This happened to me to. Initially my partner and I were embarrassed, but we got over it.

My mum never questioned me about it and I never brought the subject up.

Your business is your business. How were you brought into this world.

Your mum is fine with it, simply because of how she dealt with it.

Stop worrying.

By the way we are still together 20 years on.

for the curious ones...............

well...................

i was going to just leave it, because she didnt seem like she was going to bring it up, but then i decided that i can't gwarn like that.

yesterday (yes, it's taken me that long),my mum announced that she was going to bed early, so i took the chance to go into her bed with her before she went to sleep. this is something i do when i know one of us needs 2 talk about something.

i do confess that i didn't have the guts to actually bring it up- she gave me the easy way out (which i'd relied on), and just blunty said

"are you and (his name) having sex?"

i said yes- there's no point in lying, and she appreciated my honesty. she was just concerned that i take precautions and dont do anything i'm not comfortable with. but she's kool now, as i reassured her.


thanks 2 all o ya for the advice &stuff

x

Awwwwww Ms M!llZ..can i say that you have a very special mother very special indeed I really hope you realise that and appreciate her NOW, and more importantly tell her how much you appreciate her...

Your mother is fantastic, pity there isn't more like her...

RUN FOR HILLS. I SAY!!

yeah i do appreciate her, and i realise that other mothers would've just given me beats & got dad 2 sort him out. she's MARVELLOUS!

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Glad to see everything went well...you are lucky in many ways...and remember...next time... LOCK THE DOOR PROPERLY WITH THE LATCH!!! niceone.gif.

Awwwwwww... Yet another happy ending on Blacknet.

You really got away with that one. BTW, locking the door is even is almost as bad when you've got a boy in there, its saying you're up to no good again. Let's be honest though - we all knew how it turned out because she wouldn't have posted since the first few posts. I've seen it happen before, somebody ask for advice like this on a forum - they never post again...

reehh ur lucky ur mumsie lets u do tings wiv ur man - my mums on a HYPE - - swear down, she dnt even want me havin man rite bout now, (i'm 16) an if mumsie ever walked in on me - - dat wud b tha last time she wud cuz she wudda duss ma rass OUT

I can't believe I missed this thread.... I'm all late...

****grabs popcorn****

I feel 4 ya lol, ive bin in the same exact position. If i had it my way i wuddnt have sex at all until i was married outta respect 4 ma mom... but its human nature!

So really it depends howyour momis she seems more liberal than mine is. Since ucalled this thread 'how embrassing..'rather than 'SHIT SHES GUNNA KILL ME...' (which is what i thought wen it happened to me lol)you must be more embrassed than anything else so i think you should jus try n bring it up n a conversation and be done with it,

Bloody hell, when i was 16 and had a boyfriend and my mum caught me coming out of the bathroom with him (i was showing him where the toilet was) i got the ornament by the stairs thrown at me, he got kicked out and was told never to come back again....AND WE WASNT EVEN DOING NUTTIN!!! I swear i thought i was gonna get murdered in there. I had sex once in my mums yard and she wernt there and i swear to god i didnt even enjoy it coz i was so worried so i neva did it again.

My mums kinda wiv the times, i mean shes only 17 years older than me, and i think dats why she was so mad wiv me, prob coz dats the kind of thing she was up to!!!

Its funny coz im 23 now with a 2 year old and still wudnt have sex at my mums with my man!!!! No way, im still too scared, plus id just really feel uncomfortable.

PS - Has your mum agreed that she doesnt mind u having sex in the yard with your man again??? Did he apologise? How does he feel??