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11-08-06, 08:47 AM
They is this saying that your ex partner is your ex for a good reason. But I would like to knowif you wouldgo back out with your ex partner. Even if you broke up on good terms or bad?
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11-08-06, 12:54 PM
It is hard to say. I think it depends on how long it has been since the breakup and whether you are over the person or not. Unsettled feelings can certainly cloud judgement. However, I would say that there isn't a single ex girlfriend that I would go back to.
If we were real citizens, then there would be no need for "Civil Rights". There are already enough laws on the law books to protect the rights of real citizens.

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11-08-06, 02:00 PM
Erm nope. We broke up for good reason.
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11-08-06, 03:09 PM
@That depends why you broke up and the issues in question and who is fundamentally at fault...It doesn't follow that the person who is dumped for want of a better term is completely at fault in any shape of form...It can be your own atttitudes at the time which was part of that problem no matter how insignificant....
Abs is right you ended for a reason but experience teaches how insignificant that may, or may change with time and maturity..I know I was brutal as a young man in my twenties where women stepped out of line or broke the rules of engagement...They were gone and it was that simple...A young man has far more to prove than an older one who has done it and knows it and can deal in a more balanced manner than thinking how this may look or need to teach this woman and all women who they are ****ing about with...
Another issue is about personal growth and life goals which each individual has..It might not be possible to go back into an old relationship because you have grown so much or are that type of individual which places that other person in a catch up position from the off which is not a good place to start any relationship...
But it does happen and you hear all the time people getting married to an old ex and that type of stuff.
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11-08-06, 03:12 PM
As said, it depends on what happened. Some I would for sure, some hell no!
I no be gentleman at all O!
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11-08-06, 03:23 PM
Depends, but in most cases no.
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11-08-06, 09:56 PM
Not a chance in hell!!!
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11-08-06, 10:11 PM
Before I would have said not a chance in hell, but now I'm starting to realise that situations can make two people have to part.
Life is one those things that most of us have to experience... Love peace \'N\' hair grease.
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12-08-06, 01:43 AM
Hell no! What's the point?
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12-08-06, 11:28 AM
Abissinia wrote:
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Erm nope. We broke up for good reason.
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16-08-06, 10:07 AM
It depends on the circumstances of the break up and whether the problem is able to be rectified, providing both parties want to. Most cases I would say no, but it really depends on pros and cons.
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16-08-06, 10:46 AM
Depends
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18-08-06, 01:13 PM
No way...out with the old in with the new....
If we were meant to be together, he wouldn't be my 'ex'
Hey!! everyone. I\'m all about God, peace and love!!
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19-08-06, 12:14 AM
What? Leave my Hubby who works all the hours God sends to provide for us, for someone who promises his kids everything and delivers nothing?
Tough question....
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