I need some advice because im a bit confused . For six months now I have been talking to this guy via internet and phone , anyways we decide to meet up and we got along really well . This was last week ,he visited twice,since he has visited we have spoke everyday on the phone and he says that he really likes me . He has gone away for the weekend , he went on friday and is due back today , we spoke on Friday, Saturday and Sunday night and he said that he never thought he would miss me as much as he is missing me , He also said that he likes me alot and can see us being together and ourdaughters getting along with each other . the last time he txted was on the early hours of Monday , I texted him last night and when he never replied I asked some one to call him and tell him to call me , she called me back and said that he said he was going tocall me straight away but he never did . I have been hurt in the past and to be honest I really dont have much trust and hope in men, Thats why I am left feeling confused because I dont understand why he said that he would call and never did . The only thing that I can think off is maybe he wasnt or isnt that into me . Thats why I asking for your opinions because I really dont know if he is genuwin or notand if he is then how will I know ?

Damn man, slow your roll.

There could be a number of reasons why he hasnt rang you.

1. No credit

2. No cash

3. Something serious has come up and he hasnt had the time to call

4. could have had an accident and the man is hospital

5. Arrested

6. Got mugged

You never know. but for you to start getting all stalker like on him because he hasnt returned your text and then you then need to call him AND further moreyour asking yourself whether he is a decent man, come on man. be serious. You must have it bad!

all that because he hasnt called you yet, will you feel shamed that your starting to question him if you found out man got run over and he is inhospital recovering.

I dont like stalker girls, i had a stalker girl once boy that was some scary Sh!t!

He will call you in time. i'd be pissed if you started ringing off my phone cos i havent texted you bkcos i'm broke.

ok so he hasn't called you for a day? girl, don't even trip. Sometimes a man like to pull back, just to see how good they got you. From your reaction he has you real good it seems. Girl, it is only the beginning please don't get so wrapped up in someone u hardly know. Whatever you do don't call him or text him again ( you don't want to make yourself out to be a pest). When he call don't even ask "why didn't you call?" Where have you been? Frankly give him the idea that you have been too busy to notice. Keep him guessing. Believe everyone likes a challenge of any kind, he will be baffled by your aloof attitude, and believe me that turns many ppl. on. take care

You need to pull back a little bit. You could be scaring him if you come off too smothering. You need to act like you don't need him (so to speak), and he will want you if he is really into you.

--Thoth B3

The golden, god given rule of attraction is this:

Never and I mean neverSHOW any interest in anyone who you suspect isattempting to manipulateyour feelings/attention. Pull back sharply and the truth of their feelings will reveal itself (usuallywithin six days) in their response, or non response.

Its a scientific fact. In the meantime,kill the thought of that person in your mind. Drown all those foolish dreams he's planted in your head.Understand how players operate - they put comforting ideas ofstability andhappy ever afters in your poor girly heads and you are hooked. Its a trick that any fool can learn. And I think that youve been tricked.

You need to deal with ur trust issues and get over what happened to u in the past before thinking about being involved with anyone. S.Williams gave good examples as to why he couldn't text/call u back and if u were in the right frame of mind u would have thought of these things too. You hardly know the man so don't write him off just yet, get to know him betterbut at the same time do not give him ur all.

sweetsis..never been a player, but have watched enuf players operate. By the way, some of the biggest players on the planet are women. You learn how to manipulate a man's affections from an early agae and you do it like its natural, like breathing. Can a woman make a guy pay her attention WITHOUT having to walk up to him? Is the pope catholic.Can we make a woman walk across the floor and ask us to dance? Does Tony Blair tell us the truth?

You know I think its despicable the way some men seriously manipulate/change a womans life i.e through pregnancy/false marriages etc BUT i dont swallow the rubbishy sentimental view that women are totally blameless. You womenknow how to play, how to raise a man's expectations then dash it to the floor; how to play with our heads; how to build us up and knock us down; how to promise and not deliver; how to trample on our feelings once you've found out that we are suckers for you. So dont give me this rubibsh about"We could play and lie too BUT choose not to" You can't help playing because you've always had to rely on your wits to survive.

BTW playing is not all about lying..its aboutselling comfort and security to someoneat a particular place and time intheirlife. And yes, its scary to wield thatkind of power. But (I hear) its fun to watch it unfold.

smoking-devil