this mite not appeal to all of you but i am sick to death of bein a twin!!

we are both 19 years old im a girl an have a twin brother..he seems to have everythin handed to him on a plate an when we see relatives they always say..an why aint you done that yet!!

its so annoyin!sport-smiley

he's goes to uni..i'll be goin next year

he has a car an can drive...im learninblkangryblkheadbang

things are handed to him on a plate..i have to work for everythin!confused3

my dad favours him more....my mom addresses him differently than she does me



this is gettin so frustrating!! what do i need to do.....!!

we are the same age an he seems to get thigs alot easier peope always compare us an say he is the better twin!! an why is it takin me so long!



i hate bein a twin!!confused2confused2confused2confused2

@Browneyes

I am also a twin, I have a sister, I am the male. She says exactly the same thing, thinks I get everything handed on a platter to me. I think its more a matter of perception. You are a young woman and different things are expected from a young woman that might not be expected from a young man and visa versa.

As a twin you also tend to live under each others shadow, and there tends always to be one dominant twin. I think my sister is the dominant one, the one more noticed. So in a way the other twin as to find there own way make their own path, define their way. Depending on which twin you are, thats what you may need to do. Find out what you like, find out what you wish to achieve and go for it, you might be taking long because your unconciously watching your brother to work out what your next move will be. Twins have a funny tie I know trust me. I have been to the extremes where I dislike the ground my sister walks on to the other extreme where she will be the only one that can talk to me and get through to me when no other person can.

So be careful and watch out for your twin, as you get older you are going to see that he may come to you when in need, or you can run to him. Twins are peculiar people and i know because i'm a twin telling you.