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I know not to many people will respond to this (or think its a dumb question)

Well it is a question in the area of dating and relationships.

Would you rather be the Mistress(or girl on the side)or the Girlfriend?
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Girlfriend...why would you want to be the mistress?
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I know not to many people will respond to this (or think its a dumb question)

Well it is a question in the area of dating and relationships.

Would you rather be the Mistress(or girl on the side)or the Girlfriend?

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if itz a 'luving' relationship...di wifey of course

if it jus for sex... den mistress....dont need no ownership wen im on a roll banana.gifblktrainers




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I think that it depends on the guy. If he is a nasty ******* and a player then mistress is fine! If he is lovely then only wifey will do!
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I'm talking about being in a situation where a guy is cheating, and would you want to be the girlfriend getting cheated on or the mistressthat he is cheating with?
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I'm talking about being in a situation where a guy is cheating, and would you want to be the girlfriend getting cheated on or the mistressthat he is cheating with?
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Actually neither.I don't particularly have a preference of being a girlfriend or mistress of a cheater. I've been cheated on before and it hurts when someone betrays you trust andI'd never be a mistress b/c I'm not a homewrecker when there are too many single/unattached men looking for relationships.
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However, to answer the question--girlfriend being cheated on because once it comes to the light I won't be the girlfriend any longer. Therefore, I would encourage him to go to his mistress.However, I highly doubt there relationship would last being that the terms upon which they started wasn't trust but deceit.
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Again, what benefits do you have for being a mistress?
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Girlfriend =)

I wanna show my man!


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Well i definitely don't want to be the mistress. I think its disgusting that anyone would want to have sex with a man that is mostly likely having sex with someone else. Thats how disease infiltrates a so called monogamous relationship. And I'm also not the type to break up a happy home. The guy that would want to cheat with me on his girlfriend or wife just tells me that he's no good anyway.
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Post imported post - 01-08-05, 08:17 PM

been a mistress before and so have a lot of my friends

its cool at first because you get everything you want material wise.. but at the end of the day who does the guy love - his real girl so now i would rather be the girlfriend any day

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