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27-07-05, 01:34 PM
I'm 16 and woz basically goin wid a 18 yr old black brotha 4 a few months and then the inevitable happened....i fell in luv wid him (da onli boy i hav eva fallen in luv wid). Den he broke da news to me dat he woz cheatin and I woz heartbroken and cried 4 bout 4 wks straight. Da fing is dat he has decided 2 b wid her and is still tellin me he's feelin me and is sorry. I know dat im bein an idiot finkin bout him still but i cant jus erase da luv i had 4 him...da worse fing is dat i got da new chic call my fone and try get rude ( wen she knewi woz his gurlin da first place!)...I HATE him but den stil LOVE him, im so confused and dont want 2 do sumfing i wil regret.....Help!
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27-07-05, 02:11 PM
Fuk off den i dont need u cumin on da topic n dissin it....all i wanted woz 2 get a lil bit of advice frm sum1 wid sense...unlike ur self.....................
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27-07-05, 02:25 PM
Listen u IDIAT he actually sed sori n is da one wantin me so im gon play along n get dem both bak BAD BAD BAD...ne ways u dont no me so how can u b goin on bout my attitude....if ne ting im actually kinda smart coz dis B1tch is goin 2 get it so Bad she wont no wot happened.......im not a violent person so if netin da situation is kinda twisted u get me..........
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27-07-05, 02:57 PM
Thanx gurl I best make sure I dont get 2 wrapped up in it but if nething i wil hav a backup boy dis time.......
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27-07-05, 06:37 PM
Hmm.. Or perhaps learn to type/speak properly Men Love a coherent lady...
Translation: MaYb Speek Propa Cos Manz Like Sum1 Smrt Innit.
The bold text large font just make its worse like your highlighting foolishness. BP is Right this thread does suck.:P
Life is one those things that most of us have to experience... Love peace \'N\' hair grease.
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27-07-05, 07:35 PM
Yall she is only 16. be nice
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27-07-05, 07:59 PM
DATS COOL I TAKE WELL 2 HATERZ BUT TRU SAY I WOZ GOIN ON BUT I'VE TAKEN THE ADVICE OF THAT BOY BOY I WILL BE coherent ALRIGHT....................
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27-07-05, 08:38 PM
Your only 16 .......all I can say is prepare yourself! more may soon come.teenagers and young adults want to explore because they are still young. I'd say take it as a blessing in disguise and make top grades in school, pick up a hobby. Do 16 year old things because if you care more about the dudes and what they do with they willies your destined to have a future full of children and or unwanted excess drama with his chicks that he haveon the side. don't lower yourself. take it as a lesson build your esteem and don't try to go too fast.your young. let him be him, it may catch up with him in due time.
Have Platonic relationships with men first.Because at the age of 16/young adult male or female, they don'tknow what they want for sure. take care of you.
Thank God he told you he was cheating because he could have passed something onto you or become pregnant and stuck with a man that continues to cheat on you and has no real love for you.
Its a blessing in disguise.
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27-07-05, 08:43 PM
Thanks 4 the constructive reply....the thing is dat he still wants 2 keep in contact wid me coz im sure he aint really on this other girl coz he's using her 4 a cheap flat and free food....she is even thiefin off her mum 4 him....he said he could not burn me like dat so he told me about her before i found out....but tru say i stil feel burnt but at the same time i stil feel sumthing 4 him....
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28-07-05, 01:51 AM
Things get better with time.
Anytime you feel like s**t remember that its happened to almost all women, of different ages anddifferent levels of attractiveness and intelligence. Its not you that sent him to another woman, he wanted to go.
Don't think any less of yourself, you'll meet someone better than him. The nice thing about being 16 is how quick you forget an ex.
Whatever you do, don't go out with him again or you'll set a pattern for the future: ie always ready to take s**t from someone who gives it.
Some will hate you, pretend they love you now
Then behind they try to eliminate you
But who Jah bless, no man curse
Thank God, we\'re past the worse
Bob Marley \'Who the cap fit\'
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28-07-05, 10:28 AM
I really do hope things will get better with time because its been over a month that we spilt but i still aint over him....he thinks im goin wid sum1 else now (but i aint!) i just told him that and i think now he's gettin all protective and is sayin "i hope he's treatin u gd". I feel that deep down he still cares for me but i dont understand why he is with dis gurl that he calls a "jealous person and a thief". He told me that he enjoys my company and wants 2 keep in touch with me. Should I or should I cut all links wid him?
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29-07-05, 08:22 PM
[ i think i posted this on your thread sumwhere else lol, but i'ma copy it ova here anyway]
don't waste yourtime on him, cause i'm sure he weren't feelin no hurt or pain when he cheated on you. I think you'll have 2 try and move on, cause stayin around him ain't gonna help you cause it's gonna keep bringin back bad memories an juss remind you of how you feel about him. Someone cheated on me aswell in the past, and i'm thankful he did that cause it made me stronger (in that sense lol), he didn't feel any guilt or remorse for his actions, so why should I let him think that i'm upset about it, like he has some sort of power over me? Now, I aint gonna act like mycurrent relationship is perfect lol, we have our ups and downs, but if he ever CHEATED on me, i wouldn't think twice bout gettin him out my life.Hard as it may be, that's what you gotta do. He thinks he's got some sort of hold on you, like he's got you on lock. He can cheat on youan u'll still be his friend, an still spend time with him when he wants you to...you can't lethim get the better of you. U gotta bstrong an show him that you can do betterwithout him. U don't need waste that's gunna cheat on you. So dont waste energy thinkin about someone that would betray you like that
I would never want a boy back if I knew he was capable of treatin his girlfriend like that....using her for a cheap flat and food....you can do better than that, if he would do somethin as cruel as that, why would you want that for yourself? Get a GOOD man gurl!
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07-08-05, 11:22 PM
blkcryma heart goes out 2 u coz raaah dats deep wat happened 2 u! well let me say sumting 1st u r not bein schupid coz sum1 does dat 2 u dnt mean u stop lovin dem jus like u cant stop lovin ur mum/dad/or sum1 even tho u dnt eva tlk again! Well dnt worry u will get ova him u jus need 2 find sum1 2 move on to n u will be well on ur way......banana.gifBun him if he sayin he feelin u still tell him he lost dat chance of u 2 bein 2gether wen he went wid da nxt chik n y she gettin rude 4 kmt she was da bit on da side kmt!!! U can do better n if he realli is feelin u den giv him a taste of his own medicine let him feel hurt kmT! he 2 dunce 2 realise dat u was good 4 hiM! but raaaah dnt worry u will get thru it jus find sum1 else 2 move on 2......
stay bless n ting redkiss
~DA*1*&*OnLy*Rita~ nuff luv & respect 2 all dem pplz on dis and my fam & bredrins!!!!
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19-08-05, 06:21 PM
WHATS DONE IS DONE GET YOU A NEW LIFE. A.S.A.P.
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