any man who cannot recognise another man being good looking, avg, or butters is trying to hard not to sound gay bcos he's either DL, or is deceiving himself that his bredrins who would instantly call him gay for 'watching nex man too hard' are DL.

10 yrs ago this was not a problem. now everything is 'ur gay' this and that.

having said that, british born and bred men or people in general are quite insular, so culturally they dont do things like that very casually. the places i grew up, if a guy was very muscular or good looking it coudl be commented on and there would be nothing gay about it.

but still, its the try too hard ones you have to watch out for.

I totally agree with "manwiththemirror" the society has changed over the past 10 years. Due to the influx of Persons with their Third World mentality e.g. Jamaica, nigeria, lithuania and other parts of the world saying that if you look at a man hard "ur gay" its the way they were brought up in whatever country, so they allow the limitations of conventional, ignorant and belligerent thinking confine their ambitions and so limit themselves and others from upward mobility that comes with an open mind, in a country which they need an open mind in order to succeed and survive, they need to realize that they are no longer there and not change but accept that this is the society they now live in.

I disagree. The whole metrosexual gay thing is a very western first world concept. It is here in the west, that gayness is so accepted and widespread that gayness is assumed when men comment on another man's looks.

I can't speak for the Carribean, but in Nigeria in my experience when men comment on another man's looks, they are not immediately considered gay. Gayness just isnt thatvisible and accepted, so it isnt the first thing that pops up.

In America their is a double standard. A Woman can say another woman look beautiful. People wouldn't assume she gay she is gay and think it is alright, but if a man says another man looks good people would say he sounds gay. Its a double standard women can do it, but men can't.