today i had sex with my man,and jus after we finished, my mum walked in the room. i was in my bed, he was sitting on my bed, tings still out, condom still on. she made an awkward expression, turned around and said she was going out to dinner, and shut my door. now i dont know what to do.

do i:

1. hide away and hope she says nothing

2. stay in my room and wait until she gets home, and see if she approaches me to "talk"

3. approach her first.................

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if i approach her first what on earth do i say?

"sorry you had to see that mum, but we had the greatest sex though............."

er nah! any advice would be very much appreciated. ASAPblkhide

lol.

it aint funny! r u jus gna laugh at me or actually give me some advice BP?!! help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

my first question is - how are you brave enough to have sex under the same roof as your mum????

Me - I would never attempt such a thing! My mum would never have stood forit.

Does your mum know your boyfriend comes over and into your bedroom, if so, then i wonder how comes she just walked in on you.

Maybe she wanted to catch you out.

Anyway - i dunno what i would say -i would just keep quiet (feeling shame), untill she mentions it.

Mr$ M!llZ wrote: do u mind me asking ur age 1st?

i'm 16. i know everyones gna start sayin this and that about how i'm young, but i know all that. the fact is, it happened, and now i've got to deal with it. the question is how??!

we've been together for over a year and a half, although we waited til we were 16 to have sex. so yes, she does know he comes round and she gets on with him, he's part of the family really.

i'm sure she and my dad have clocked that we do have sex, but they know i've got a brain in my head, and wouldnt do anything i wasnt comfortable with. but that dont make this any better!

thanks 4 the advice. i will try to bring it up, but it's easier said than done

how do i bring it up?! blkcry

Approach it buy apologising for having sex with your mum home. You have to see that that is disrespectful... My parents would not have had it. You showed them a disrespect not by having sex itself, you are human, but by doing so in with your mum in the house.

Also if possible have your boyfriend apologise, he WILL need to if you intend seeing him again with your mothers blessing.

Glad you are being careful with the condoms...

Sorry but that is FUNNY..painful but funny...however that said I figure that this will be someting you'll both laugh about in the future..once your mother gets over the hurt and embarrassment..

My advice sit on your hands tek yu tings, apologise and let your mother voice her views then move on...

LOL @ BP

You mean did I get caught in some chicks room at 16 by her mum and have to apologise?

HA HA

Nah....

Im too scared of people's parents to try sex in the house when they are home. Even now Im a big man, if I meet chicks that live with their parents then I aint going near their bedrooms LOL... It's what MY house is for!!! At 16??? I woulda been way to scared to try that shit... angry daddies chasing me down the road and all sorts... doesnt bare thinking about...

damn - when i saw this inthe under 25 forum, i though ok she mus tbe in her 20's.

But 16!!!!! And your mum simply turned around and walked out - wow - your mum showed some real restraint - I would have been dead long time!

Anyway - since you're not as old as i thought you were, which is where the the waiting would have come in. I agree with DM, apologise! Especially if your mum doesn't allow boyfriends in your room. If she does, then still bring it up with her, prepare what you are going to say carefully.

But i really do think the advice given depends on what your mum is like.

lol. i already see the funny side, but i cringe even more.

it's not really a thing of letting boyfriends in my room. she wouldn't let just any boy up there(no pun intended), she's known him 4 a couple years now, and he weren't allowed upstairs (apart from using the loo) for a good few months.

i dont think it's disrespectful so much, am i really wrong to think that? is it always disrespectful, or does it depend on the individual situations?

i think it would be a bigger disrespect if i waited until everyone was out and sneakily drew him tomy yard,purely to sex. she doesnt like boys (not that any other boys come)in the yard without her knowing&blessing, and i respect and keep to that.

and anyway,its not like we sex everytime he's up in my room!! every now and then, but not ALWAYS

i'll see what she's saying and then get him to apologise to her aswell as me. i just hope she doesnt laugh in his face then start cussin.