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I was waiting in line at a store today when I heard a comotion going on in front of me, human nature and thing I started listening to what was going down ( althoughI didn't have to strain my ears to much to hear! ). Some huge burly white woman was cursin' the Indian woman serving her because the lady gave her £5 in coins instead of a note, the woman was going mad, but thelady told her ( politely) that she didn't have any notes, the big white bitch shouted at her to give her her money back so she could go toanother till she don't want no coins! What difference does it make its all money at the end of the day!. Anyways the Indian lady went tothe till I wasbeing served at and I gave her the £5 note I was about to use, I feltsorry for the woman.

Instead of being cool this white ignorant bitch went on to tell the Indian lady how rude SHE was and cursed her some more!.

Nowif that wasn't bad enough the rasshole women went outside where her child was waiting and started shouting " that dirty paki bitch wanted to give me coins, ****in pakis i'm sick of seeing'em in my country!" blah blah blah!!

Nobody said a word, not even the Indian man who wasserving me. Now what the rass is that about?. I went outside and told the fat bitchstraight " youracist bitch with your 6 kids living on benifits, how dare you talk to that woman like that? shes paying your benifits whilst you sit on your arsehaving kids that will probably end up doing the same bullshit that you're doing" This woman didn't say one word to me, I spat at the ground where she stood and walked off!.

I did have a fear that she would come after me and do me something, she was huge, but she didn't do one shit!

Maybe i'm naive, maybe i've been sheltered living in a 100% black community, yeah theres white Bajans but we don't mix, i've never had a white Bajan friend in my life.But I've met white peeps from England b4 I came here and they all seemed cool! Maybe they act different when there on vacation but i've stayed in touch with tourist from all over and seem friendly to me.

This has truly shocked me, I don't know why the lady stood there and took that, maybe she was scared, but I don't know if I wanna stay over here anymore, I feel I would end up in prison on an assault charge if anyone spoke to me like that!!!!!hhead





I can hear Barbados calling me home.blktears

I just needed to get that off my chestblkangry, thanks people

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Post imported post - 21-10-05, 04:29 PM

Your naivety innocence is kind of cute, but please, why do you care what 2 racist people do to each other?confused3

Do you think if that white woman was calling you the N word that the Indian woman would have even thought about your feelings? Cmon now, i know you keep talking about how all benovelent everyone seems to be in Barbados, but aren't you aware that the rest of the world is ****ed up?

Take a sip out of the evilness of the real world and stop feeling for whites or Asians.....quite frankly if it was me, i would have opened a can of drink, called my mates and have a good laugh out of it.

I know, i am cold hearted....but for me, Indians are just as bad as whites....what they do to each other is none of my business


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Your naivety innocence is kind of cute, but please, why do you care what 2 racist people do to each other?confused3

Do you think if that white woman was calling you the N word that the Indian woman would have even thought about your feelings? Cmon now, i know you keep talking about how all benovelent everyone seems to be in Barbados, but aren't you aware that the rest of the world is f**ked up?

Take a sip out of the evilness of the real world and stop feeling for whites or Asians.....quite frankly if it was me, i would have opened a can of drink, called my mates and have a good laugh out of it.

I know, i am cold hearted....but for me, Indians are just as bad as whites....what they do to each other is none of my business
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LOL I was thinking of expressing the fact that I don't give a flying sh*t about either of those groups, but I didn't want to get stoned on here so I thought it wouldbe best to keep my thoughts to myself.


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Post imported post - 21-10-05, 04:34 PM

I have problems with this..........

Not with the incident, with you.

1. Why did you take it up on yourself to defend an Asian when if it had been reversed, she would not have defended you?

2. If the INDIAN MAN did not do anything, to help the woman, why did you?

3. Why did you risk yourself to an attack simply to get something off your chest, what if the burly white woman had other people with her you did not know about while you were defending the Asians?

4. Why did you post your defense of asians on blacknet?


I am not knocking you, but you really should pay attention to who you defend....
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I have problems with this..........

Not with the incident, with you.

1. Why did you take it up on yourself to defend an Asian when if it had been reversed, she would not have defended you?

2. If the INDIAN MAN did not do anything, to help the woman, why did you?

3. Why did you risk yourself to an attack simply to get something off your chest, what if the burly white woman had other people with her you did not know about while you were defending the Asians?

4. Why did you post your defense of asians on blacknet?


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I understand your points, and I didn't defend her because she was Asian, I was shocked at the blantent Racism that the woman so openly showed. Like I said maybe I am naive and stupid for putting myself at risk for someone else, I was just so disgusted that I couldn't keep my feelings hidden.
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I was waiting in line at a store today when I heard a comotion going on in front of me, human nature and thing I started listening to what was going down ( althoughI didn't have to strain my ears to much to hear! ). Some huge burly white woman was cursin' the Indian woman serving her because the lady gave her £5 in coins instead of a note, the woman was going mad, but thelady told her ( politely ) that she didn't have any notes, the big white b**ch shouted at her to give her her money back so she could go toanother till she don't want no coins! What difference does it make its all money at the end of the day!. Anyways the Indian lady went tothe till I wasbeing served at and I gave her the £5 note I was about to use, I feltsorry for the woman.

Instead of being cool this white ignorant b**ch went on to tell the Indian lady how rude SHE was and cursed her some more!.

Nowif that wasn't bad enough the rasshole women went outside where her child was waiting and started shouting " that dirty paki b**ch wanted to give me coins, f**kin pakis i'm sick of seeing'em in my country!" blah blah blah!!

Nobody said a word, not even the Indian man who wasserving me. Now what the rass is that about?. I went outside and told the fat b**chstraight " youracist b**ch with your 6 kids living on benifits, how dare you talk to that woman like that? shes paying your benifits whilst you sit on your arsehaving kids that will probably end up doing the same bullshit that you're doing" This woman didn't say one word to me, I spat at the ground where she stood and walked off!.

I did have a fear that she would come after me and do me something, she was huge, but she didn't do one shit!

Maybe i'm naive, maybe i've been sheltered living in a 100% black community, yeah theres white Bajans but we don't mix, i've never had a white Bajan friend in my life.But I've met white peeps from England b4 I came here and they all seemed cool! Maybe they act different when there on vacation but i've stayed in touch with tourist from all over and seem friendly to me.

This has truly shocked me, I don't know why the lady stood there and took that, maybe she was scared, but I don't know if I wanna stay over here anymore, I feel I would end up in prison on an assault charge if anyone spoke to me like that!!!!!hhead

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There's nothing wrong with your actions at all, you did what was right but just make sure you don't put yourself in a situation where you are vulnerable to attack too!
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Post imported post - 21-10-05, 06:26 PM

Rastawoman: back in the day..when Asians and Blacks were a lot closer against the war in racism.. I would have done what you did and put that cave b**ch straight... However NOW..sorry but I agree with the views of others I just wouldn't do it now... I'm sorry to say this but Asians have sold us out on the issue of racism.. They sold out with their open collussion with the Tory party and sold out in how they treat us in their shops..

So no way I would have said a damned thing on their behalf...


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Post imported post - 22-10-05, 01:55 PM

While I understand that Indians would never rush to our defense, I can see Rastawoman's point.

I would not have been comfortable to watch that ignorant woman carry on that racist rant... she was probably too scared to start with sistah-girl because she would have rightfully knocked the stuffing out of that chav cavewoman.

It's the principle of her feeling free to abuse people that would tick me off. It's hard to stand by and watch injustice unfold.

As far as I see it, that Indian manwas a pathetic, emasculated w-ker.




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Especially after today's events, this thread really pisses me off....


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You seem to miss the point each and everytime, I didn't get mad because the woman was Racist to the indian woman, I got pissed off because the woman was out and out Racist and had the nerve to do it so blatently.
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You seem to miss the point each and everytime, I didn't get mad because the woman was Racist to the indian woman, I got pissed off because the woman was out and out Racist and had the nerve to do it so blatently.
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