictates that if you have children, teach them this. In fact arrange for them to be around other kids of the opposite sex and get to know the parents of those kids. At some point if you (and they) are smart you'll arrange a marriage for your children. That way they can avoid all of the crap you just spoke about.

See. When two people are inexperienced the inexperience is cancelled out. The act of getting to know each other intimately is part of a natural process of bonding which is missing when people do whatever they want with whoever they want.

ADLayD · (#55 (**permalink**))

Quote:

Constant Quality wrote:

Quote:

ower
women like me know what they want! i have nt met a n***a to have a long term with , there just not worth it the hassle

sh1

TOTALLY AGREE WITH THAT

calisto · (#56 (**permalink**))

Richard... are you/men supposed to marry the first woman you/they touch?

ChubbiChix · (#57 (**permalink**))

ADLayD wrote:

Quote:

Constant Quality wrote:

Quote:

ower
women like me know what they want! i have nt met a n***a to have a long term with , there just not worth it the hassle

sh1

TOTALLY AGREE WITH THAT

Quote:

Well, i understand your frustration with brothers and how you kind of gave up, but when you find that right one, it will be worth the hassle, trust me.banana.gif

Richard Darial · (#58 (**permalink**))

calisto wrote:

Quote:

Richard... are you/men supposed to marry the first woman you/they touch?

Quote:

That's right. All of this macho crap is animal behavior inherited by observing white people and their almost dog-like breeding rituals.

Quote:

A man has one set of sexual organs not fifty. Now I know it's extremely difficult for men these days to avoidmany temptations where women are concerned (because black men get targetted by the looser breeds of females), buta guy must try to honor himself and his future wife.

Quote:

This is why arranged marrages at a young ageare a better idea than letting kids go and do whatever their peers are doing.

Quote:

Mothers need to tell their sons to stay away from white girls. Tell them early. Inculcate this in their minds, because if you don't, believe me your sons will suffer. White girls have several advantages over their black counterparts when it comes to drawing men. The only way to protect a child is to do it early. If no one says anything he'll think it only natural for him to dabble and will end up the kind of man women will turn around and point to when they feel they should be allowed to put out too.

ChubbiChix · (#59 (**permalink**))

Richard Darial wrote:

Quote:

calisto wrote:

Quote:

Richard... are you/men supposed to marry the first woman you/they touch?

Quote:

That's right. All of this macho crap is animal behavior inherited by observing white people and their almost dog-like breeding rituals.

Quote:

A man has one set of sexual organs not fifty. Now I know it's extremely difficult for men these days to avoidmany temptations where women are concerned (because black men get targetted by the looser breeds of females), buta guy must try to honor himself and his future wife.

Quote:

This is why arranged marrages at a young ageare a better idea than letting kids go and do whatever their peers are doing.

Quote:

Mothers need to tell their sons to stay away from white girls. Tell them early. Inculcate this in their minds, because if you don't, believe me your sons will suffer. White girls have several advantages over their black counterparts when it comes to drawing men. The only way to protect a child is to do it early. If no one says anything he'll think it only natural for him to dabble and will end up the kind of man women will turn around and point to when they feel they should be allowed to put out too.

Quote:

See i agree with what you said, i will teach my kids to love other blacks and if my son came home with a white women i would probably have a heart attack but arrange marriages for kids is kind of weird. What if they don;t like the person? or what if they liked the person as a young kid and when they became an adult saw that they really wasen't inlove with the person? what then? I think its better for adults who are grown and know what they want to choice partners and not the parents. I would definitly need to get to know my new inlaws.

Quote:

For example, My mother is a god fearing, church going lady with big white hat included so she would probablly pick some preacher's son for me thats all religious. I was raised a christian but as adult i realize its not for me so me and the man my mother would pick would be a mitch match and i would want to dump him for a man with knowledge.

Richard Darial · (#60 (**permalink**))

When I say arrange a marriage I don't mean an "arranged marriage". What I mean is you should let your children socialize without pressures on them, i.e. let them bring their friends of opposite sexhome early on. That way when they bond with someone:

1) You'll already know the person

2) So will they

3) You'll know their parents (having gone to their house to pick up your kid)

So in other words what you're doing by allowing your children to socialize this way is arranging their marriage. I don't actually mean you go and sign some contract with the other kids parents.

EDIT: A preacher's son will probably have more knowledge than most young men too.

calculator2 · (#61 (**permalink**))

dimoke wrote:

Quote:

browneyedbabe wrote:

Quote:

Why does guys always ask this question? Does it really make a difference as long as the person is disease free? I mean if a guy is talking to a girl and he really likes her, what does the number of guys she's been with in the past have to do with anything? I am a firm believer that both sexes should have respect for their bodies, but people make mistakes. So what do you guys think, should the number matter?

Calculator response:

Quote:

It DOES matter to me as a male how many men any potential female partner of mine has slept with as it gives an indicator to their state of mind and their morals. A woman in this system has the right to have sex with whoever she wishes to. I want the right to know how many so that I can make an informed decision as to whether or not I should waste my time in proceeding with a relationship with this type of woman. Any male that says otherwise is either pussywhipped, ugly or a straight up liar. clp)

calculator2 · (#62 (**permalink**))

efenjee wrote:

Quote:

I used to think a girl that had sex with a large number of partners while still young was a ho, slag, nasty girl or whatever. As time went on I thought more about it and realised that all a slag is in most cases is A) a girlthat loves sex B) a girl that attracts many men, with her looks and/or personality. If that is all a slag is then I started thinking maybe there is nothing wrong with being a slag.

If a girl is sleeping with men who she isn't really feeling just because the men want to - then obviously you have to question whether she has issues with self worth. If a girl is constantly getting hurt either emotionally or physically through her behaviour but is carrying on with it - again, she must have some problem. But really, what is wrong with someone having sex with people who they want to have sex with, for the fun and excitement that sex involves, while protecting themselves from unwanted pregnancy and disease?

I'm the kind of girl that only has sex with guys I really am deeply attracted to on a physical level, not just somone I think is a nice guy and I get on well with- somy options are severely limited because I don't come across guys that I am attracted to very often - I think I have more of a pro