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06-09-06, 07:40 PM
My younger male cousin earlier this week asked me an odd question about kisses and butterflies, and if i had ever gotton any...
I was shocked to hear that males experience these butterflies also, i have only experienced butterflies once and thought i was in love, (yes thought, it was only once i was young andit feltextreemly strange and very much a physical experience)but as years have gone on i have been made to belive that butterflies and kisses are common and do not actually mean anything...
i want to know.. Do people think that kisses carry meaning and do any other males experience the same or simlilar feelings?
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07-09-06, 01:47 AM
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i'll come back later..blktrainers
ok, im back, yes kissing is very very deep, and when a blackman /woman kisses u ..pure desire is on the cards..deisre =butterflies
there is just something about our big jiucy lips, and our spirit that , can and will blow ur ass away lol.
butterflies can lead to deeperconnections with ur partner/spouse..to love.
Ive yet to know if peeps in 20 yr realionhips still get BUTTERFLIES.
orif u let ur soul mate go , do ever feel them again? Elders fill us in  plz!
I beleive that who I am is enough..........
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07-09-06, 09:21 PM
A kiss reveals a lot about a woman, that is if you know how to read a kiss. For instance, a Black woman that gives you all of her lips, instead of a normal kiss usually means she is really into you, perhaps even in love. I personally think that a kiss is very important. Sometimes the mouth can convey more when it is not talking.
If we were real citizens, then there would be no need for "Civil Rights". There are already enough laws on the law books to protect the rights of real citizens.

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07-09-06, 10:36 PM
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A kiss reveals a lot about a woman, that is if you know how to read a kiss. For instance, a Black woman that gives you all of her lips, instead of a normal kiss usually means she is really into you, perhaps even in love. I personally think that a kiss is very important. Sometimes the mouth can convey more when it is not talking.
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So do you experience any physical feelings yourself or is it just a way to read the other persons emotions... And cant some kisses be decieving...
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07-09-06, 10:46 PM
Definately get that feeling as a man when you kiss a women especially when its the first one....or if you've been apart for long periods...
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08-09-06, 12:09 AM
Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing..
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08-09-06, 12:13 AM
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Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing..
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LOL at so many stages as well
Meeting them
Trying to get the number
That first phonecall
First time linking them
And yes obviously when you kiss her.
I no be gentleman at all O!
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Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing..
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i do hope this doesnt apply to all women or you must have some serious stomach problems LOL
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08-09-06, 12:19 AM
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i'll come back later..blktrainers
ok, im back, yes kissing is very very deep, and when a blackman /woman kisses u ..pure desire is on the cards..deisre =butterflies
there is just something about our big jiucy lips, and our spirit that , can and will blow ur ass away lol.
butterflies can lead to deeperconnections with ur partner/spouse..to love.
Ive yet to know if peeps in 20 yr realionhips still get BUTTERFLIES.
orif u let ur soul mate go , do ever feel them again? Elders fill us in plz!
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so you back eh! lol...
Do you think kissing is more emotional than "making love"? even though kissing may be invoved in the latter part...
Ever kissed a girl u werent interested in and still got butterflies? then what is it her or jsut the kiss... how can you define whther you really actually like some1 or that they are just great at kissing
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08-09-06, 10:36 AM
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Kiss a girl??
I am girl , my lord...
yes i do beleive kissing is moreemotional than sex,his tongue is like the penis in my eyes, and my mouth is my honeypot, and what he can do with his tongue ,shows his talent, so no need to feel his lunchbox.  kissing can be like sex with the right person. all the feelings you get thru sex can be acheived through kissing alone if you only use your imagination !niceone.gif
Iknow if people kissed more rather than rushed and jump into the sack, there would be less unwanted pregancies and less broken relationships, (remember the days of courtships?..
I had a boyfriend and allI did for the first 2 years of the romance,WAS kiss
the butterflies lasted longer , but it seemed to me, they disappeared witha long lack of contact or sex.:?
Butterflies.Why do they occur? and what does it mean when tWo people feel them at the exact same time? is it then sprituallol?
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08-09-06, 04:25 PM
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apologise.. i tried to figure out whether you were male/female... i gave up and just went with male...
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08-09-06, 07:20 PM
Have never understood that popular saying that says a kiss is deeper and more intimate than sex. What a strange notion! For sure kissing is deep and meaningful but the comparison is weird.
Ain't as if you have sex without kissing... is it?confused3
I think this was something said in that movie "pretty woman" and people ran with it despite the obvious difference that Julia Roberts was playing a PROSTITUTE so obviously wasn't about kissing lol.
For us non prostitute/trick/john/ho people things are a bit different no?
I'm sure everybody puts a whole big deal more thought into who they kiss above who they jump in the sack with. I hope so anyway.
I no be gentleman at all O!
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11-09-06, 01:27 AM
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So do you experience any physical feelings yourself or is it just a way to read the other persons emotions... And cant some kisses be decieving...
I do experience feelings. A good kiss is one of the best turn-ons for me. If a woman can kiss, then it is usually the prelude to steamy intimacy. And yes, some kisses can be decieving. This is why I try my best to read females before I even get intimate. Once blood starts flowing to a man's genitalia, there is often not enough blood for the brain to think clearly.
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If we were real citizens, then there would be no need for "Civil Rights". There are already enough laws on the law books to protect the rights of real citizens.

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11-09-06, 04:42 AM
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Have never understood that popular saying that says a kiss is deeper and more intimate than sex. What a strange notion! For sure kissing is deep and meaningful but the comparison is weird.
Ain't as if you have sex without kissing... is it?confused3
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I know quite a few people who have sex without kissing and tahts exactly what they call it.... sex and not making love.. so arguably yes you can have sex without kissing
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