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Post imported post - 26-08-05, 09:17 PM

Hi.. I wonder who of ya'll had ever lied to there parents.. about big things, small things.. just things. And the reason and what you think of it? Any experiences?

Ive lied to my dad about who Im going to.. cuz he wont allow my to hang with boys.. even if theire just friends. Ive lied about where I got some things, cuz I stole those. Im ashamed of it but my friends were doing it.. and so on. Ive lied about who Ive gone to at night. i sad a had a sleep over with girlfriends, when I was actually watching dvds with male friends.. Or swimming with them in a public swimming pool haha. I lied about a cople of grades in school. I used to think they were just some small excuses, but when Im thinkin about it now.. I lie a lot. And telling lies is a bad thing, its stupid to do. But sometimes you just dont have no otha choice. When parents forbid you things that others are not forbidden to do.. And when youre young you wanna have fun, and for that u sometimes need to lie. But I will tell my parents about some things soon or later.. in a couple of years I gues..

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Post imported post - 26-08-05, 11:08 PM

im feelin uz man. ma rentz uptyte 2. gta ly bout bre tingz. wrong..bt jus feel so left out.
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Post imported post - 28-08-05, 03:47 PM

I always have to lie to my parents. I don't want to, but I won't have a life otherwise. If i'm going to a friends house and it happens to be a boy, I have to lie, my mum assumes if it's a boy it must be my boyfriend. As most of my friends are male that means I have to lie a lot.

But I will tell my parents some day..................... just not anytime soon




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Post imported post - 28-08-05, 09:56 PM

i feelin al uz man. myte aswell b dead if i dnt ly 2 rentz...aint gd..n feelz guilty. ting iz i go al bwoiz skl which blowz....n i need chat wit girlz smetimez. if i didnt ly ma rentz..id neva c girlz. ....wat a sht lyf dat wld b. afta gcse's iz movin mixed skl ,man

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Post imported post - 05-09-05, 04:44 PM

I've probably lied to my parents back in the day but now i cant sort of see why they say no and tell you not to do certain things.

Your Parents dont tell you no for any old reason. They try to protect you, you could have gone to you see these male friends, next thing you know they are forcing themselves on you. Or you've gone out late at night when its past your curfew and you've been kidnapped.

I know its a bit extreme but sh!t happens.

Maybe you drop the line - but their my friends they wouldnt do things like that i know them.

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1. Grown up with a bunch of my mates in my area from say 13 and i'm 19 now, but they threw bricks through my aunts window, why? cos they thought she grassed them up to the POlice when they jumped one man.

2. Just because you knew someone from day 1 it doesnt mean you know them. You know does ones when someone gets arrested and you hear people say 'I didnt think he/she was like that.' or 'but i know them they wouldnt do something like that.'

your parents love you and they can go over the top but if i did do what my mum told me then i wouldnt be living this sh!tty life that i am living cos of my lies and actions.

Trust me i had bare friends, popular student but now i know who my REAL friends are and thats a handful of people.


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Post imported post - 07-09-05, 11:24 PM

Im not gonna lie now, but im ashamed 2 say i did give da odd lie 2 my dad. But sumhow he always could tell when i was lyin!

I hope when im a mum i inherit that talent.


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Post imported post - 08-09-05, 01:31 AM

Im afraid to say, I haven't lied to my parents about anything! They had me young so there is only 18-20yrs age gap, and they are like my best friends - I tell them EVERYTHING!!! confused2. Whenever ive done something I don't think they would be proud of, Ive thankfully been able to talk to them both about it.
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Post imported post - 08-09-05, 09:32 PM

yeppp i have i used to bare when i started going out with the boyfriend im with now and they didnt know about the ones before him. but then my mum came across my diary and read everything so now shes 'up to date'. was proper vex at first but now im just honest with both my mum and dad... but i can see why u girlies feel you have to lie

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Post imported post - 10-09-05, 07:52 PM

boi i never understand why ppl keep diaries coz i swear down they always get into da hands of pryin eyes


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Post imported post - 11-09-05, 02:42 PM

became habit because ive been doing it from since i was nuff little and its a way to get things of my chest - well thats y i do it not sure about others

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Post imported post - 11-09-05, 09:21 PM

do i lie to my parents......................do i want peace and quiet when my mum * starts on me*?............hail yeah.......................

little white lies.......................like for the fact i use the internet for studying purposes only!

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Post imported post - 13-09-05, 07:03 PM

Nah I dont tell major lies I only lie about food manily like "who ate the last peice of chicken"

Me and my mum are over safe I tell her everything even if she does cuss, makes me feel better.


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Post imported post - 13-09-05, 07:07 PM

Wish me and my dad were like that sista, wish we were..


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