This is just a question, as i simply cant understand it, so maybe you peps out there can help me!

I know dis chick, who dont have a man, but she repeatedly keeps callin up my man, wanting 2 chat, saying their "friends" when really and truly she just wants 2 have him!

Why do chicks, do this? When i find out a man has a wifey, he is completely off limits to me! how can sum girls still try an tek him? they simply cant have any conscience.

And why do the manz out there try an condone it, and sey how she just wants sum1 2 chat too and all dat shit! an they must know dat shes tryin it on!

Bottom line is, Chicks need to find there own man, and stop tryna dig in another gyals pocket!

I just think you are paranoid and jealous of your 'man' having a friend who is a girl, I've had to say this loads of times on here, but grow up. Even if he does leave you for her, (which I'd consider if I was him after reading this) it doesn't matter, if he leaves you for her you don't have a very good relationship do you?

That man is not your property! So you need to let it go. He is a grown ass man and can talk to whoever he wants, and you do not own him. Also, your man is the one you need to betalking to about this and ask him why he is talking to this woman in the first place and not you?!

You need to stop assuming that she is stealing you man. It seems like you may be a little bit insecure. Another thing, it is the man that makes the choice as to who he wants to be with. So if he does leave you for her it was his choice and she didn't force him to be with her. Your man must like talking to her because he has not told her to stop calling. So something is going on! HA HAHA HA i feel sorry for you.

Like Finest_G said, he is probably screwing her right now!

I've seen it plenty of times it's even happend to me. Of course she wants your man.

If it's not to take him from you and to make him her man, then it's to get him to sleep with her to hurt you. She probably just wants him because you have him. Simple.

No woman wants a man that nobody else wants. He must have something good if another woman finds interest in him. That's why she wants him.

And like blackthought said if you don't want people in your business then why post your personal business in a public forum. confused3

People.

a female will only persue a taken man if he makes it that way...if he is approachable she will do what she can to get him...so your man needs to stop her..obviouslly he's lettin' it be known that she can get to him whether you're his girl or not....

Princess Omega wrote:
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Therein lies your first problem. Your attitude to your man being a possession like a watch that can be stolen. You are dealing with a free-willed human being, who (like the woman who is allegedly chasing him) should have some idea of right from wrong, but who are free to choose to do right or wrong.
Take a look at the character of your man and consider if he has the kind of character you would expect of someone worthy of your love and devotion (he should have more obligation to you than this other woman). If he is not worthy of honoring his obligation by showing that the efforts of any woman to 'steal' him are wasted because of the strength of his loyalty, commitment and devotion to you then it is this you should be more worried about than the fact that some woman has her eyes on him.

Sure the woman displays a lack of respect and responsibility as a grown adult by not recognising that one should not make certain approaches to someone who is in a relationship with another, but to me that is secondary to the respect and responsibility your man has for you when he does not tell the woman what to do with her 'unwanted' (if indeed they are unwanted) advances.

Please stop looking at us men as some poor helpless animals incapable to resisting the approaches of these evil 'man stealers' with a glint in their eye and a pot of gold between their legs. NO WOMAN CAN LEAD US ANYWHERE WE DID NOT WANT TO GO!

But then again it is easy for the ego to put the blame on the sly ways of the woman than on the fact that the man lacks that real unwavering devotion for you which you want to believe he has.

Respect

that is such an intelligent reply, most people replied positively and it was so helpful. the ones dat didnt and oviously think the SUN SHINES OUT DERE ARSES know who they are! thanks so much. l8r's.

@ Finest_G. the reason why i came back on the defensive is simply bcoz i posted sumting 2 get an intelligent, intellectual, black perspective, but i got a childish, dumb poor of an excuse answer! simply peps need to fix-up and recognise dat peps have issues, but u need to read da bible and recognise not to judge and not to put peps down! go learn sum tings and i wanna c u try dun me! i'd put u down to size b4 u cud even spell ur name! l8r's! x